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Paula Griffin

@paulajgriffin.bsky.social

No longer afraid to be myself. Goalkeeper for Clapton CFC, Goal Diggers, Peckham Town Women and anyone else who’ll have me! Living beyond cancer, with a stoma and with CKD - massive emphasis on the word “Living”

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Last year was matching at Pride just in front of the FA contingent who proudly carried a banner proclaiming “Football for All”. A number of the women in that group I’ve played with & against. 12 months it’s as if the pigs have been up the ladder with brushes and added “…for all BUT YOU!”

07.07.2025 17:22 — 👍 4    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

My usual place is the pitch, between the goalposts and being a total pain in the 🍑 to anyone who thinks I shouldn’t be there and a total queen the rest of the time!!

07.07.2025 17:16 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Threads www.threads.com/@paulajgriff...

07.07.2025 17:13 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

As @bernietranders.bsky.social linked to this account I’d better get to work on resuscitating it! X account died a long time ago and you’ll mainly find me on

07.07.2025 17:12 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 1

About time I kicked my #bluesky account into gear. FB suddenly seems to have decided I want to read lots of transphobia 🤷🏻‍♀️. Frustratingly Threads still gets me decent engagement but just needs the effort here I guess.

29.01.2025 11:39 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1

Thanks for the update to the information. It’s some time since I visited Majdanek though the memory of the place is still incredibly vivid. Watching the film & I could still smell the leather.

29.01.2025 08:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
The showers at Majdanek where Jewish where herded into before their lives were snuffed out by Zyklon B gas. The blue stains on the walls come from that gas.

The showers at Majdanek where Jewish where herded into before their lives were snuffed out by Zyklon B gas. The blue stains on the walls come from that gas.

Thousands upon thousands of shoes left behind by murdered prisoners at Majdanek Concentration Camp. They are not behind glass and smell of ancient leather remains with me to this day.

Thousands upon thousands of shoes left behind by murdered prisoners at Majdanek Concentration Camp. They are not behind glass and smell of ancient leather remains with me to this day.

The ovens in the crematorium of Majdanek concentration camp.

The ovens in the crematorium of Majdanek concentration camp.

Under a vast concrete dome tons of earth containing the remains of the victims of Majdanek concentration camp.

Under a vast concrete dome tons of earth containing the remains of the victims of Majdanek concentration camp.

Watched “A Real Pain” twice and thought it might be easier on second viewing but it doesn’t. Kieran Culkin’s performance is up there with the best this year but it’s the simplify of the film that resonantes. The scenes at Majdanek hit hard reawakening the sights & even smells of that place.

29.01.2025 00:31 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Most inappropriate Christmas present ever. I was 14 years old when my uncle & aunt sent me this. Given my sisters were already convinced I was either gay or “wanted to be a woman”, unsurprisingly 45 years later I actually still have the almost totally unused bottle somewhere.

25.12.2024 22:16 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Just completed my application for a London 60+ travel card. Yes, in precisely 14 days I will be the same age as Victor Meldrew when One Foot in the Grave began!! Really???

24.12.2024 23:31 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

One was brought on by lifestyle, the other was something that was always with me. Yet critics have no trouble with one being covered by the NHS but not the other. Wonder why? #Transgender

24.12.2024 23:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

In August 2022 I was diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria & earlier this year I had Gender Affirming Surgery. The lifetime cost is reckoned to be around £60k.

24.12.2024 23:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

In September 2017 I was diagnosed with Stage 3 Bladder #Cancer requiring major invasive surgery to remove my bladder & insert a stoma. The longer I live the more it costs the #NHS, anything up to £250k

24.12.2024 23:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

As someone with an “invisible disability” - stoma bag after major cancer related surgery to remove my bladder. In 7 years since that surgery & 5 since transition I’ve had more incidents using accessible toilets than the one I’ve had using female facilities.

09.12.2024 22:46 — 👍 10    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Might be fresh off the football field & plastered in mud but #Nyckel knows who I am ❤️
📸 Vic Lentaigne

07.12.2024 20:55 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

The transphobes can’t stop me playing football but #StormDarragh can. Match with @peckhamtownfc.bsky.social Women off this morning due to the high winds.

07.12.2024 10:48 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Visibility matters. Genuinely moved to see these affirming portraits taken as part of a series celebrating queer bodies in sport & raising funds for Mermaids. A reminder that being #transgender should never stop you doing the things you love with the people you love.

07.12.2024 10:19 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Ain’t no “childless cat lady”, I’m an angry flying monkey woman!

06.12.2024 09:50 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

UPDATE 🏳️‍⚧️⚽️🏳️‍⚧️

Still time to sign >>> www.footballvhomophobia.com/let_them_play/

05.12.2024 10:32 — 👍 22    🔁 14    💬 1    📌 0
Paula Griffin, proudly posing in her Goal Diggers goalkeeper kit.

Paula Griffin, proudly posing in her Goal Diggers goalkeeper kit.

#Transgender women should never be defined by the clothes we wear but by the people we are. Might be in my football kit but that doesn’t stop me being a proud defiant woman. Thanks to Maisy Banks for this stunning portrait 🥹

05.12.2024 12:53 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Looks like moaning about the Trafalgar Square tree is becoming a new English Christmas tradition

05.12.2024 12:46 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Didn’t take too long for #Threads to descend into the swamp of bigotry. Almost like a carbon copy of Twitter with low follower (& low IQ individuals) piling in like flies on a turd.

04.12.2024 23:37 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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A #transgender woman played soccer with her friends yesterday. Unsurprisingly women’s sports wasn’t destroyed.

01.12.2024 07:31 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Had both those posters on my bedroom wall. Must have spent an age trying to recreate those looks though I never quite plucked up the courage to use the official Toyah hair dye from the fan club!

28.11.2024 15:55 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Powerful portraits from London’s fan-owned, anti-fascist football club Roman Manfredi’s latest project explores Clapton Community FC’s women’s and non-binary teams, encouraging viewers to mobilise against misogyny in the world of football and beyond

Powerful portraits from London’s fan-owned, anti-fascist football club @claptoncfc.co.uk - Roman Manfredi’s latest project explores WNB teams, encouraging viewers to mobilise against misogyny in football & beyond. Amazing to be part of this. #womensfootball www.dazeddigital.com/art-photogra...

28.11.2024 15:49 — 👍 18    🔁 7    💬 0    📌 0

What’s your sign?

28.11.2024 15:25 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Been there… well one of them anyway as there are a lot of Twatts around.

28.11.2024 15:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

What was the 1st album you bought with your own money?

Apart a few “liberated” from Woolworths along with the Pic’n’Mix, it to be this. Not only did I fall in love with the music but the album design was as messed up as my 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ mind.

28.11.2024 15:20 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 1
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Always find it tough looking at this photo, taken by the amazing Serena Brown while filming an advert for women’s football. Early in my transition, less than 12 months but looked so much like my late mother it was uncanny. And a little scary. #transgender

28.11.2024 14:07 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Saw plane from below

26.11.2024 19:54 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Sharing an experience as a newly out trans woman. Back in 2020, arrived at Guys Cancer Centre for my annual CT scan with appointment letter still in my deadname. Despite being terribly British, telling her she didn’t need to worry about updating my details, she insisted on doing it all. #LoveOurNHS

26.11.2024 19:51 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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