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08.10.2025 16:36 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0@allthosebefore.bsky.social
Family historian, blogger, podcast guest and speaker. Pharos student. Also Mum, wife, and full-time public servant of 33 years and counting. Fuelled alternatively by coffee and wine. #FamilyHistory #Genealogy #OnePlaceStudy www.allthosebefore.org.uk
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08.10.2025 16:36 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0A beautiful map of the north Norfolk coast. π
08.10.2025 15:50 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0βNearly a million bananasβ sounds amazing - use it! π€£
08.10.2025 15:10 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I seem to recall that @historylady2013.bsky.social had a partridge hanging around near her house not so long ago.
08.10.2025 13:29 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Little bells *sewn* onto the skirt, even. Flipping autocorrect! οΏΌ
07.10.2025 21:36 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0It was a serious battle, I assure you. It wasnβt right for my figure / looked tarty / didnβt flatter my legs β¦
The objections were endless β¦ and probably all correct! π€£
Separately I still have a skirt from university days: just as short, tie-died, with little bells down onto it.
Sorry to read this. Itβs been a long time since I was a Mum to a newborn (my son will soon be 18), but there comes a time when the reality kicks in - life gets in the way. Be kind to yourself, and hereβs hoping tomorrow is better.
07.10.2025 20:31 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0After many arguments with my Mum, I did - briefly - own a white ra-ra skirt. And I made a pair of pedal-pusher trousers in needlework class, despite hating needlework SO much! I did a deal with the teacher that I would sort her budget and she finished my sewing. π€£
07.10.2025 19:32 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I still got a grade B for my O-level. π
07.10.2025 19:02 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0A Victorian Gothic memorial in a cathedral. At the centre is an effigy of the deceased. He is supported by several angels.
#31DaysOfGraves Day 7: #Angels. I loved this memorial to Bishop Samuel Wilberforce (son of William Wilberforce, the anti-slavery campaigner) in Winchester Cathedral. Having checked the details for today itβs not actually his grave - heβs buried elsewhere. Still, itβs rather magnificent.
07.10.2025 18:30 β π 13 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0I recall writing spoof βproblem pageβ letters to Cathy & Claire during my geography lessons. π
07.10.2025 17:32 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I would imagine that the plot had already been purchased, and it was a simple economic decision. My GGM (the second wife) was a formidable business woman, and held many assets in her own name to maintain her financial independence. π
06.10.2025 21:07 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0My Dad was born and bred in Stamford - and he always refers to ginnels, St Maryβs Passage being a prime example.
Here on the Kent/Sussex border it would be a twitten.
PS: Apologies for reposting some of my earlier posts on this topic - I realised I had not made a proper thread. π
06.10.2025 17:45 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0A gravestone in a municipal cemetery marking the burial of Mary Ann Denniss (nee Triplock) in 1901 and her husband William Denniss in 1928.
For Day 6 of #31DaysOfGraves the theme is #Gender. This post looks at cases where someone is buried with a previous spouse, not their current one. Here is the grave of my great-grandfather, Bill Denniss, who was buried with his first wife. His second wife (my GGM) outlived him by 28 years.
06.10.2025 17:45 β π 15 π 2 π¬ 2 π 0A low boundary around a grave, with two stone ducks sitting on the corners. The inside is filled with slate chippings and some potted cyclamen.
#31DaysOfGraves - Day 5 #Bird.
Earlier today I was tidying up the grave of my mother- and father-in-law at Pembury, here in Kent. I took a wander after I'd finished (Ulterior motive, moi? π) One of these little ducks had fallen over, but I was pleased to be able to put it back in place.
Two gravestones inscribed with Hebrew text, surrounded by trees and autumn leaves and ivy on the ground beneath.
It's rather late in the day, but here's my contribution for #31DaysOfGraves, Day 4. The theme today is #Languages. I saw these two gravestones in what remains of a Jewish cemetery in GroΓe Hamburger StraΓe in Berlin last year.
06.10.2025 17:36 β π 9 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0A large tomb-shaped gave in a poor state of repair in a somewhat overgrown churchyard.
#31DaysofGraves Day 3: #Tomb. This is as close as I can get; a grave in the churchyard at Westbury-on-Severn in Gloucestershire which *may* be one of my Bellamy ancestors. If so, probably a 6x or 7x great-grandfather. (I have several generations all called William Bellamy.)
06.10.2025 17:35 β π 6 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0When I first started working with my current employer (some 33 years ago) we had to take turns to boot up our computers with a floppy disk. My younger colleagues are completely stumped when I try to explain β¦
06.10.2025 16:48 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Passageway? Surely, being Stamford, itβs a ginnel.
06.10.2025 16:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0In the post I deleted, the sentiment was similar. But the words quoted were a paraphrase of the words written. Iβm troubled by the fact I reposted without checking - a lesson learned. π
05.10.2025 20:31 β π 6 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Top class pun!
05.10.2025 20:17 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0An extract from the Diary of Anne Frank dated 13 January 1943. She describes people being dragged off the street and families torn apart.
I have removed my earlier repost of an extract from Anne Frankβs diary. It purported to be a direct quote, but it wasnβt. Here is the original diary entry for the day mentioned, from the copy of her book given to me by my parents for Easter 1982. Accuracy matters.
05.10.2025 17:15 β π 20 π 2 π¬ 1 π 0A low boundary around a grave, with two stone ducks sitting on the corners. The inside is filled with slate chippings and some potted cyclamen.
#31DaysOfGraves - Day 5 #Bird.
Earlier today I was tidying up the grave of my mother- and father-in-law at Pembury, here in Kent. I took a wander after I'd finished (Ulterior motive, moi? π) One of these little ducks had fallen over, but I was pleased to be able to put it back in place.
Beautiful π§΅β₯οΈπ₯Ή
05.10.2025 09:26 β π 7 π 2 π¬ 0 π 0No room for any doubt there! π±
05.10.2025 09:29 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Using the line βweird relativeβ in the headline was, I suppose, click bait to get you to read the article. But its repeated use really irritated me. Iβd much prefer βdedicated family historianβ. Itβs not weird to research your #FamilyHistory; itβs weird not to understand its importance.
05.10.2025 09:27 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I don't know where this revisionism has come from about the suffragettes - people saying "if the suffragettes were around today, they'd be considered terrorists."
The suffragettes were arrested and tortured, sexually assaulted and beaten by the state. They *were* considered terrorists!
Two gravestones inscribed with Hebrew text, surrounded by trees and autumn leaves and ivy on the ground beneath.
It's rather late in the day, but here's my contribution for #31DaysOfGraves, Day 4. The theme today is #Languages. I saw these two gravestones in what remains of a Jewish cemetery in GroΓe Hamburger StraΓe in Berlin last year.
04.10.2025 19:00 β π 17 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0Weβve been out to eat - the restaurant was all of 5 minutes around the corner. Now back in the hotel, listening to the howling wind!
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