N. Herr

If ONE 👏🏻MORE 👏🏻MF 👏🏻tell me I look happier…

Imma just smile even more. 😜

GO BIRDS!!!!
🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅

That’s all.

It’s A Wonderful Life is my favorite Christmas movie. Watching it this year gives me a whole new feeling after the year I’ve had.

Just…

Thank you 🕊️🥹

Those footsteps I carefully tried to step into as a child, were made by shoes I had hoped to fill in his absence…

For many of us, we don’t realize what we’re doing. We’ve lived most of our lives in survival mode and it’s instinct for us. I get it. I do. Please listen to me…

You’re protecting yourself but you’re not protecting them from you and they believe you don’t care about them.

THAT is where the downfall begins and if you don’t correct it, that’s exactly why it will end.

But when a person loves you correctly - what they see is you pushing them away because you’re not putting in the same effort or being the same person they fell in love with. You’re isolating and abandoning them during times they need you the most.

You avoid arguments and you don’t want to talk about it because you’re afraid to say or do something that’ll push them away. BUT You let them believe you don’t care if they leave because you’re trying to protect yourself.

When you’ve only experienced abandonment in your life, you start to think that what you have is too good to be true and it’s only a matter of time before they leave too. Then you start to make yourself smaller so that you’re not too much for them in the hopes that they’ll stay.

“Becoming a leader is synonymous with becoming yourself. It is precisely that simple, and it is also that difficult.” - Warren Bennis