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Divorced/separated ex spouses/partners of clergy, supporting each other & calling for better support of ministers' families, before, during & after breakdown. UK based, international & interdenominational. Est. 1983 brokenrites.org

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18.10.2025 11:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Haven't been paying attention to this but, surprise surprise, it seems like there are still plenty of people out there who have no clue about how power dynamics work ๐Ÿ™„

18.10.2025 11:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh Amol ๐Ÿ˜
Love the way the University Challenge desk makes him look like a little boy.

Yes indeed. I think I knew that. We need more decent 3D human encounters, because they are where the life comes from

17.10.2025 21:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes. Radical.

17.10.2025 20:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The last one made me snigger

16.10.2025 21:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Maybe they're too busy checking in with clergy families, especially those with marriages in crisis or beyond repair... ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

15.10.2025 21:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This โ˜๏ธ

15.10.2025 21:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hope is a thing we have to do

15.10.2025 21:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As per usual, "procedural realities", and minimising the risk of drawing attention to the mess, seem to be more important than human beings ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

15.10.2025 21:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love a good moos story

13.10.2025 19:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

#CofE โœ๏ธ

10.10.2025 19:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks. Please repost!

This may only be a tiny survey but we are convinced it's the tip of a very large iceberg, across all denominations.

Those affected often believe they are the only one. They're really not!

10.10.2025 19:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

With thanks to our members who contributed to this and worked hard on it, and to @churchtimes.bsky.social for this report.
We, and our children, wait to see who takes notice of it..!

10.10.2025 18:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

PS looks lush though. If anyone can get the time off, I'd say GFI

06.10.2025 21:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh my word, you mean it's going to get worse? Isn't the start of autumn term busy and exciting enough?

06.10.2025 21:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well said

03.10.2025 09:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Out of interest (self-interest):
Anyone looking specifically into the outworkings of a culture that heavily emphasised/s self-denial & sacrifice in the lives of women of a certain age?

25.09.2025 15:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Preview
Neuroscience finds musicians feel pain differently from the rest of us Can musical training rewire the brain to resist pain?

Can musical training rewire the brain to resist pain?

24.09.2025 17:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

The current fashion for #LivedExperience too often reduces human beings to a soundbite, to fit someone else's agenda. It leaves people (and too often their kids) vulnerable & no closer to being really heard

17.09.2025 16:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fear, I fear

17.09.2025 16:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(And btw, obvs not just Labour- in case anyone objects to our appearing to take sides๐Ÿ™„)

17.09.2025 16:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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We believe you.

Speaking up after experiencing #DomesticAbuse can be extremely difficult, but weโ€™re always here to listen. There is no shame in needing help.

For more information contact us on:
โ˜Ž๏ธ 0151 263 7474
โ˜Ž๏ธ 0800 084 2744
๐ŸŒ LiverpoolDomesticAbuseService.org.uk

17.09.2025 13:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The ever-widening gaps are appalling.

Let's just start a better society, and walk tall anyway.

#Poverty #Justice #Dignity

#ShameMustChangeSides here too

17.09.2025 16:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

FYI Universal Credit for a single person is ยฃ4,801.68 per annum for which you will be harassed, coerced and threatened constantly via your own mobile phone by the DWP, while in media you will be called scrounging workshy scum by the LABOUR party.

16.09.2025 22:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 49    ๐Ÿ” 28    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Ah, the challenge- How to channel the pain and anger whilst still feeling it, still on the receiving end of all that causes it, and yep, feeling responsible to sort it all out!
Advocates needed ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿฅด

13.09.2025 13:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not seen that performance before... Just, WOW.
Thanks for sharing

11.09.2025 21:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Much of the noise is an attempt to control people. Silence is letting be, which can be such a gift

09.09.2025 19:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Trying to get head around the idea that ironing board covers actually wear out... ๐Ÿค”
This one only sees daylight every few months

07.09.2025 21:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh do you do deliveries? Up the stairs, first door on the left. 7 a.m. please, but don't wake the lodger

07.09.2025 21:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

All the best with the applications.
Keep up the good work.

04.09.2025 06:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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