Abilene Paradox:
When a group makes a decision that is contrary to the desires of all members, because each member assumes the others approve of it.
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Abilene Paradox:
When a group makes a decision that is contrary to the desires of all members, because each member assumes the others approve of it.
In 2004, I interviewed for a teaching position. The principal asked me how many kids I had. I answered. He asked if I was planning to have more —said he couldn’t afford to have another teacher out on maternity leave.
This is why women need protections, diversity, equity, and inclusion.
What an exhausting day.
So much trauma out there in the world, in our people.
Sending love ♥️
Costco shareholders have overwhelmingly rejected an anti-DEI proposal as other U.S. companies retreat from their diversity policies
24.01.2025 03:21 — 👍 28289 🔁 4453 💬 610 📌 475Keep going.
Small steps over time make a huge difference.
I heard this phrase a yrs ago, but it’s stuck with me.
What’s been your biggest pivot?
🎓 At university I was a waiter🍴
💻 Early in my career I learned technical skills (eg financial models)
The last 15yrs I’ve led & coached big teams.
🙌🏼 Helping others has fuelled my career 🙌🏼
#leadership
You are always going to be great in someone’s eyes and not so special in someone else’s. Young to one and all to the next. They went to Graham and what you are, so you might as well be who you want to be black writing on a green background with a pink border with star :-) Flower heart in picture by joyfulsmolthings
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” 🧡🧡🧡
#kindness #BeYou
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“Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.” Dalai Lama
Let’s show kindness to those around us. 🧡
#kindness #KindnessMatters
“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”
- Dr. Martin Luther King
sometimes the most productive thing you can do is rest. Picture of a brown mug with a red heart on it on a cream background picture by joyfulsmolthings
“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” Anne Lamott
Take time to pause.
#kindness #SelfCare #pause
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Marriage isn't just everlasting love, it's forgiveness, communication, understanding, and commitment.
19.01.2025 16:42 — 👍 39 🔁 4 💬 3 📌 0Friendly reminder for the day
"We are more alike, my friends, than we are unalike."
-Maya Angelou
It's impossible to please everyone. The question is whether you're disappointing the right people.
Part of setting healthy boundaries is deciding who you're willing to let down.
#leadership
It’s not easy, but how you show up has a ripple effect on the people around you.
Be the light and send a positive ripple.
#leadership
When we look forwards and aim to make progress each day, over the span of a year we can improve beyond our dreams.
Don’t get hung up on past mistakes.
You may have slipped in some of your new year goals.
🎯 Reset and go again.
🙌🏼 You’ve got this.
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Respect for this guard
13.01.2025 05:13 — 👍 61 🔁 8 💬 4 📌 1An inspirational moment. Thanks for sharing.
13.01.2025 20:48 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Untangle your mind
13.01.2025 20:25 — 👍 28 🔁 8 💬 1 📌 1Glad to see not all US companies are folding DEI plans.
Unconscious bias is still real and many management decisions are impacted by it. So having checks and balances to mitigate against this bias is the only way to have balanced workforces that are fair to all employees.
Good question. I guess that’s why there is an explosion of bakeries in the UK. Gail’s one of my favourites
12.01.2025 14:17 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Picture by pixels In a world where you can be anything be kind. Brown background, red blue, yellow orange writing and half a sunflower beautifully drawn.
“Too often we underestimate the power of a a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” Leo Buscaglia
Be kind 🧡
#kindness #love #care
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We get told to put on our brave face but sometimes the bravest thing is to take the face off Picture of pink person with long hair with their face in one hand and a little hard on their neck Picture by doodlebotillustration
It takes courage to shed the masks we wear, trusting that who we truly are is already enough.
When we allow ourselves to be seen as we are, we give others permission to do the same. 🧡
#kindness #courage #brave
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Encouraging someone to be entirely themselves is the loudest way to love them. Picture by soleoado Painting picture with black writing on the top
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
Be you. 🧡
#kindness #love #belief
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I know a lot about how we tick - simply because I’ve always been curious - that doesn’t mean I know it all or have mastered it all. Not at all.
The more you know the more you realise the most powerful statement is “I don’t know”
If we haven’t got it figured out - that’s ok - just be present
Actually, my grass is green enough picture of a pink individual with a pink jumper lying on cartoon green grass with daisies “Don’t compare your life to others. There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time.” – Unknown A quiet reminder to focus on our own path and trust that it’s enough. You are enough. 🧡🧡🧡 (Picture by Hello Rosie Pink)
“Don’t compare your life to others. There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time.”
A quiet reminder to focus on our own path and trust that it’s enough. You are enough.
🧡🧡🧡
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Absolutely brilliant- a very constructive tip told in an amusing way.
07.01.2025 18:17 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0It’s like buckling your seatbelt first so that you can be there for other people. If you don’t take care of yourself first you just can’t be in a position to help others fully #loveistheanswer #loveyourselfmore #beyourownbestfriend
07.01.2025 07:53 — 👍 13 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0This is happening ⬇️😔
Just goes to show all the corporate statements that organisations make can often just be written on water and not deeply held values.