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@visalty.bsky.social

she/her || disabled || CTD & co || neurodivergent trauma survivor || if you don’t wear a mask, I want nothing to do with you

100 Followers  |  100 Following  |  153 Posts  |  Joined: 23.06.2023  |  1.8588

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Please. If anyone has a couple dollars to spare please consider helping us, but only if you’re able to. If you’re not able to donate, please consider sharing my links.

venmo.com/u/visaltyy

14.12.2023 15:08 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

My parents have decided that they’re withdrawing a portion of their financial support that keeps us from having to use credit cards for utilities. I explicitly asked them for help, and they purposely withdrew support. I need help.

venmo.com/u/visaltyy

14.12.2023 15:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I am going through a number of health problems, making it impossible for me to work. My husband is also disabled, but still in between jobs.

venmo.com/u/visaltyy

14.12.2023 15:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I am still not really able to be online for most of my day as I need to focus on resting and staying hydrated, but I would really appreciate any assistance you’re able to give. Anything helps. If you can’t, please consider sharing my link

venmo.com/u/visaltyy

14.12.2023 15:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

If it wasn’t evident already, the above tweet is a sarcastic reaction to try to help me process the absolute panic I feel in regard to my husband’s and my future.

14.12.2023 06:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

A pool. My mother wants a pool.

I’m so glad that my mother is able to save enough monthly to “finally get [her] pool before next summer” while my husband and I struggle to pay rent and buy groceries.

14.12.2023 06:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I need help and I just really don’t know what to do at this point. Everyone is so eager to offer me assistance and then pretend like I don’t exist the moment I try to take them up on it.

This is why how I’ve been trained to never ask for help.

14.12.2023 06:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

But since my body and my disabilities are not working on their timeline, I must be doing something wrong.

14.12.2023 06:22 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I hate that my parents are punishing me because I’m disabled. They think I actively choose to “ignore reality,” as they have put it, and use my disabilities as an excuse to not do things (read: get a job). They call me entitled for asking for the help they initially offered

14.12.2023 06:22 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

My abusive parents are withdrawing a portion of their financial support while my husband is still out of a job. I am still unable to work due to my disabilities, but don’t qualify for SSDI because of my husband.

Please share, anything helps
venmo.com/u/visaltyy

14.12.2023 05:53 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

So if anyone is able to (I know how hard this time of year is), this is a link to my Venmo. Anything helps, but please only if you’re able to. I do ask that you please share this as my intermittent absences really affect my Twitter reach.

venmo.com/u/visaltyy
Venmo: visaltyy

14.12.2023 05:52 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1

And I’m not in a position to just say “fuck it and fuck you” and forgo their “help” altogether. Again, they know this. I just don’t know what to do at this point but desperately need help.

14.12.2023 05:52 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

My father has now come out and said they’re withdrawing some support because I don’t talk to them enough.

I don’t talk to my abusive parents enough to receive the proper amount of financial support to keep me from paying bills with my credit card. I fucking can’t.

14.12.2023 05:52 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

They explicitly know this and I have explicitly asked for more help because of this. They have since only contacted my husband about this and purposely did not involve me in decisions that directly affect me. They have access to my bank account and can confirm they go through it.

14.12.2023 05:51 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I know it’s late and I’ve been offline for a while dealing x, y and z things with my health, but my husband and I are really struggling. My abusive parents have decided to withdrawal some of my monthly support for bills. My husband has been out of a job since early October

14.12.2023 05:51 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Even though I still feel like absolute shit (and am still in a major flare) I can tell I’m feeling a little better because I’m actually able to think

11.10.2023 18:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Please share widely!
Please help our beloved @tinu.bsky.social access chemo medication!
We don't know if we can move her now.
Please, if you can't help, please share this.
I cannot live without Tinu.
No one should be without chemo meds because they can't afford them.

28.09.2023 18:48 — 👍 42    🔁 65    💬 2    📌 2
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Ran out of time. Almost made it with outside donations but even if I add those to the link, too short to avoid late fees.

Please and thank you if you can help.

Patreon.com/Tinu

account.venmo.com/u/TinuWrites

www.Ko-fi.com/TinuWrites

26.08.2023 12:21 — 👍 31    🔁 49    💬 0    📌 6

I would like to make a unique post about this but I’m too sick.

Each of my last to attempts to work led to three weeks of downtime.

Don’t know how you do mutual aid here. Please help me survive cancer and long covid.

11.10.2023 18:17 — 👍 68    🔁 79    💬 3    📌 2

One day I will have enough energy to shave my legs again

(I hope it’s soon because leg hair is honestly a sensory nightmare for me and always always always gets caught in my compression socks)

11.10.2023 18:27 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

And the only thing better than that would be freshly shaved legs in my clean sheets but I haven’t had enough energy for that in months

11.10.2023 18:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

One of my absolute favorite things ever is getting into clean sheets after shower

11.10.2023 18:25 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I had enough energy to shower today and my husband put clean sheets on the bed

11.10.2023 18:23 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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🚨 Please donate and share! I need neurosurgeries for untreated issues I’ve had since I was a baby, kid, young adult

It’s taken years to be taken seriously and get to the global expert surgeon who is ready to help! Medicare covers 80% but Medicaid covers nothing as it’s out-of-state t.co/E5MRE5ixeX

02.10.2023 06:35 — 👍 34    🔁 40    💬 3    📌 6

I am in a Mood™️ this morning

30.09.2023 10:47 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

THESE ARE PERFECTLY VALID REASONS FOR WANTING TO SEE A GENETICIST ON TOP OF THE WILD ARRAY OF CONDITIONS AND SYMPTOMS I’M HAVING TO JUST LIVE WITH

30.09.2023 10:47 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

And then convincing me my grandfather’s heart was fine when he had TWO pacemakers in his lifetime

What the fuck else has she been lying about?

30.09.2023 10:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

How can I ever give a correct and full family medical history if my mother is so cagey about it? I doesn’t tears and tears thinking my grandmother had IBS—NOPE—diverticulosis/diverticulitis

That would have been excellent info years ago, thanks for nothing!!

30.09.2023 10:45 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

What if I’m dealing with endometriosis AND Inflammatory Bowel Disease UGH

Good morning to everyone but my insides

30.09.2023 10:09 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Would love to know how to stop feeling like shit when I need to shit

Although I’m pretty sure I have Chrons lol

21.09.2023 18:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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