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@johnstepper.bsky.social

Founder of workingoutloud.com. Current project: "The Best of Men", a not-for-profit program where men explore questions of identity and purpose while cultivating connections and self-efficacy.

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At film forum in NYC…

08.05.2025 00:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The wisdom of tea: β€œThe difference between a flower and a weed is a judgment.”

01.05.2025 01:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œBuilding Empathy in a Fractured World”. Seems like a good time to read this….

27.04.2025 21:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Thich Nhat Hanh Way in upper Manhattan. 😎 πŸ™

27.04.2025 20:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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You know your kids are in a good school when a senior administrator walks around offering you β€œpocket poems.”

I picked two good ones. πŸ€“ πŸ₯°

10.04.2025 14:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I ❀️ my local NY public library (100th St between Columbus & Amsterdam). Wonderful service. Super clean and warm. Stewarded by caring and kind staff here. πŸ€“ πŸ“š πŸ₯°

04.04.2025 19:21 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Andrew Garfield and Elmo Explain Grief | Sesame Workshop
YouTube video by Sesame Workshop Andrew Garfield and Elmo Explain Grief | Sesame Workshop

I mention I missed someone today and was sent this Sesame Street video with Andrew Garfield. How lovely. πŸ₯²

youtu.be/EVlXbiP4x2E?...

31.03.2025 17:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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With so many posts about libraries in my feed I thought I would share the latest book I borrowed…about a library.

β€œWhat you are looking for is in the library” So true… πŸ“š πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅πŸ€“.

30.03.2025 23:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Freak coincidence? Orβ€¦β€œThe Baader-Meinhof phenomenon, also known as the frequency illusion, is a cognitive bias where you notice something you recently learned about, and then seem to encounter it more frequently, even though the actual frequency hasn't changed.”

29.03.2025 19:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Catbird seat - Wikipedia

TIL that β€œsitting in the catbird seat” has nothing to do with a cat. (I used the expression with my daughter, who looked at me like I’m a living anachronism, and realized I didn’t know where the expression came from.)

What other wondrous surprises await me? πŸ€“

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catbird...

28.03.2025 16:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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One of the first Gmail ads I might be interested in. Oh, Canada! πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ πŸ‘ πŸ₯°

22.03.2025 18:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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'Spring has returned: the Earth is like a child that knows poems by heart'

β€” Rainer Maria Rilke

20.03.2025 11:24 β€” πŸ‘ 49    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Cultural differences summed up as we pack snacks for the plane ✈️

PBJ for me. πŸ₯œ πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ
Rice balls for my wife. πŸ™ πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅

πŸ₯°

16.03.2025 11:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The Two-headed Calf
Tomorrow when the farm boys find this freak of nature, they will wrap his body in newspaper and carry him to the museum.
But tonight he is alive and in the north field with his mother. It is a perfect summer evening: the moon rising over the orchard, the wind in the grass.
And as he stares into the sky, there are twice as many stars as usual.

The Two-headed Calf Tomorrow when the farm boys find this freak of nature, they will wrap his body in newspaper and carry him to the museum. But tonight he is alive and in the north field with his mother. It is a perfect summer evening: the moon rising over the orchard, the wind in the grass. And as he stares into the sky, there are twice as many stars as usual.

Well, now I’m just sobbing. Thank you Laura Gilpin. You are missed.

12.03.2025 20:28 β€” πŸ‘ 2852    πŸ” 359    πŸ’¬ 71    πŸ“Œ 23

On 🎯.

10.03.2025 21:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Bless the good people who put dinosaur tracks in wet cement on 95th Street, leading from their front door. πŸ₯° πŸ¦–

Makes me smile every time I walk by. 😊

07.03.2025 16:24 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yay indeed. :-) Thank you for all that you share here. Makes social media seem…nice again. :-)

06.03.2025 21:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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America by Simon & Garfunkel on AppleΒ Music Song Β· 1968 Β· Duration 3:35

β€œβ€˜Cathy, I’m lost,’ I said, though I knew she was sleeping. β€˜I’m empty and aching and I don’t know why.’”

This lyric is 57 years old, and yet it captures the poignant despair of so many men today.

HT @forgottenpoets.bsky.social for attuning me to poetry in life. πŸ™

music.apple.com/us/album/ame...

05.03.2025 18:12 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

😊 πŸ‘ž πŸ‘  πŸ™

04.03.2025 01:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Love, euphoria, and tragedy all in six lines.

20.02.2025 21:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Just started this and it’s fantastic. Insightful, useful, and very funny.

20.02.2025 15:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Chilling. I’ve heard this from friends who work in universities, NGOs, and non-profits.

11.02.2025 21:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We got a message from the university to remove any use of the "DEI", "diversity", "equity", or "inclusion" from all public-facing documents. They said that even "biodiversity" is being flagged by the federal government. We live in the dumbest timeline.

11.02.2025 08:47 β€” πŸ‘ 26535    πŸ” 5348    πŸ’¬ 908    πŸ“Œ 633
E.B. White

I admire anyone who has the guts to write anything at all.

E.B. White I admire anyone who has the guts to write anything at all.

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

08.02.2025 00:12 β€” πŸ‘ 74    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
In 150 Characters or Lesss

Everything is on fire, but everyone I love is doing beautiful things
and trying to make life worth living,
and I know I don't have to believe in everything,
but I believe in that.

In 150 Characters or Lesss Everything is on fire, but everyone I love is doing beautiful things and trying to make life worth living, and I know I don't have to believe in everything, but I believe in that.

Nikita Gill.

03.02.2025 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1234    πŸ” 407    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6
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We may succeed (by some measures) on our own, but β€œall flourishing is mutual.”

HT to the NY Public Library for this book. A nice weekend read. πŸ€“

01.02.2025 00:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This I love. And resemble more each day.

29.01.2025 23:21 β€” πŸ‘ 5510    πŸ” 833    πŸ’¬ 159    πŸ“Œ 45

I’ve done this (after, I admit, checking that no one was watching).

Worked like a charm. 🌲 🌳 😊

24.01.2025 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Beautiful. Loneliness can be a world-class marathoner. As are self-doubt, fear, anxiety, and sadness. But oh to occasionally leave them β€œpanting behind you on some street corner”! β€œA victory!” indeed.

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