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@aleccat.bsky.social

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No wonder I see myself in certain characters haha

29.11.2025 23:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sometime between now and being a teenager, I was taught that sharing your feelings was bad.
So now I'm a 30 year old who pretends everything is fine as I hide every frayed edge of my soul.

29.11.2025 23:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I don't think I've ever worn a cosplay as much as I wear Raven!Neil.
Be it casually on a regular day, or at any event...ever ๐Ÿ˜‚

13.11.2025 21:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wdym she's my friend, when in reality I'd die for her over and over again and I've never loved, but also hated, anyone more?!?!?!

08.11.2025 00:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sometimes I think about how I have to introduce certain people in such a dishonest way, just because there's no proper way to introduce them?

08.11.2025 00:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm not really present, online or not... hope everyone is thriving out there tho โค๏ธ

23.09.2025 00:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Do you ever draw art that hurts your heart?

24.08.2025 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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andreil smooching โœจ๏ธ

#aftg #allforthegame

14.07.2025 10:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 175    ๐Ÿ” 68    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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Family photo ๐Ÿ“ธโค๏ธ
#allforthegame #aftg #jerejean #catalinaalvarez #lailadermott #jeanmoreau #jeremyknox #fanart

15.07.2025 16:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 60    ๐Ÿ” 20    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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two boys looking cool mysterious celestial look 2025 watch online

#andreil #aftg

16.07.2025 22:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 49    ๐Ÿ” 19    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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leggy โœ๏ธ #andreil #aftg

17.07.2025 00:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 104    ๐Ÿ” 27    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When your cat's a master of disguise.

21.06.2025 18:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 23378    ๐Ÿ” 1729    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 287    ๐Ÿ“Œ 76

I finished reading Captive Prince yesterday, and thus, my to read list is just...empty?!

17.06.2025 23:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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another cherry ๐Ÿ’ #artpost

22.05.2025 22:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5634    ๐Ÿ” 702    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 47    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

I'm sure they will ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿป

18.05.2025 22:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I need to finish posting the aftg cards, but alas, life got in the way for like 6 months straight

18.05.2025 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What do you even do with an accusation that's not true, but still hurts you?

18.05.2025 21:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#andreil #aftg woops, them again

16.05.2025 15:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 67    ๐Ÿ” 33    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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who's gonna tell them that the public bathroom at Eden's isn't the best place to get it on?

#andreil #andrewminyard #neiljosten #aftg #aftgfanart #allforthegame

16.05.2025 09:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 187    ๐Ÿ” 67    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

And if you don't want to be rude, just say something like: "Pretty cool name for your parents to give you" or anything that can let the person decide for themselves if they want to share whether or not the name they have came from the get-go or later....

03.04.2025 11:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'd rather someone just straight up ask if I'm trans. At least it'd be straightforward.

03.04.2025 11:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think we should stop asking people if they chose their own name. It puts the person in such a weird position where you force them to either
1) Come out
2) Lie

03.04.2025 11:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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This was, and still is a massacre btw

31.03.2025 22:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 116    ๐Ÿ” 15    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 16    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Home๐Ÿ”‘
#andreil #aftg

01.04.2025 14:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 133    ๐Ÿ” 50    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

2 concerts in a week, let's go ๐ŸŽ‰

01.04.2025 00:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I regret not putting a hold on Prince's Gambit as soon as I got CaPri.....
Having to wait around 10 weeks is gonna KILL ME

28.03.2025 23:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'd say I wasn't too crazy, but then I remember I have a playlist with over 180 songs dedicated to one person, and I realise that I am indeed pretty crazy ๐Ÿคช

28.03.2025 23:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We hadn't talked since sometime in the fall last year...and haven't seen each other in almost 2 years?
So the fact that we somehow thought of each other in the same 10 minutes on a random Friday is insane

28.03.2025 22:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I don't particularly believe in soulmates, but having that one person text me out of the blue less than 5 minutes after I thought about them....
It makes me believe in ...something...

28.03.2025 22:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I finished Captive Prince today...and I'm so very glad to have two more books to go ๐Ÿซก

28.03.2025 10:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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