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Recovery talk with honesty, humor, and zero subtlety. Breaking the stigma around mental health and addiction. https://www.sobernotsubtle.com Join the convo. #SoberNotSubtle #Recovery #Sober #MentalHealth #BreakTheStigma #AddictionRecovery

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We spend so much energy trying to control the uncontrollable. This is your reminder to come back to whatโ€™s actually yours to carry.

#MentalHealth #MindsetMatters #LetGo #ControlWhatYouCan #SoberNotSubtle #RecoveryTools #MentalHealthBlog #AddictionRecoveryBlog #HealthAndWellnessBlog #SoberBlog

04.08.2025 13:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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This image popped up and hit me harder than I expected.
โ€œHope lots of things make you happy today.โ€
Not everything. Not perfectly. Justโ€ฆ lots.
Sometimes a moment of peace, a kind word, or one thing going right is enough.

#MentalHealthAwareness #SoberNotSubtle #ProgressNotPerfection

01.08.2025 12:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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You donโ€™t have to have it all figured out to be proud of who you are. Masterpiece. Mess. Magic. All at once. ๐ŸŽจโœจ #WorkInProgress #SelfLove #SoberNotSubtle

30.07.2025 12:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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In the final half of his story, Michael Letzeisen dives deeper into life after alcoholโ€”where the real work begins.
๐Ÿง  Read โ€œLife After Alcohol: Finding Myself in Sobriety (Part Two of Two)โ€
๐Ÿ“– sobernotsubtle.com

#mentalhealthblog #soberblog #addictionrecoveryblog #SoberNotSubtle

25.07.2025 14:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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โ€œPositive vibes onlyโ€ is emotional gaslighting with glitter. Youโ€™re human. Youโ€™re allowed to feel the whole damn spectrum. ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’ญ
#MentalHealthMatters #FeelYourFeelings #SoberNotSubtle #EmotionalHonesty #MentalHealthBlog #AddictionRecoveryBlog #HealthAndWellnessBlog #SoberBlog

24.07.2025 12:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sobriety isnโ€™t just about what you leave behindโ€”itโ€™s about everything you gain.
Recovery doesnโ€™t just change livesโ€”it builds them.
Letโ€™s keep showing whatโ€™s possible. ๐Ÿ’ช
#RecoveryWorks #Inspiration #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictionRecovery #SoberNotSubtle #PeerSupport #HealthAndWellnessBlog

21.07.2025 14:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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This weekโ€™s reminder: Youโ€™re not just the caretaker. Youโ€™re on the list too. ๐Ÿซถ #SelfCareIsNotSelfish #TakeCareOfYou #MentalHealthMatters #SoberNotSubtle #RecoveryIsSelfLove

18.07.2025 13:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From Rock Bottom to Bearcrawling Toward Purpose Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

๐Ÿ”ฅ From rock bottom to bear-crawling toward purpose.
Brentonโ€™s story is raw, real, and full of grit.
No shortcuts. Just the truth.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Read it now: sobernotsubtle.com/2025/07/04/f...

#RecoveryStory #SoberNotSubtle #MentalHealthBlog #AddictionRecoveryBlog #SoberBlog #HealthAndWellnessBlog

15.07.2025 12:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Gratitude isnโ€™t about settlingโ€”itโ€™s about seeing clearly. You could chase more forever, but today, this coffee, this breath, this momentโ€ฆ is already enough. โ˜• #Gratitude #MindfulLiving #PowerOfPositivity

14.07.2025 12:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Youโ€™re allowed to want moreโ€”peace, joy, purpose. The universe isnโ€™t broke, and neither is your spirit. ๐Ÿ“โœจ #RecoveryIsRich #AbundanceMindset #SoberAndThriving #AskForMore #MentalHealthMatters #SoberNotSubtle #AddictionRecoveryBlog #SoberBlog #HealthAndWellnessBlog

12.07.2025 14:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐ŸŒน Perspective is everything. You can focus on the thornsโ€ฆ or celebrate the roses. Life might be prickly sometimes, but thereโ€™s beauty tucked in the pain if youโ€™re willing to see it. ๐ŸŒฑ
#GratitudeShift #PerspectiveMatters #MentalHealthBlog #SoberBlog #AddictionRecoveryBlog #SoberNotSubtle

02.07.2025 12:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Recovery Poetry: The Straight Line Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

Just gonna drop a little recovery poetry right here. Just becauseโ€ฆ Send us your recovery poems. Weโ€™d love to feature them on the site!

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01.07.2025 21:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sometimes the detour is the destination.
We donโ€™t always get the map we wantโ€”but we end up exactly where we need to be.
#TrustTheJourney #SoberNotSubtle #RecoveryWisdom #MentalHealthBlog #GrowthMindset

27.06.2025 12:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I Donโ€™t Want to Be Disabled, But I Am Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

I love everything about this post by Sarah Fader. She rips the label off disabilityโ€”and rewrites the narrative. Itโ€™s not about being broken. Itโ€™s about being brilliantly different. #DisabilityPride #MentalHealthAwareness #SoberNotSubtle #DifferentNotBroken #AuthenticLiving

27.06.2025 12:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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In recovery, every moment we spend stuck in the past is a moment we lose in the present. Healing doesnโ€™t mean weโ€™re happy all the timeโ€”but it does mean we get to choose peace over pain, one moment at a time.
#SobrietyJourney #ChooseHealing
#OneDayAtATime #RecoveryIsPossible #SoberNotSubtle

25.06.2025 12:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Room for Recovery: Reflections from the Local Jail Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

My latest piece on Sober Not Subtle is about what Iโ€™ve learned bringing meetings into the local jailโ€”and how healing shows up when we least expect it.

