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The thank you letter is dying. Here’s how to write the perfect one A written appreciation of hospitality or gift-giving is much more personal than a digital missive – follow our expert advice on how to do it

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Do you still write thank you letters? Liz Wyse, editor of Debrett's Handbook, A-Z of Modern Manners and Guide for the Modern Gentleman (all available from our online store) spoke to @telegraphnews.bsky.social about how to write the perfect thank you letter (link in comments).
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The Art of Circumlocution Circumlocution is the roundabout way in which the British skirt around the edges of confrontation, criticism or disagreement.

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British polite-ism #6
"As per my last email"

The universal cry of the person who has been ignored or overlooked and means “I already told you this”, with a clear frustrated subtext of “Have you even bothered to read what I said?”

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The Art of Circumlocution Circumlocution is the roundabout way in which the British skirt around the edges of confrontation, criticism or disagreement.

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British polite-ism #5
"With all due respect"

A great weapon used in arguments, which means “You’re completely wrong” and implies “I’m now going to tell you why.” This phrase is often wielded when respect for each other’s view is in short supply.

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The Art of Circumlocution Circumlocution is the roundabout way in which the British skirt around the edges of confrontation, criticism or disagreement.

www.debretts.com/the-art-of-circumlocution/

British polite-ism #4
"No rush, when you have a minute"

Translates as “Please hurry up” but carries a distinct undertone of “Haven’t you noticed that you’re keeping me waiting?”

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The Art of Circumlocution Circumlocution is the roundabout way in which the British skirt around the edges of confrontation, criticism or disagreement.

www.debretts.com/the-art-of-circumlocution/

British polite-ism #3
"Sorry, I’m a bit busy right now!"

A phrase that screams “Leave me alone!/Go away and leave me in peace!”

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The Art of Circumlocution Circumlocution is the roundabout way in which the British skirt around the edges of confrontation, criticism or disagreement.

www.debretts.com/the-art-of-circumlocution/

British polite-ism #2
“Sounds fun, I’ll let you know”

Means “I’m not coming” but also carries a distinct whiff of “and please leave me alone”.

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The Art of Circumlocution Circumlocution is the roundabout way in which the British skirt around the edges of confrontation, criticism or disagreement.

www.debretts.com/the-art-of-circumlocution/

British polite-ism #1
"I beg your pardon?”

Perhaps one of the most direct polite-isms, it generally means “I’m furious/What are you trying to say?/Did I hear you right?”. With the emphasis on ‘beg’, it is an unusually clear indication of annoyance.

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Debrett's Guide for the Modern Gentleman This revised edition of Debrett’s essential handbook for the modern gentleman is acompendium of masculinity, from impeccable tailoring and grooming to classic cocktailsm, clubs and casinos and  countr...

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Do you have your copy of our Guide for the Modern Gentleman yet?

Chapter 3, At Home, provides tips on how to make a statement with furniture and interior design, as well as expert knowledge on sleepwear; books, plays and poetry to impress; and the ultimate record collection.

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Tea should be poured into the cup first and any milk, lemon or honey added afterwards. In Victorian times hot tea was poured straight into the cup to test the quality of the bone china. Expensive china did not crack.
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If serving tea for a group, it is worth brewing a pot. Loose leaf tea will taste best but will need to be poured through a tea strainer. A second pot with hot water in it should be provided to dilute over-brewed tea if necessary.
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Debrett's Guide for the Modern Gentleman This revised edition of Debrett’s essential handbook for the modern gentleman is acompendium of masculinity, from impeccable tailoring and grooming to classic cocktailsm, clubs and casinos and  countr...

Our updated and revised Guide for the Modern Gentleman offers advice on all aspects of going out on the town, including taxi and public transport etiquette, how to make an entrance (and a polite exit), VIP areas and guest lists, tipping and basic bar behaviour.

The British pub is a world-famous institution, and one that has its own unique rules of etiquette and behaviour. If a group of you are drinking together, it is usual for people to take it in turns to buy a round for the entire group.
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Debrett's Guide for the Modern Gentleman This revised edition of Debrett’s essential handbook for the modern gentleman is acompendium of masculinity, from impeccable tailoring and grooming to classic cocktailsm, clubs and casinos and  countr...

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It's World Cocktail Day! Our updated and revised Guide for the Modern Gentleman features everything you need to know about glassware and cocktail equipment, timeless cocktail recipes to try and 10 Cocktail Rules. Order now from our website.

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Professional Privacy A substantial portion of our online communications are unrelated to our work, which challenges our understanding of the concept of professional privacy.

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We've got a text! But should we reply to it at work?
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The Power of Thank You Saying ‘thank you’ is an essential pillar of good manners, an act of recognition and acknowledgement, showing appreciation for acts of civility or generosity.

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Saying ‘thank you’ is an essential pillar of good manners. It is a fundamental act of recognition and acknowledgement, which shows our appreciation for any act of civility or generosity and has a powerful, positive impact on all social interactions.
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Debrett's Guide for the Modern Gentleman This revised edition of Debrett’s essential handbook for the modern gentleman is acompendium of masculinity, from impeccable tailoring and grooming to classic cocktailsm, clubs and casinos and  countr...

The revised and updated edition of our perennial classic, the Debrett’s Guide for the Modern Gentleman, is out now! Purchase your copy today! And ensure that you are well-equipped to cut a gentlemanly, and thoroughly modern, dash.
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savoir-faire: the ability to act or speak appropriately in any social situation. It isn’t about following arcane or courtly rules of behaviour, but simply about being observant of the people around you and showing consideration.
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Debrett's Guide for the Modern Gentleman This revised edition of Debrett’s essential handbook for the modern gentleman is acompendium of masculinity, from impeccable tailoring and grooming to classic cocktailsm, clubs and casinos and  countr...

This encyclopaedic guide contains an eclectic miscellany of information for the modern gentleman, from our advice on good manners, tailoring and dress codes to extreme sports, grooming, travel tips, home comforts, driving, classic cars and gastronomy.

The At Home chapter in our new and update Guide for the Modern Gentleman features our list of the Ultimate Record Collection - the albums that every modern gentleman must own. What would be on your list?
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