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#AuDHD #Autistic #ADHD Unpaid Carer | Chronic Illness | Autoimmune | Feminist | Animal lover | Lover of all things cute ๐Ÿฅบ North West UK

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Post image 21.01.2025 07:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
4x4 image panel: 

panel 1 - Elon Musk performing the Nazi salute.
panel 2 - Adolph Hitler performing the Nazi salute. 
panel 3 - Adolph Hitler performing the Nazi salute. 
panel 4 - Adolph Hitler performing the Nazi salute. 

Point: They are exactly the same salute.

4x4 image panel: panel 1 - Elon Musk performing the Nazi salute. panel 2 - Adolph Hitler performing the Nazi salute. panel 3 - Adolph Hitler performing the Nazi salute. panel 4 - Adolph Hitler performing the Nazi salute. Point: They are exactly the same salute.

Humans like this rely on plausible deniability to get away with it long enough for actual power to be well in hand.

No excuse for not seeing it.

None.

20.01.2025 22:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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Helpful!

21.01.2025 04:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 66352    ๐Ÿ” 15062    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 779    ๐Ÿ“Œ 700

It's so scary. I'm not even in the US and I couldn't sleep at all.
All the people saying it wasn't a n@zi salute ๐Ÿ˜ณ

21.01.2025 07:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I don't usually like greens but that colour is so rich and beautiful.

19.01.2025 14:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

1/ Thereโ€™s been some discourse in the autism community lately about whether autism is a disability. Some say if you donโ€™t consider your autism a disability, you donโ€™t have to call it that. Others (myself included) feel strongly that autism is a disability. Hereโ€™s why:

19.01.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 32    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Today is just going to be a day of recovery. I hate how I need to do that, even after doing something that was fun.
There are a few interesting events today that I'd love to have gone to, but it's just not possible.
I've not even got dressed or spoken more than 5 words so far ๐Ÿ˜ž

19.01.2025 14:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Can you claim the money back if the return train journey you booked was cancelled and you had to get a later train in the UK?
It was only an extra hour but it was a change of plan that made me even more exhausted than I usually would be.

19.01.2025 14:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm no good with technology so I can't unfortunately

19.01.2025 14:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
My husband and son walking along the towpath on the Rochdale canal in Hebden Bridge. You can see boats.

My husband and son walking along the towpath on the Rochdale canal in Hebden Bridge. You can see boats.

My youngest son looking towards the boats on the Rochdale Canal

My youngest son looking towards the boats on the Rochdale Canal

A big white goose next to the Rochdale Canal in Hebden Bridge

A big white goose next to the Rochdale Canal in Hebden Bridge

Managed to make it to Hebden Bridge yesterday. I'm absolutely exhausted today though. I don't have many words.

19.01.2025 14:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We are going to Hebden Bridge tomorrow.
I've never been before and always wanted to go, but as usual the night before, I feel like I'd prefer not to.
This always happens, even the night before Disneyland.
I assume it's anxiety but I never can tell. I just know it's not a positive feeling.

17.01.2025 22:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I went to an autism group thing run by the NAS and it was very male heavy. I was sat there being spoken at for 2 hours ๐Ÿ™ˆ

17.01.2025 19:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

17.01.2025 14:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes, it was from Boots in the UK. They sell it in Super drug too. They do have their own website though, but it's about ยฃ9 a tube.

17.01.2025 13:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There are loads of flavours! It's quite expensive online but in the shops they sometimes have offers on.

17.01.2025 13:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That's all there is near me too. I've attended twice but it's just a group of people all talking at the same time. I was just sat in my noise cancelling headphones because I couldn't deal with the layers of sound ๐Ÿ˜ž

17.01.2025 13:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A disabled person might be โ€œableโ€ to do one thing on one day.

Maybe they wanted to.
Maybe they had no choice and had to.

What it does not mean, is that theyโ€™re suddenly able to do it all the time, or that itโ€™ll be โ€œeasier next timeโ€.

โ€œAbleโ€ is repeatedly, reliably, and safely.

17.01.2025 08:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 526    ๐Ÿ” 158    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 13    ๐Ÿ“Œ 17

My first instinct when I see an animal is to say "hello"
My first instinct when I see a person is to avoid eye contact & hope it goes away!! ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

17.01.2025 01:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 740    ๐Ÿ” 63    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 66    ๐Ÿ“Œ 6
A pump bottle of Hismile toothpaste in a dark blue bottle. The flavour is Blue Raspberry.

A pump bottle of Hismile toothpaste in a dark blue bottle. The flavour is Blue Raspberry.

I found this toothpaste on offer at Boots the other day. I've always wanted to try it because I don't enjoy brushing my teeth at all, but it's quite expensive online. I got this and a cola flavour for ยฃ4.50 each!
I really like them as they don't make my mouth cold like mint does.

17.01.2025 12:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Managed to have a bath today!
The gaps between them get longer in the winter as the sensory issues are much worse when it's cold.
I'm currently under the duvet trying to regulate but I feel clean and it feels good.

17.01.2025 12:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm going to be attempting to go back to college in February, just for a few months on an Animal Care course. It's only for 16 weeks but animals have been the one constant throughout my life and the only thing that makes me really happy.
Hopefully I gain a bit of confidence and structure in my life

17.01.2025 12:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Medium support needs autistic is an odd place to be.
Too autistic to work and have friends but not autistic enough to attend a day centre and get any decent support.
I just don't know what to do these days.

17.01.2025 12:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 40    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What am I supposed to do for a TMJ issue when my NHS dentist is now private only and I cannot afford private?
Gum shields do nothing for me and the issue is affecting not just my teeth, but my eustachian tube.

17.01.2025 12:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

#Thread
Iโ€™m an advocate for routine health checks for๏ฟผ Autistic adults to be offered annually in primary care.
I did some policy work a few years ago which persuaded me of the rationale.
Iโ€™ve also discovered from my own lived experience that serious health concerns sometimes get overlooked.

17.01.2025 10:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 74    ๐Ÿ” 16    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 8    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

That happens to me on photos. I feel like I'm doing a big smile but when I look at it I'm just ๐Ÿ˜

17.01.2025 12:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and Autism Spectrum Disorders: Longitudinal and Offspring Risk

* Autistics had a 2ร— higher risk of a later diagnosis of #OCD
* Persons with OCD displayed a nearly 4ร— higher risk to be diagnosed with #Autism later in life

https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0141703

17.01.2025 04:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

OCD triggers are so weird.
Got a letter for a gas safety check which will be in Feb. Thought nothing of it until I got in bed and started feeling tired. Now my brain is trying to convince me that it's carbon monoxide poisoning and we are all going to die ๐Ÿ˜ญ
Trying so hard to resist the urge to check.

16.01.2025 22:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My sensory issues are quite bad anyway, but why in the week before my period are they just unbearable? ๐Ÿ˜ญ

15.01.2025 15:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

They are so good aren't they ๐Ÿ˜Š I've never been to one before but I'm definitely wanting to do more of them now.

23.12.2024 17:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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