pj 🧚🏻✨

finally catching up on ExU divergence and “be brave or fake it and try anyway” is my new life motto

1. Stop assuming people announce all their activism on social media.

2. Stop demanding people announce all their activism on social media.

3. Stop deriding people for not announcing all their activism on social media.

4. Dunking on people on social media isn't activism and isn't praxis.

my new default is spending $100+ on concert merch and calling it self care

put a single $22 cocktail in my system and i become the softest most emotional creature on earth honestly

doechii cold dropping Nosebleeds after winning her grammy last night was the best surprise to wake up to 😭😍

Doechii joins Cardi B and Lauryn Hill as the only women in #GRAMMYs  history to win Best Rap Album.

I need a studio audience to cheer every time I make a healthy decision in order to keep that momentum up

dang it i typo’ed the first post. off to a great start lmao

like i have been reflecting a LOT on if i want to have any kind of social media presence bc of all of the things happening in the world but, actually, i think i’ve finally circled back around to my joy being an act of resistance and resiliency. so expect to see me back here more often lmao

i got to thank an influencer for a recommendation that actually changed my life for the better today and i think i’m finally brave enough to day social media deserves to stay in my life simply because of the fact that people’s lives have improved thanks to things learned from it.

might have spent most of this weekend doing big ol’ nothing but at least today I’m doing *some* productive stuff?

mood. i also got a new tumblr account but haven’t done much with it yet - thinking about kind of journal-style blogging over there? feels better than doom scrolling fr

like can’t wait for my brain to get a lil better but also it feels WEIRDDDD

first morning without a doom scroll in like 5 years. feeling like i have no choice but to get my shit together.

left my cute owala in a lyft yesterday and since when are we charging people to get their lost items back??? like I’m not paying $20 to get my water bottle back but also I’m sad about my cute sage green water bottle 😭

locked myself out of my apartment so bad I have to take a lyft to my office lmao. this week just keeps getting better 🫠

a photo of an orange cat with a happy expression as he is getting chin scratches

a photo of an orange cat with a curious expression

a blurry photo of an orange cat in the middle of a yawn

happy wednesday from Nichi 🌞

the host from @pjzzapje.bsky.social and i's airbnb this past weekend said we were "AMAZING guests" and the praise is going straight to my head

okay it took about 2 weeks for me to feel good about this year but we’re locking tf in 🙂‍↕️

expect cool good news from me soon ish!!!

for a long time it was a data farming underdog social media platform with questionable privacy policies and now a bunch of people are turning to it or Red Note as an alternative should we be losing TikTok 😅

my ass is going back to tumblr.

chat i miss @tarygodmother.bsky.social more 😭

good news is this year we’ll get more chances to hang than we ever have as long distance besties 🥰

having great luck when I’m running behind to make flights is going to bite me in the ass one day but today it means I get to see Taryn, so the hubris of leaving less than an hour before boarding and still having time to get a coffee is a problem for future me 🤪

v curious about @tarygodmother.bsky.social 👀

is it canes?

whataburger.

before 11am: honey butter chicken biscuit combo + tea

after 11am: honey bbq chicken strip sandwich combo + sprite

🙂‍↕️🤠😋

to defend myself i had already started cagayan when i made my original tweets but also it’s excellent background tv so i’m not surprised i cleared the season in like 3 days

the reddit thread recommended starting with cagayan. going straight into it from 47 i didn’t enjoy it as much but i think if it had been my cold open to survivor i probably would have been yelling at the tv just as much. up next: millennials vs gen x

oopsie a quick clarification: I’m watching the subsequent seasons in the order recommended to me by reddit

watched all of survivor 47 in the last week and am now watching the older seasons in order. part of me wants to live post about it and the other part of me knows just how annoying that would be lmao

thank you 🫶🏻