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Jess ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿชด๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ‰

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31 | Florida | lesbian HoH ๐ŸคŸ๐Ÿป Books๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ“š, Cozy Games, Thrifting, fandom and surviving chronic illness https://linktr.ee/sobremesa18

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They tell you when you get hearing aids you will adapt and it gets less overwhelming. It hasnโ€™t for me after almost 2 years. Itโ€™s weird to be grateful for something while also never look forward to popping them in.

01.07.2025 20:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

OCD is not quirky or cute. Just a reminder. I was already running late to work and then I get stuck in a loop of locking my car. Like bitchhhhh we donโ€™t have TIME for this!!!

30.06.2025 10:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am ALWAYS cautious with authors who only write about sapphic couples when it involves a tragic/sad ending.

25.06.2025 22:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I have nothing profound or witty to say. iโ€™m just so heartbroken and angry. so many lives will be lost all for the elite.

22.06.2025 02:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My niece is reading Legendborn for the first time and the text thread is MASSIVE right now ๐Ÿ˜‚

17.06.2025 00:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I write out a lot of posts, then reread 3 or 4 times just to hit โ€œdiscard postโ€ and take it to the notes app instead. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

14.06.2025 10:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My niece picked Legendborn for her book at the store today! So excited for her

07.06.2025 17:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Me and the niece are going thrifting today and I think the shirt I ordered for pride is going to come in just in time for tonight ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป may the mail gods be on my side

07.06.2025 12:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My copy is almost here. Iโ€™m so excited for it

07.06.2025 12:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Currently reading Notes of a Crocodile right now!

05.06.2025 21:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The Locked Tomb series is a staple for a reason. I need Alecto! Make Room For Love was great is in about every rec post I see so itโ€™s definitely getting the love this month.

05.06.2025 21:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What is your FAVORITE sapphic book youโ€™ve read to date? ๐Ÿ“š๐ŸŒˆ

Iโ€™ll go first. Of all time, Outdrawn by Deanna Grey still takes the trophy. #sapphicbooks

05.06.2025 21:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

GOODBYE NELNET! That last student loan payment has been submitted! ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ heavy sobbing

05.06.2025 16:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m making my last student loan payment tomorrow and Iโ€™m already crying about it. ๐Ÿ–•๐Ÿป them for exploiting us then and continuing to target HS children now with predatory loan practices.

04.06.2025 21:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My niece texted me super excited because sheโ€™s watching Rupaulโ€™s drag race starting at season 9. She said itโ€™s pride month so she needed to do it. I donโ€™t think Iโ€™ve laughed this hard in a while. She really said โ€œfor the gay in my life๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ ALLYโ€

03.06.2025 23:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Dog eared page on a library book

Dog eared page on a library book

Broken spine on a library book

Broken spine on a library book

Yall, please respect your library books. Donโ€™t dog ear pages, toss them around, bend the spines harshly. Accidents happen but try your best to be gentle and leave the copy in good condition. Library funds are scarce. There isnโ€™t always money to fix or buy another copy.

03.06.2025 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Millennial Authors ๐Ÿค๐Ÿป magical chosen ones with white hair or mysterious streaks of silver

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I love us

03.06.2025 15:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

happy pride month ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ
post you and your flags!

03.06.2025 01:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Faeblood Unbroken by Alyiah Marie Gonzales
Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo
Patricia Wants to Cuddle by Samantha Allen
Outdrawn by Deanna Grey
Bonesmith by Nicki Pau-Preto
Dvaughn & Kris plan a wedding by Chencia C Higgins
Our Wives Under the Sea by Julia Armfield
Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers

Faeblood Unbroken by Alyiah Marie Gonzales Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo Patricia Wants to Cuddle by Samantha Allen Outdrawn by Deanna Grey Bonesmith by Nicki Pau-Preto Dvaughn & Kris plan a wedding by Chencia C Higgins Our Wives Under the Sea by Julia Armfield Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers

Rainbow Stack Sapphic Edition ๐Ÿ“š๐ŸŒˆ

02.06.2025 18:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Description from website: Pride means nothing if it isnโ€™t for all of us. This tee honors the revolutionary legacy of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, marching beneath the rallying cry: No Pride For Some Without Liberation For All. Behind them, a subtle Pink Triangle reminds us that queer liberation is rooted in resistance and we are still fighting.

Description from website: Pride means nothing if it isnโ€™t for all of us. This tee honors the revolutionary legacy of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, marching beneath the rallying cry: No Pride For Some Without Liberation For All. Behind them, a subtle Pink Triangle reminds us that queer liberation is rooted in resistance and we are still fighting.

VERY excited to be adding this shirt into my pride shirt line up. I only have two others but I love this one. It is from @gayprideapparel.com

02.06.2025 16:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I kind of want to redo my introduction post now that we are 6 months into this

02.06.2025 16:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Ripening Bumble Bee cherry tomatoes

Ripening Bumble Bee cherry tomatoes

Blooming marigold

Blooming marigold

Raised garden bed

Raised garden bed

Also garden progress! ๐ŸŒฑ๐Ÿชด๐Ÿซ›Tomatoes are doing great, beans are growing well. Marigolds bloomed! My luffa plant is dealing with a flying ant problem but Iโ€™m doing my best to keep the plant going.

01.06.2025 01:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
The Knight and The Moth by Rachel Gillig

The Knight and The Moth by Rachel Gillig

The Midnight Feast by Lucy Foley

The Midnight Feast by Lucy Foley

Library Haul from today. I loved Rachel Gilligโ€™s Shepherd King duology so the new release was a given to grab. The midnight feast is the book clubโ€™s pick this month. ๐Ÿ“šโค๏ธ

01.06.2025 01:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sinners Movie DVD is coming soon and Iโ€™m at the ready to purchase it. Already planning a watch party at my place for my friends that couldnโ€™t afford to see it in theatres. Iโ€™m so excited

31.05.2025 09:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Absolutely! Hobbyists of every kind are exhausted right now. No one is on top because they found a way to pencil in their hobby while another person is just trying to survive and rest. Itโ€™s the approach to the subject honestly

29.05.2025 15:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This goes for all hobbies that require energy from an already exhausted body and brain whether they require handiness or not

29.05.2025 15:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This too!

29.05.2025 15:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So many video essays on the death of hobbies but rarely any of these acknowledge how many MORE hours people are having to spend at a job to pay essential bills. 16 hrs a day doing work to come home exhausted. When did having hobbies become a moral high ground? People are TIRED and want to rest.

29.05.2025 14:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Some people mean โ€œchill in a setting with not much going on plot wise but the vibes are coolโ€ when they say Cozy Fantasy and others mean โ€œlow stakes plot line with fantasy setting that doesnโ€™t include combat scenesโ€ when they say cozy fantasy. These are two very different recs.

20.05.2025 13:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Me, a chronically ill 31 year old doing any mundane task on a bad flare day:
โ€œBaddies donโ€™t quitโ€
๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I have to laugh or Iโ€™ll cry

19.05.2025 16:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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