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@flradvocate.bsky.social

Cuckold. Advocate of Female-Led Relationships, Enforced Male Chastity, & Cuckold Lifestyles. Advocate of outlawing bras & panties. GF has kept me pussy-free for 7+ yrs.

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Listen, regardless of your age, if you can pull off wearing a dress like this, fucking do it.

07.10.2025 02:38 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I literally canceled my subscription because they COULDN'T be trusted. lmao

06.10.2025 01:13 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

That is indeed probably true. lol

05.10.2025 16:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So while being locked in a chastity cage for 4 years may seem excessive, we’ve had an incredibly robust and interesting sex life together. She gets off on the power exchange, so she’ll get wet af from fucking me, and I go to work orally for as long as she can stand it. (18/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

It took almost 4 mos, but I was eventually able to cum just from being fucked in the ass w/o any direct stimulation to my cock (& she doesn't stop fucking when I cum - only when she's tired). So since then, I’ve not masturbated or had anyone touch my cock, except for her during our showers. (17/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Around that same time, of course, she decided she was no longer going to give me BJs, HJs, etc. The only way I was gonna get sex was by her fucking me with her strap-on. She wanted me to β€œlearn how to cum like a girl.” So being fucked with a strap-on is the only sex I’ve had since then. (16/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We still have a very robust sex life, though. I go down on her whenever she wants, fuck her with a strap-on. Every Saturday, we shower together. I get out of my cage to wash things up, & she likes to get me hard, just to β€œmake sure it still works.” Even at my age it still gets hard as a rock (15/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She said, β€œYou’re not using your dick anyway, and it’s totally useless to me. So just keep the cage on from now on.” So as of this Locktober, I have been permanently in chastity for four years. My dick has absolutely no idea what her pussy feels like. (14/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Early in our relationship, we broke up. 2X, in fact. But we have such a weird chemistry w/ each other, we keep getting back together. So we’d start back where we left off. And then for Locktober of 2021, at the end of the month, she told me to keep the cage on. She wanted it to be permanent. (13/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She’d fuck me with a strap-on every once in a while. She’d have me wear a strap-on and fuck her with it. I’d wear a gag with a dildo on it to fuck her. She’d edge me and ruin orgasms. We did everything except me putting my real cock inside her. We evolved into an FLR, complete w/ a contract (12/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I wasn’t originally in chastity all the time. We went through cycles. She was still occasionally blowing me, jerking me off, giving me foot jobs, tit jobs, etc., and I was going down on her literally any time she wanted it (sometimes 3-4 times in a single day). (11/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Keep in mind that I never thought this was going to get serious anyway, so I just assumed she’d be going out with and fucking other guys anyway. So I was fine with her cuckolding me. She would bring home videos of her fucking guys and make me jerk off while watching them. (10/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She was ecstatic to find that out. So we added chastity into our mix. We started out slowly, but that October was my first Locktober. I stayed locked for a month. She had also told me that she wasn’t going to go without getting cock, so she was going to be fucking other guys from time to time (9/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

About 3 months in, she asked me, β€œYou’re doing so well without pussy, you want to see how long you can go?” We were doing so much other stuff, I was like, β€œSure.” She then brought up the idea of chastity. Unbeknownst to her, I already had a cage and had been playing with it on my own. (8/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So she wanted to β€œfuck me” first before I was allowed to fuck her. In the meantime, I could go down on her and she’d jerk me off, blow me, etc. So after a few dates, she had fucked me and I still hadn’t had my cock inside her. (7/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She’d told me at dinner that she β€œliked to fuck my boyfriends.” I was like, β€œSure.” She said, β€œNo, I mean I fuck them. With a strap-on.” I told her I was ok with that, and I had literally paid a pro to take my anal virginity just a couple of months before that date, actually. I enjoyed it. (6/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I told her the women I date never wear panties. She reached under her dress and pulled her thong off and handed it to me. And then she said, β€œLick them.” They were already soaked, but I did as I was told. We both agreed that was the instant we knew we were going to play well together. (5/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We’d gone out to eat, but decided to extend our date to go see a movie when we were done. I had told her I only had two rules for the women I date, One of which was that we have to communicate honestly with one another. I left the 2nd one open and she asked about it at the end of the movie. (4/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn’t think anything serious would come from it, but it had been awhile since I had had a nice date, so I agreed if the girl agreed. She did, so we had a first date. It was literally the wildest date I’ve ever had. She was smart, funny, stunning, and was literally sex personified. (3/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I have a younger GF - we've been together for 7.5 years now. A mutual friend introduced me to her, thinking we had very similar senses of humor. She told me at the outset, she’s *much* younger than you, but she only dates older men anyway. I was 50, she had just turned 20. (2/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

A couple of people have expressed…shock, I guess is the right word for the fact that I said I’ve been locked in a chastity cage for 4 years now & have been pussyfree for so long. So for those who follow me, I thought I’d share how I got to this point. A thread. (1/18)

05.10.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 30    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Ladies, train your men. Teach him that when you do this, he is to go down on you without question or hesitation. Make that a rule in your house (regardless of whether you keep him in chastity or not).

05.10.2025 00:59 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Probably not. lol

04.10.2025 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s the way my GF wants me. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

04.10.2025 02:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Do you mean why have I been in chastity for 4 years?

04.10.2025 02:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

100% Sadly, this is the world we live in right now in this country.

02.10.2025 23:35 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A quick note to the ladies who've locked their men up for Locktober: If he can stay locked for a month, he can stay locked for a year. Or longer. Today marks my being in #chasity practically permanently for a full 4 years. Mine started with a Locktober, and is proof that he can go longer.

02.10.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0
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Happy Locktober, for those who celebrate. For many of us, it's just another month.

02.10.2025 04:32 β€” πŸ‘ 43    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Many women have a preference for the kind of men they fuck, and aren't afraid to advertise it. Some are a little more subtle about it than others.

29.09.2025 21:12 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Your wife or GF has accepted it, so should you.

29.09.2025 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 31    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

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