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Social work PhD Candidate - researching BDSM, consent, and coercive control. Registered Social Worker, Sex Therapist, educator, nerd, Reform Jew, Broadway musical enthusiast, elder millenial. She/her #ADHD #BiPride Ankh Morpork Posters Guild ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ“š

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Wolves in sheeps' clothing can be sneaky buggers.

13.07.2025 14:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I got caught completely flat footed during a therapy session today for the first time in years. To the point where the client asked to reschedule for when I was more prepared.

it was humbling, embarrassing and an important reminder that I can't sit on my laurels. I can and should do better.

13.07.2025 14:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Two Birds With One Stone  - Schmicago  (Schmigadoon! season 2)
YouTube video by Clarque Shadows Two Birds With One Stone - Schmicago (Schmigadoon! season 2)

How I'm imagining everyone involved in the Karen Read prosecution is feeling right now. Especially Higgins. IYKYK

youtu.be/hACjuvvDPgw?...

25.06.2025 16:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well, that was possibly the most drawn out and expensive drunk driving conviction I've ever seen.

#KarenRead

Glad she's not serving time, but still.

18.06.2025 19:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Must read on fighting segregation in the workplace.

16.06.2025 10:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Or not. How about not?

16.06.2025 10:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Immigration officers intensify arrests in courthouse hallways on a fast track to deportation Large-scale arrests outside immigration courts have unleashed fear among asylum-seekers and immigrants who are accustomed to remaining free while judges grind through a backlog of 3.6 million cases.

Homeland Security is fast-tracking immigrants to deportation by dismissing their cases in immigration court, which allows ICE agents to immediately take them into custody. Many don't have lawyers and had filed for asylum, fearing for their safety should they be sent back apnews.com/article/immi...

11.06.2025 20:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Are Trans People Anti-Science?
YouTube video by Planarwalk Are Trans People Anti-Science?

I adore PlanarWalk.

youtu.be/pUt0chrXgRU?...

12.06.2025 13:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Antisemitism ruins pro-democracy organizing, which is probably a reason Putin is so invested in promoting it.

11.06.2025 16:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 371    ๐Ÿ” 74    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 61    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13
My have with a cup of a green boozy drink with a black and white striped straw.

My have with a cup of a green boozy drink with a black and white striped straw.

Spending too much on a fancy drink while for the doors to open at the Mirvish to see Beetlejuice. It's my early birthday present to myself, so I might as well live it up.

11.06.2025 23:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I wish I could take credit for it! @ianrunkle.bsky.social is quite astute and witty.

11.06.2025 00:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Simone Biles caved after a few hours of receiving the kind of abuse trans people face every single day. She immediately backed down and apologized to heinous bigots.

We don't have the luxury of moving on. Cis people can just dip out after they face the slightest pushback.

10.06.2025 20:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1268    ๐Ÿ” 265    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 31    ๐Ÿ“Œ 10
Know Your Protest Rights:
1. You don't need a permit to protest in response to breaking news and you don't need a permit to march in the streets along sidewalks, as long as you're not obstructing traffic or access to buildings.
2. When you are lawfully present in any public space, you have the right to photograph anything in plain view, including federal buildings and the police.
3. If you believe your rights have been violated, when you can, write down everything you remember, get contact information for witnesses, and take photographs of any injuries.
4. If you get stopped by the police, ask if you're free to go. If they say yes, calmly walk away.
5. If you get arrested, you have a right to ask why. Otherwise, say you wish to remain silent and ask for a lawyer immediately. Don't sign, say or agree to anything without a lawyer present.
6. If you get stopped by a member of the military or any law enforcement officer at a protest, you have the right to remain silent to tell them that you'll only answer questions in the presence of an attorney -- no matter your citizenship or immigration status.

