If patriarchy taught you to stay pleasant instead of sovereign...
We're probably going to get along
@midlifemystic.bsky.social
Helping women reclaim sovereignty in love through identity integration & nervous-system work ๐ฟ Honoring the sacred. Animist. Anti-patriarchy. Hearth-witch. Sovereign Field Notes on Telegram โ https://t.me/+8OWDIxLThTszYzFh
If patriarchy taught you to stay pleasant instead of sovereign...
We're probably going to get along
The only thing more powerful than hate is love โค๏ธ
09.02.2026 15:50 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0If anything becomes clearer in moments like this, itโs this:
Never outsource your inner authority.
Not to power.
Not to prestige.
Not to charisma.
Pedestals are dangerous places to stand.
Sovereignty is sexy because it canโt be groomed.
Seeing anything tied to the Epstein files activates something feral in me.
Maternal.
Ancient.
Protective.
The part that would burn entire systems to keep children safe. ๐ฅ
Power games regulate insecure systems. Regulated people donโt need them.
08.02.2026 15:02 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Many women were taught to confuse likability with safety. That conditioning runs deep.
07.02.2026 23:36 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0When you become sovereign, the order flips - you feel worthy first. Your tolerance shifts. Your attraction recalibrates. Then he shows up differentlyโฆ or someone else does.
07.02.2026 15:17 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Stop waiting for him to make you feel worthy.
If his texts, commitment, or pursuit decide your value, your nervous system is still organized around proving.
Most people mistake attraction for choice. Itโs usually reflex firstโฆ preference second.
07.02.2026 03:15 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0You donโt attract partners with your thoughts. You filter for them with what your nervous system expects to experience.
07.02.2026 03:15 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Iโm interested in humans who believe nervous systems matter more than power games.
That safety creates clarity.
That regulation creates truth.
So there I was whispering, โit's time for sleepingโ while petting chaos incarnate. And the photo is from yesterday when my workout became puppy yoga + Twister.
Moral: freedom isnโt no structure... itโs the right amount for your system. ๐พ
So, I was up till 3am negotiating with a fuzzy velociraptor who forgot what nighttime is. He wasnโt bad... just 7 months old. No crate = no ritual = nervous system in rave mode. Turns out the cage wasnโt punishment. It was structure & safety.
06.02.2026 23:57 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Last night we made a bold parenting decision. Our puppy (Bruno) is 7 months old now, and his crate is starting to feelโฆ optimistic. He knows whatโs his. Leaves the furniture alone. Mostly. So we thought... Letโs try leaving him out overnight. He's ready. We're ready. Reader. We were NOT ready.
06.02.2026 23:38 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0If a structure collapses when you speak honestlyโฆ
It was never sacred.
Sacred systems expand when truth enters them.
Sovereignty isnโt a skill. Itโs a nervous system.
Your body decides who you trust, chase, or tolerate long before your mind does.
The work isnโt tactics -- itโs integration.
If youโre here for calm power, inner authority, and new patterns in love & lifeโฆ hi.
I help women bring the woman they are at work โconfident, sovereign, boundariedโ into love & life. Looking for kindred spirits: heretics, humanitarians, animists, nature lovers, women awake enough to reject patriarchy & claim their inner authority.
05.02.2026 21:39 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Dear Algorithm: I'm looking for sovereign women: heretics, humanitarians, animists, nature lovers. Please say hi ๐
05.02.2026 19:28 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0