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Natasha Knox

@alaphia.ca.bsky.social

Financial therapist | IFS Practioner | Building a mental health centred platform to help folks think feel and act better with money. https://alaphia.io This acct is where I clarify my thoughts and share (my many) tough lessons learned.

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Congrats Olu! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽŠ

11.03.2025 15:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

lol! I think a lot of people vibe with my long suffering husband! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿซฃ

06.03.2025 23:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I got wordle in one again today.

Husband: You should buy a lottery ticket.

Me: Thatโ€™s a great example of the hot hand fallacy (proceeds to launch into detailed explanation).

Husband: Youโ€™re still really fun at parties arenโ€™t you?

๐Ÿ˜‚

06.03.2025 14:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've done both. That said, the number of full-length albums I'll listen to is in the single digits. I'm also a season ticket holder to a particular local venue, so I get introduced to new music that way as well.

23.02.2025 21:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Olu, thatโ€™s the worst! How are you making lemosas out of it?

22.02.2025 17:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Taking mother to farmer's market and then, writing detailed feedback to designer, and then starting a decluttering streak. Goal: one hour per week for ten weeks.

09.02.2025 16:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The domain names! ๐Ÿซฃ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

06.02.2025 06:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks for giving it a try, Patrice! I think a lot of people are worried about a lot of things right now. Not just money stuff.

28.01.2025 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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27.01.2025 01:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank *you* Olu, for the much-needed nudge and encouragement earlier this week.

26.01.2025 02:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Been playing around with Loveable this weekend. Hope is returning to the project. I see a path forward to getting myself unstuck.

25.01.2025 23:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oooh!!!! This is neat.

23.01.2025 18:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hmmm... I needed to read this today.

23.01.2025 17:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Congrats, Olu! ๐ŸŽŠ

Just a heads up! The link you shared in your post returns a 404 error, however I was able to follow the post that you shared, which takes me to your listing.

22.01.2025 16:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Agreed - also in there somewhere ideas tested or ideas that are vetted

18.01.2025 16:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What reignited your motivation?

18.01.2025 14:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes, LinkedIn โ˜บ๏ธ

16.01.2025 14:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I could see that for other platforms like LI, but I hope it doesnโ€™t start happening here. I want to interact with accts that post stuff that interests them, or even random thoughts, not posts engineered for engagement. My ideal feed is not always engaging, but it will always be real.

16.01.2025 13:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What kind of tools are we talking?

If it's AI generated content -HELL no.

If it's something else...that would depend on what it is, and how it's being used.

15.01.2025 21:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's a little unusual for sure, but...I like it.

14.01.2025 02:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m stuck in the 90s so I still mostly wear Docs the difference being that Iโ€™m wearing six holes, instead of eight these days. I also wear vivo barefoot (geocourt model) shoes (not stylish, but so practical), and when I want to look slightly nicer but not dressy, my Office of Angela Scott boots.

12.01.2025 21:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

3) But Iโ€™ve come to believe itโ€™s not necessarily the right data point about the account, or perhaps insufficient data points to determine whether the account will result in the discourse Iโ€™m after. Itโ€™s resulting in larger faster follows, and follow backs, but not necessarily depth.

12.01.2025 17:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I also think the starter packs are a great idea, but also having the unintended consequence. I curated my follows on X over a number of years based on posts or exchanges that I found interesting. Although it took me longer, the interactions were richer. With ๐Ÿฆ‹ starter packs I have one data point.

12.01.2025 17:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

When I first arrived I saw a lot of posts about blocking. People werenโ€™t just quietly blocking, they would block and post about it, encouraging others to block. I get why, but I think one of the unintended consequences is anodyne conversation. Iโ€™ve curated my feed, so I donโ€™t see as much anymore.

12.01.2025 17:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m finding ๐Ÿฆ‹ largely lacking in lively conversations as well, but I think that it takes time and intentionality. I have found handful of folks, you included, who are genuinely interested in discussion.

There is an odd instant blocking culture on ๐Ÿฆ‹that is maybe part of the problem.

12.01.2025 17:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am so sorry to hear that today was a down day ๐Ÿค. I hope tomorrow is better.

09.01.2025 03:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I also struggle to create engaging content, but I'm full of ideas for other people! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ฌ

I think you're onto something with story telling. How about instead of the backstory behind the feature, maybe share the story of how the feature impacted a user, and solved their hair on fire problem?

08.01.2025 17:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A VR immersive murder mystery.

08.01.2025 16:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I didnโ€™t realize that this is what I needed in my day!

07.01.2025 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Disingenuous engagement will kill this app.

Is your solution designed to help folks like me who are actually here for conversations?

07.01.2025 20:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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