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@brokenrites.bsky.social

Divorced/separated ex spouses/partners of clergy, supporting each other & calling for better support of ministers' families, before, during & after breakdown. UK based, international & interdenominational. Est. 1983 brokenrites.org

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15.02.2026 09:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Cost of living crisis laid bare as almost half of Britons β€˜have Β£25 at end of week’ Exclusive: Majority of UK adults forced to make difficult choices, with almost two-thirds found to be cutting back on essentials like food and heating

This is shocking. Cost of living crisis laid bare as almost half of Britons β€˜have under Β£25 left at end of week’

Majority of UK adults forced to make difficult choices, with almost two-thirds found to be cutting back on essentials like food and heating

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home...

13.02.2026 07:25 β€” πŸ‘ 353    πŸ” 152    πŸ’¬ 40    πŸ“Œ 17

Hooray for everyone recognising that Cathy & Heathcliff's is more of a horror story than a love story

13.02.2026 08:27 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Excellent. Grateful to hear the unhelpful dynamics are being named and addressed.
We need a follow-up study about the knock-on to the people around them please!

13.02.2026 08:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you πŸ™Œ

11.02.2026 09:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is the biggest issue for those of us whose family homes were #TiedAccommodation. If you're not the office-holder, you have zero rights. You might think a moral duty would be recognised in the case of a #Vicarage or #Manse.. Sadly not

11.02.2026 09:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks. Things are on the up for me but there are so many people worse off, many of them with little prospect of escaping the broken systems.
It always helps to connect with people who "get it"! Have a good day

11.02.2026 08:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So true. Grief & exhaustion has to be "depression & anxiety" in order to buy me & my kids some recovery time. When any joy, or ability to function more highly, begins to break through, it feels like it needs to be hidden in order to perform the illness.

10.02.2026 08:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

More polarisation results from dehumanising them.
Agree about the tiredness though. Heard of another brilliant charity which has disengaged from all online/media discourse to safeguard its clients. Handing over the narrative cos culture of fear.
Didn't there used to be other motives in the world?

08.02.2026 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

But then they'll have to find another excuse to hide in the study 😲

07.02.2026 17:45 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Good memories from Clergy Spice days 30+ years ago 🫣

07.02.2026 17:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Whatever..!

06.02.2026 08:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wow

06.02.2026 08:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

No wonder she's tired

06.02.2026 08:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We feel your pain 😬

05.02.2026 08:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Up 16 places in this month’s Official Folk Albums Chart is the album β€œTroubled Horses” from @martynjosephwales.bsky.social. It features heartfelt and moving songs like this.

▢️ Watch the full Chart Show here: youtu.be/UxtdKN4OOxk

04.02.2026 18:16 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

...said in no Vicarage, ever..!

04.02.2026 08:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you all for your work on this πŸ™Œ

04.02.2026 08:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

All very plausible

01.02.2026 10:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Their recipe book is excellent. My mum is raving about the vinegar cake

01.02.2026 10:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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More than 200 killed in coltan mine collapse in eastern DRC, officials say Rubaya mine produces about 15% of the world’s coltan, which is processed into tantalum, used in mobile phones

This tragic incident highlights the completely exploitative underpinnings of our dependency on digital devices, and the limits of any talk in the global north of 'digital ethics', 'tech ethics' etc.

www.theguardian.com/world/2026/j...

01.02.2026 03:48 β€” πŸ‘ 90    πŸ” 43    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Jesus calls us not to control one another, but to set one another free"- yes please

31.01.2026 21:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe invisibility is our superpower...πŸ€”

30.01.2026 09:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Two great advocates for justice & peace πŸ˜πŸ™Œ

30.01.2026 09:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe there is a way to hide the fact that you're desperately looking for work as an old woman, who in other times & places would be retired, & who's far too scary for a 20-something boss to appoint?
#jobseekers #AI #WhatsThePoint?

29.01.2026 08:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Report outlines barriers to training for working-class ordinands ahead of Synod debate Perception remains that all clergy are middle class

Working-class candidates continue to experience a β€œcultural loss” of identity when exploring a vocation to the priesthood, as well as both academic and financial barriers to training, a paper due to be debated by the #GeneralSynod next month says

#class

28.01.2026 02:20 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Churches say divorce is about β€œfalling out of love.”
Data says otherwise. Infidelity is one of the top reasons people divorce.

Women file more often due to: immaturity, porn use, physical/emotional abuse, emotional neglect, and substance abuse.

(2014 Relationships in America Survey)

28.01.2026 02:52 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Promotional graphic for a webinar titled "UK Poverty 2026" by JRF, featuring an adult pushing a stroller with a child walking alongside, with a red brick house in the background. Event takes place at 10:30am to midday on Thursday 29th January.

Promotional graphic for a webinar titled "UK Poverty 2026" by JRF, featuring an adult pushing a stroller with a child walking alongside, with a red brick house in the background. Event takes place at 10:30am to midday on Thursday 29th January.

🚨 Last chance to register!

Tomorrow, we'll be hosting a webinar to mark the launch of our UK Poverty 2026 report.

A panel of frontline practitioners and our analysts will discuss the findings and opportunities for action.

Not to be missed!

Sign up now: https://bit.ly/459R16V

28.01.2026 07:43 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes they have their uses πŸ˜‰πŸ’ͺπŸ™Œ

25.01.2026 17:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Often those who really need it are unable to access a retreat. We're grateful for bursaries, but if you're a single parent with unhappy kids, no car, and no support, it's a distant dream.
How can they be supported? There is so much need...

25.01.2026 09:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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