Iβm friendly to everyone, but that makes some non-Black women think they should speak to me with a Blaccent and then I immediately start frowning. π
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Iβm friendly to everyone, but that makes some non-Black women think they should speak to me with a Blaccent and then I immediately start frowning. π
14.02.2026 17:52 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0Itβs a pity!
14.02.2026 17:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Iβm learning that what can come off as disrespect in written communication is actually illiteracy at work.
14.02.2026 17:40 β π 6 π 1 π¬ 1 π 1ππΎππΎππΎ
14.02.2026 11:00 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0If you have goals for 2026 and havenβt started on them yet, (no pressure) now is literally the time to LOCK IN. Itβs still early enough in the year to execute and achieve success. β¨
14.02.2026 05:07 β π 7 π 3 π¬ 0 π 0Thereβs a specific type of friend I yearn for and I havenβt met her yet. Prayerfully soon. ππΎ
14.02.2026 05:04 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0My golf instructor told me his wife is going out of town this weekend. Idk what their dynamics are, but I never want to be away from my husband on Valentineβs Day.
14.02.2026 04:45 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0This is so sad. π
14.02.2026 04:41 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0Fear comes from scarcity thinking.
Your brain is saying: βIf I don't act now, I'll lose my chance!β
Anything stable doesnβt come from urgencyβ it comes from safety and consistency.
Anyone who would ever make you think such, isnβt deserving of what youβd have to offer them.
13.02.2026 04:20 β π 9 π 2 π¬ 2 π 0β₯οΈβ₯οΈβ₯οΈ
13.02.2026 04:22 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Ben Affleck:
13.02.2026 02:09 β π 26 π 15 π¬ 2 π 0BeyoncΓ© stuns with bob haircut in new photos.
13.02.2026 02:04 β π 449 π 81 π¬ 10 π 70Watching #LoveIsBlind and I like Emma with the birthmark. I hope she finds love.
13.02.2026 02:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Lovely weather for a golf lesson! Itβs been a few weeks! β³οΈ
12.02.2026 21:52 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I cannot wait for this extra felt to melt off of my body. I feel UNCOMFORTABLE. π£
12.02.2026 21:52 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0βKiss of Lifeβ by Sade to calm my nervous system this morning.
12.02.2026 14:51 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0My job is easy. I need to get a new iPad so I can watch shows in my office.
12.02.2026 12:37 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Went back to the salon 2 days later for a color change because the first red was too orangey.
12.02.2026 12:20 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Stopping Twyneo. My face BURNED after a month of easing into it and itβs super inflamed. Back to using my baby strength tretinoin that worked so well a couple of years ago. I pray it has the same effects this time.
12.02.2026 12:19 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0πππ
12.02.2026 11:56 β π 12 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I still miss this era.
12.02.2026 02:00 β π 66 π 36 π¬ 0 π 4I truly believe that when your heart is genuine and you move with love and pure intentions, the good you give always finds its way back to you.
12.02.2026 11:33 β π 51 π 26 π¬ 0 π 7πππ
12.02.2026 11:49 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0βIf you abandon yourself to keep others comfortable, you will resent them later.β
12.02.2026 03:47 β π 4 π 3 π¬ 0 π 0I have a couple more weeks in this sew-in and itβs a wrap on sew-ins for the next several months. Let the games begin!
12.02.2026 03:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Iβve been wearing extensions in some form for the better part of the last 20 years. I have a lot of vanity milestones to achieve by my 40th birthday and Iβve decided today that healthy hair is one of them. My hair is healthy but I want my edges fuller and I want the strands stronger.
12.02.2026 03:44 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Lord. π₯΄
12.02.2026 02:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0biggest red flag for me is when someone says βyou think too deeply into thingsβ
& you donβt think at all. you see how thatβs a problem?
You didnβt come this far just to come this far. Keep going.
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