#RecoveryStory #SoberNotSubtle #AddictionRecovery #PeerSupport #MentalHealthBlog

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24.06.2025 11:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿ’กYou can have a crowd cheering for you, but if youโ€™re not in your own corner, it wonโ€™t mean a thing. Self-belief is the real game-changer.๐Ÿ”ฅ #MentalHealth #SelfWorth #BelieveInYourself #SoberNotSubtle #RecoveryIsPossible

23.06.2025 11:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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People come and goโ€”and thatโ€™s not a failure, itโ€™s a feature. Let the arrivals fill you with gratitude, and the exits make you stronger. ๐ŸŒฑ๐Ÿ’ช #GrowthMindset #GratitudeAndStrength #SoberNotSubtle #mentalhealthblog #soberblog #healthandwellnessblog #addictionrecoveryblog

19.06.2025 15:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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On A Mission From God Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

Grief. Faith. Purpose.
Kevin Paullโ€™s latest guest post hits hardโ€”in the best way.
๐Ÿ”— sobernotsubtle.com/2025/06/16/o...
#SoberNotSubtle #RecoveryJourney #MentalHealth

18.06.2025 16:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Asking for respect isnโ€™t asking for too much. Itโ€™s asking for the bare minimum. Donโ€™t let anyone make you feel guilty for having standards.

#SelfRespect, #MentalHealthMatters, #BoundariesAreHealthy, #HealingJourney, #SoberNotSubtle

17.06.2025 12:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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You deserve softness.
Speak to yourself with love.
Rest without guilt.
Laugh without apology.
And choose people who make you feel lighter, not smaller.
Protect your peace like itโ€™s your damn job.
Because it is. ๐Ÿ’›
#SoberNotSubtle #SelfLoveClub #ProtectYourPeace #MentalHealthMatters #AddictionRecovery

16.06.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Fatherโ€™s Day Letter to the Sober Dads (and the Ones Trying to Be) Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

To the dads showing up, staying sober, and doing the workโ€”this oneโ€™s for you. Whether youโ€™ve got years under your belt or youโ€™re just trying to make it through today, your effort matters. You matter. ๐Ÿ’™
#soberdads #recoveryjourney #mentalhealthblog #soberblog #addictionrecoveryblog #SoberNotSubtle

14.06.2025 16:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Power of Peer Support: Why Lived Experience Matters in Behavioral Health Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

Lived experience isnโ€™t a buzzwordโ€”itโ€™s a lifeline. Peer support changes lives, builds trust, and proves recovery is possible. #peersupport #livedexperience #recoveryjourney #SoberNotSubtle

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13.06.2025 12:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿง This quote from Dan Millman hits home for anyone whoโ€™s ever felt held hostage by their own thoughts. Itโ€™s not about silencing themโ€ฆ itโ€™s about not giving them the ๐ŸŽค
#MentalHealthAwareness #RecoveryTools #MindfulnessInAction #SoberNotSubtle

13.06.2025 11:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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If theyโ€™re not giving Golden Girls loyalty, Schittโ€™s Creek laughs, or Ted Lasso heartโ€”they can exit stage left. Surround yourself with your ride-or-dies, not background extras. ๐ŸŽฌโœจ #SquadGoals #MainCharacterEnergy #ProtectYourPeace #rideordie #sobernotsubtle

12.06.2025 12:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Balancing Motherhood and Recovery: Lessons Learned Explore Sober Not Subtle for recovery stories, resources, self-help, peer insights, and merch that celebrates sobriety. Break stigma. Inspire change.

Motherhood and recovery donโ€™t come with manualsโ€”but Danielle Itgenโ€™s story is packed with wisdom, grit, and heart. A must-read for anyone navigating both. ๐Ÿ’œ

#sobermom #recoveryjourney #sobernotsubtle

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11.06.2025 13:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐ŸŽ‰ Celebrating 90 years of Alcoholics Anonymous! From its humble beginnings in Akron, Ohio in 1935 to a global fellowship of healing and hope in 2025 โ€” AAโ€™s legacy continues to change lives, one day at a time. ๐Ÿ’› #AA90 #SoberAnniversary #HopeAndRecovery #OneDayAtATime

10.06.2025 12:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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No one rolled out of bed today to play small. Mediocrity called, but you sent it to voicemail. Letโ€™s go be excellent. ๐Ÿ’ฅ #NoMoreMediocre #RiseAndThrive #SoberNotSubtle #MentalHealthBlog #AddictionRecoveryBlog #HealthAndWellnessBlog

09.06.2025 13:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐ŸŒˆ This Pride Month, Sober Not Subtle stands with the LGBTQ+ communityโ€”with love, respect, and solidarity.
Whoever you are, you belong hereโ€”in recovery, in pride, in life. ๐Ÿ’›
#PrideMonth #SoberPride #LGBTQSupport #SoberNotSubtle

08.06.2025 15:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿšจ Looking for a sign to skip the drink today? BOOM. Here it is.
Sometimes the message is loud, clear, and shaped like a stop sign.
#SoberNotSubtle #RecoveryHumor #OneDayAtATime #MentalHealthBlog #SoberBlog #AddictionRecoveryBlog

07.06.2025 14:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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