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Just an autistic guy, trying to do the right thing. Yes, I do know better than you. He/him.

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No parent who loves their child uses ABA techniques.

10.11.2025 09:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Stay away from Rise and Shine ABA is you care about the autistic people in your life.
Itยดs abuse in a shiny coat. Donยดt be blinded, research ABA and find autistic-led support instead.

10.11.2025 08:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

... and then became a major bigot and pissed it all away.

10.11.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Dan denk je even dat ze een moreel kompas hebben gevonden, en dan lees je de laatste twee woorden...

04.11.2025 08:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well, I'm not asking permission and am just gonna do it ๐Ÿ˜

29.10.2025 13:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

At Bright Steps, autistic people are being abused with methods that have been proven to be harmful.
Keep (autistic) people you love away from this place.

29.10.2025 13:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The best change would be abolishing ABA altogether.
Any chance that's on the agenda?

20.10.2025 11:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Then why are you being an ass when someone speaks out against a practise that harms us?

15.10.2025 06:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It sounds like you're dismissing autistic voices when speaking about autistic people.

15.10.2025 06:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I want trans rights ๐Ÿ˜Š

14.10.2025 11:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Having crushes on anyone who treated me remotely kindly got me through high school ๐Ÿ˜

14.10.2025 10:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ah right, the 'just shut up and they'll treat you better' approach to oppression.
Let me know when that's ever worked, ever, in the history of the known universe.

14.10.2025 05:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The only info people need is to know ABA is abuse and keep their loved ones away from it ๐Ÿ‘

13.10.2025 06:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh great, expanding the reach of abusive practises.
It's such a shame. These people could've actually helped autistic people, but you've got them stuck in a dead-end path that leads to misery for all involved.
Abolish ABA. Find autistic-led support instead.

13.10.2025 06:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hah, I beat the system!
I sort my M&Ms by color and never eat the green ones, because they feel wrong.
That means Iยดm normalโ„ข๏ธ, right? ๐Ÿ˜Š

10.10.2025 11:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It has.
Roald Dahl: problematic in life, but his books prevail thanks to his death and an estate that recognises his faults.
Same with Lovecraft.

Once the author is dead and their money isnยดt used to hurt others, the stories are free to breathe again.
The sooner JK dies, the sooner HP lives.

10.10.2025 11:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes, we can. Once sheยดs dead.
Until then, there is no ethical consumption of anything HP-related.

10.10.2025 11:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

For me: no, but that's because my mask is on too tight.
As long as I catch myself masking when I'm home alone, there's no point trying to be fully maskless with others around.
My friends do encourage me to mask less, as friends should.

06.10.2025 12:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've always hated that poster.
The characters are off-model, the shading is awful and just what is that pose Jasmine's doing?
I should check if someone on DV made an improved version ๐Ÿ˜…

06.10.2025 12:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ah yes, the "I never cared, you're so weird for caring about this" approach to discussion. Rarely seen outside of elementary school, and rarely effective in any way.
Just take the L. It's much easier than trying to get out of this hole you've dug.

06.10.2025 06:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You got one wrong, showing your ignorance on the topic.
Then you tried to move the goalposts, showing your bad-faith approach to the discussion.

The facts don't show Rowling as left-leaning in any way.
Nor as a feminist, for that matter.
If you want to defend her views, you should know her views.

06.10.2025 05:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"I think JK would be a democrat."

*Proven wrong*

"Yeah, well, that's because the left is crazy!"

Did you not notice the goalposts while moving them all that way?

06.10.2025 05:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Still peddling your abusive practises, ignoring autistic voices who call you out...
Perfect show of what you do.
Abolish ABA, actually support autistic people instead.

06.10.2025 05:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Mooi initiatief. De Welshe taal en cultuur dient bewaard te worden.

Cymru am byth.

30.09.2025 10:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"Transphobia doesnยดt exist!" they shout at the mountain of evidence.
Just such a sad way to live a life ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿป

30.09.2025 07:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sure, sexnotgender.
Just wondering: who would you say is a transphobe?

30.09.2025 07:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Mooi initiatief. De Welshe taal en cultuur dient bewaard te worden.

Cymru am byth.

30.09.2025 07:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Anti-LHBT verkiezingsposter van Denk

Anti-LHBT verkiezingsposter van Denk

Deze Denk?

29.09.2025 18:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

For me, yes you are.
ABA is, at its core, conversion therapy for autistic people.
It's where we're taught we're not good enough and will never be accepted as we are. We need to adapt and change, so allistic people won't feel so weird around us.
There are much better forms of support.

29.09.2025 18:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you for elaborating better than I would've been able to.
As someone who's experienced ABA, I'm emotionally invested and can come off as hostile.

Rhonda, if you want to support your child, try to find an autistic community in your area. Autistic people know how to guide autistic people ๐Ÿ™‚

29.09.2025 18:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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