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Aquila

@aquila46q.bsky.social

I am Trans, an Army Veteran, a Spouse, a Photographer and budding Trans Advocate. Big fan of context and nuance. I want people to be people, deeply human and flawed, not paragons.

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There is no honor in making others struggle solely because you did. Persevering through difficulty is worth celebrating, but is worth even more if you can lessen the burden for those who come after you, especially those less fortunate, less privileged. That way lies glory.

21.04.2025 22:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1337    πŸ” 390    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 25

And, in case you’ve forgotten from the first go-round, two other points never to forget:
1. Trump and his aides often lie.
2. Trump and his appointees often screw things up.

20.01.2025 02:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2756    πŸ” 769    πŸ’¬ 50    πŸ“Œ 17

This is so true!

We celebrate mowing people down by the dozens in movies. I find it fascinating that the US, as a whole, celebrates John Wick who goes on a four-movie revenge spree. Then we clutch our collective pearls when we see people enjoying their own bodies. So American.

20.01.2025 10:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for standing up for our community, Rep. Smith.

12.12.2024 02:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The power is always in the individual and human stories of being trans.

12.12.2024 02:37 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm not one to kink shame anyone, but broadcasting your porn preferences for all of the US to see is maybe not the BEST idea. IDK

06.12.2024 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This phenomenon--that dysphoria drones on in the background and becomes more evident when being addressed--reminds me of the Rosa Luxemburg quote: "Those who do not move, do not notice their chains."

05.12.2024 15:24 β€” πŸ‘ 252    πŸ” 37    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

The equivalent of that is if an orthopedist said "your ACL is torn pretty bad, but it's not torn *enough* for us to perform surgery.

05.12.2024 21:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I, unfortunately, got a glimpse of what was going on with me earlier in life. The psychiatrist said "you have a significant fault in your core gender identity," but the disruption was insufficient to treat me.

That haunted me for 25 years until it was a question of transitioning or self deletion.

05.12.2024 21:18 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The problem with subsisting off your own bile is eventually there's nothing but bile left

05.12.2024 21:03 β€” πŸ‘ 484    πŸ” 33    πŸ’¬ 18    πŸ“Œ 0

Every day in December, we watch a holiday movie. We try to start with a new one, which led us to Netflix’s β€œOur Little Secret,” a romcom starring Lindsay Lohan, set in my home state of Georgia. Silly tropes aside, my big gripe is the writers should have consulted an actual native of the state.1/

02.12.2024 07:25 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You are correct on all counts!

05.12.2024 20:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OUTFUCKINGSTANDING!!!!

05.12.2024 20:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A true warrior must be proud of their deeds, but pride without humility is arrogance. It means nothing if it drives away comrades and allies. Be proud! But temper it with humility, or else you will find yourself alone, friendless, facing your enemies with pride and nothing more.

16.11.2024 00:32 β€” πŸ‘ 179    πŸ” 44    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 2

Wherever you are, kid, I feel you!

Keep fighting to be who you want to be. I'll be waiting to see you bloom.

16.11.2024 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

They also comment that they can see, and feel, the emotional toll the anti-trans rhetoric has on me.

I nearly ate a bullet back in August because it finally got to me. Everyone else' problems with MY gender identity almost cost me my life.

16.11.2024 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Now that I am, every one of my close friends tells me that I seem more at ease, happier, and less socially awkward.

16.11.2024 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Before I started transitioning, I had a problem with my gender identity.

16.11.2024 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It is said those who forget history are doomed to repeat it. But what of those who suppress the past, distort it, sanitize it? They are not so blameless. A true warrior knows that hiding from the past is cowardice, but deliberately hiding the past is a grave dishonor.

28.11.2023 23:36 β€” πŸ‘ 74    πŸ” 20    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't know who you are, I have my suspicions.

Leave me alone.

Whatever wild hair you have up your ass about me, and my work with Ms. Kerzner is officially plucked.

27.12.2023 10:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Remember.

23.10.2023 19:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2061    πŸ” 771    πŸ’¬ 12    πŸ“Œ 8
A list of how to construct an appeal with this main takeaway: "When you skip the emotional appeal grounded in shared values and start by 
talking about the problem, your messaging will still resonate with the activist 
base, but will be less effective at persuading people outside of your base to 
support your cause."

A list of how to construct an appeal with this main takeaway: "When you skip the emotional appeal grounded in shared values and start by talking about the problem, your messaging will still resonate with the activist base, but will be less effective at persuading people outside of your base to support your cause."

Excerpt from a talking points guide for trans day of remembrance

20.11.2023 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

@redlianak.bsky.social... if you haven't seen this.

01.12.2023 16:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

An Alien: Isolation-style game, but in a retail store during the holidays, and a white woman stalks you around the store trying to get you fired

28.11.2023 18:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What's your point, and what do you mean?

I'm asking because, "theory for libs," lacks context.

01.12.2023 15:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Liana K and Jan Helge vs Marvel's Loki
What could go wrong? Liana Kerzner can be found here: @RedLianaK Jan Helge can be found here: @writingwithjhlillevik9091 Music by @WhiteBatAudio Liana K and Jan Helge vs Marvel's Loki

Had the pleasure of sitting down with @redlianak.bsky.social and Jan Helge Lillevik to talk about the differences between the Loki of myth and MCU Loki. It was a great time!
youtu.be/rnWif5Z5kZw

01.12.2023 03:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The person telling you that your tactics are not helping the people of Palestine are suggesting that the issue is too important for you to fuck around with it.
Having a childish tantrum about it just proves them right.
I don't care how many times you dogpile me. This is true.

30.11.2023 15:33 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This thought is way more complex than a lot of people are realizing.

Nothing in life is so cut and dry that it can't have negative secondary, tertiary, or further consequences.

30.11.2023 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have an unpopular opinion. I am trans and I still think the following:

She was trans, and to strip everything away from her in order to make political hay out of her murder is disgusting. I see her as a child who was murdered. Anything else, for me, is immaterial. YMMV

29.11.2023 21:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Sometimes you just have to get glammed out of your mind.

18.11.2023 12:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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