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[She/Her πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ 40+] Writer, Privacy and Security Professional, AI Privacy & Ethics Nerd

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If it helps, a lot of the core terminology is consistent once you get the hang of it. Every brand has their own spin on things but the basics remain largely unchanged.

05.08.2025 04:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Agreed on all fronts! Were I not tying to go the extra mile for a friend I’d never have done it. But since I was paying they broke things down like I had no idea what they were talking about. (I didn’t)

05.08.2025 04:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Honestly? I paid for a professional makeup lesson at Sephora and took notes. This was in prep for being a bridesmaid at a friend’s wedding. You are definitely not too old, and it doesn’t take much artistic skill. Mostly patience and preferably someone to teach you

05.08.2025 04:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This honestly sounds soul healing. I mean I don't have a stepfather but I'd think of something

05.08.2025 01:15 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Neither. You have ascended past replygirl and yet have not yet been damned to the unholy fate of a Big Account. You walk the lonely road with feet in both worlds

05.08.2025 01:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm hearing this more and more from folks. I wonder if it'll catch on

04.08.2025 19:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If I ever return to Eorzea, I will probably pivot to being a Reaper main. Because of that very mood. And the gorgeous outfits.

04.08.2025 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wait, girls have been looking for DS9 loving older women with great tits?

Have I been underselling myself this whole time?

04.08.2025 18:32 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

ACAB includes the middle school teacher that lives in your head whose approval you're still chasing 20 years later

04.08.2025 17:35 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Never took my SAT, but I aced my ACT with a massive Boone's Farm Strawberry Hill hangover

04.08.2025 17:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, me too.

Not all great things come with a gold star sticker from an authority figure, which is what so many ex-"gifted kids" are still hopelessly addicted to.

04.08.2025 16:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Frankly I just grew skeptical of what people who thought it was a good idea to single out kids as "superior to their peers" thought were "great things."

Even a burnt out loser can help build a community garden, be there for their friends, make a real positive difference.

04.08.2025 16:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My understanding is that in professional chess there was an issue with men trying to intimidate women players during matches. (And I suspect there were also men who didn’t want to lose to women.)

But yeah, this is more TERF ridiculousness

04.08.2025 15:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œAnd Paranoia Popcorn is coming up from the rear!”

04.08.2025 14:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My definition changes daily

04.08.2025 02:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Rewatched Terminator 2, this afternoon. Reflected a bit on how the last time I saw it was on VHS at a mandatory abstinence pledge signing event. T2, pizza, and coercing middle schoolers to promise themselves to Christ. Just another night in rural Appalachian America in the 90's.

03.08.2025 23:41 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's a mystery. But it seems to be working for you

03.08.2025 21:49 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s brilliant

03.08.2025 21:18 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Sorry, I don’t know you that well

03.08.2025 20:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn't even realize there were any out here until I looked it up just now

03.08.2025 19:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sadly, many such stories.

03.08.2025 18:37 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Coming in with my hot take: Of all the current generation Trek shows, only Lower Decks actually understood Star Trek

03.08.2025 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Good choices, it seems!

03.08.2025 15:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Can’t disagree there. (And I’ve been really enjoying the dub of TBHX)

03.08.2025 07:45 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There are a bizarrely large number of Americans who won’t watch anything with subtitles. At all. Live action or animated and no matter the source. It mystifies me.

03.08.2025 07:39 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m honestly just across the board disappointed with this season. Which is a shame. Phenomenal cast, rapidly diminishing things-that-make-Trek-special content.

03.08.2025 04:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Gosh, I imagine it will hit anyone who already gets it extra hard, huh?

03.08.2025 04:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ot was nice to just go see a full tilt goofy no-punching-down slapstick movie

03.08.2025 04:48 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Really tired of Spock romance plots

03.08.2025 03:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You're allowed to reflect. You're allowed to sadpost. And you're allowed to muse on other roads that may or may not have led to different places.

But your friends, and randos like me, are still going to value and cherish you.

03.08.2025 03:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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