this is relevant again, apparently
ffs why is this relevant again
@ablata-at-alba.bsky.social
preceding those who hesitate
this is relevant again, apparently
ffs why is this relevant again
lightly considering posting here more, but one need only look at my last few posts/replies previous to this one to learn why I'm hesitant
idk, vote now on your phones
another clarification:
That encounter was in a tea shop; I didn't notice them next to the housemate and only said something because I was trying to squeeze by to an open seat.
It WAS about a year after I spoke to the owners of AYA, which I only did after hearing multiple other accounts of abuse.
yeah, I don't mean to come off as hostile or anything
I do think there's smth to be said for the way that they played on (well-intentioned) leftist/idpol sympathies to cover for the abuse, and that in the end it was only bc the fed stuff alienated that crowd that things blew up
all due respect, but the "they were a white woman" thing was actively deployed against allegations of boundary-violation, and they themselves claimed on multiple occasions that these allegations drew on racially-motivated stereotypes of black and transfem people as sexually predatory
24.06.2024 20:06 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0can confirm this to be the case bc I'm still alive and stuff
unsure if "serial strangler" is quite accurate; AFAIK I'm the only one with that specific experience (there's maybe one more but I'm not 100% on that)
the other incidents were directionally similar but methodologically different
I've been wary of making this specific claim bc as one of the first people to come forward, engaging at all w/ their race-related narratives seemed like an error
gotta say though, saying "white people subbing is reparations" and then Doing That to (largely) submissive white transfems is uhh....
I'm not trying to be preachy or anything, but it was a huge part of how they spread FUD about their past for ages and I want to make sure that's recognized
22.06.2024 03:30 — 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0hell, even with me - don't "just believe victims"!
I could be a total asshole regardless of what happened a couple of years ago - the things people say and do ought to be judged on their own, rather than contextualized entirely within broader narratives
nah I'm fine
the only request I have for anyone regarding this whole thing is the following:
in the future, please be a bit more wary of ideologies that'd have you blindly believe or support anyone on the basis of identity alone - it's not a good heuristic and bad actors can easily take advantage
bsky.app/profile/girl...
22.06.2024 02:44 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0yeah, it's been a bit jarring that all the Maoist Standard English accounts on here are a lot more concerned with the fed thing than the way prevailing political attitudes led directly to excusing abuse
absolutist standpoint epistemology has serious blind spots, and bad actors can/will exploit that
What, so they can crank out another impotently long-winded blog post? They tried to cancel me for calling them out already, and it didn't stick
I don't even have them blocked, *they* blocked *me* for talking
heya, "strangulation girl" here, back on an account I never use anymore
The choking was consensual; the unconsciousness wasn't. I've been choked a good bit and never passed out before or since. It was played off as an accident in the moment, and I thought little of it until I heard others' stories.
they're apparently still doing conference stuff, which is cringe since it inconveniences me without being time theft
18.10.2023 13:58 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0my whole office must've done this bc I showed up at 9:45 and no one else is here
18.10.2023 13:49 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I hope everything goes well!
01.10.2023 15:49 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I feel like just interacting with the transgender hookup environment in DC is enough to blackmail the average politician
we'd probably rend their flesh first though
cw: breaches of consent
I've seen Sterling/anonsee.bsky.social misrepresenting the accusations against them on here, so I thought I should shed some light.
A conversation about “capture the flag but the flags are women” and when you capture them “you have to cum in her before the other team captures her back”
Applying for the capture the flag position (as the flag)
07.09.2023 16:05 — 👍 12 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0cw: breaches of consent
I've seen Sterling/anonsee.bsky.social misrepresenting the accusations against them on here, so I thought I should shed some light.
it never even occurred to me to see them live bc how can they do concerts when they don't even release music
23.08.2023 15:51 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0shoutout to WMATA for finding new and innovative ways to make the red line Stupid
17.08.2023 22:31 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0to anyone who replies anything other than "yes": you are weak. your spirit is feeble and your constitution is lacking
15.08.2023 17:36 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0oh no I really hope no one chases me through this forest with a group of exclusively women wielding bows
13.08.2023 18:50 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0"I will simply lay here and think gay thoughts about deer women"
13.08.2023 06:15 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0please look up "intensive snare" by skepta
06.08.2023 16:57 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0phlebotomist,, pretty
04.08.2023 13:55 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0I'm in DC
04.08.2023 00:25 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0