Know Your Protest Rights: 1. You don't need a permit to protest in response to breaking news and you don't need a permit to march in the streets along sidewalks, as long as you're not obstructing traffic or access to buildings. 2. When you are lawfully present in any public space, you have the right to photograph anything in plain view, including federal buildings and the police. 3. If you believe your rights have been violated, when you can, write down everything you remember, get contact information for witnesses, and take photographs of any injuries. 4. If you get stopped by the police, ask if you're free to go. If they say yes, calmly walk away. 5. If you get arrested, you have a right to ask why. Otherwise, say you wish to remain silent and ask for a lawyer immediately. Don't sign, say or agree to anything without a lawyer present. 6. If you get stopped by a member of the military or any law enforcement officer at a protest, you have the right to remain silent to tell them that you'll only answer questions in the presence of an attorney -- no matter your citizenship or immigration status.

Stay safe everyone. And know your rights
www.aclu.org/know-your-ri...

10.06.2025 17:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 406    ๐Ÿ” 304    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
A press release from the Los Angeles Police Department dated June 9, 2025, titled โ€œLAPD Chief Jim McDonnell Responds to Possible Deployment of Marines to Los Angelesโ€ (Document ID: NR25120wc).

The statement reads:

โ€œThe LAPD has not received any formal notification that the Marines will be arriving in Los Angeles. However, the possible arrival of federal military forces in Los Angelesโ€”absent clear coordinationโ€”presents a significant logistical and operational challenge for those of us charged with safeguarding this city. The Los Angeles Police Department, alongside our mutual aid partners, have decades of experience managing large-scale public demonstrations, and we remain confident in our ability to do so professionally and effectively. That said, our top priority is the safety of both the public and the officers on the ground. We are urging open and continuous lines of communication between all agencies to prevent confusion, avoid escalation, and ensure a coordinated, lawful, and orderly response during this critical time.โ€
Signed:
โ€” Chief Jim McDonnell, Los Angeles Police Department

The footer includes LAPD social media and contact information, including:

Twitter: @LAPDHQ and @LAPDPIO_
Facebook: LAPD on Facebook
Office address: 100 West First Street, Los Angeles, California, 90012
Phone: (213) 486-5910
Email: pio@lapd.online

A press release from the Los Angeles Police Department dated June 9, 2025, titled โ€œLAPD Chief Jim McDonnell Responds to Possible Deployment of Marines to Los Angelesโ€ (Document ID: NR25120wc). The statement reads: โ€œThe LAPD has not received any formal notification that the Marines will be arriving in Los Angeles. However, the possible arrival of federal military forces in Los Angelesโ€”absent clear coordinationโ€”presents a significant logistical and operational challenge for those of us charged with safeguarding this city. The Los Angeles Police Department, alongside our mutual aid partners, have decades of experience managing large-scale public demonstrations, and we remain confident in our ability to do so professionally and effectively. That said, our top priority is the safety of both the public and the officers on the ground. We are urging open and continuous lines of communication between all agencies to prevent confusion, avoid escalation, and ensure a coordinated, lawful, and orderly response during this critical time.โ€ Signed: โ€” Chief Jim McDonnell, Los Angeles Police Department The footer includes LAPD social media and contact information, including: Twitter: @LAPDHQ and @LAPDPIO_ Facebook: LAPD on Facebook Office address: 100 West First Street, Los Angeles, California, 90012 Phone: (213) 486-5910 Email: pio@lapd.online

The LAPD Chief has weighed in on Marines being deployed.

Basically: Why is this necessary?

09.06.2025 22:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3082    ๐Ÿ” 945    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 163
Tweet from Runkle of the Bailey from June 10 2025

Tweet reads as follows:

"What did you have for breakfast?"

"I had bacon and eggs and a bowl of cereal at the hotel."

"Do you have any studies to support this?"

"My breakfast?"

"DO. YOU. HAVE. ANY. STUDIES? One paper. One book. One peer reviewed presentation."

"I was there."

"PEER REVIEWED PAPERS?"

Tweet from Runkle of the Bailey from June 10 2025 Tweet reads as follows: "What did you have for breakfast?" "I had bacon and eggs and a bowl of cereal at the hotel." "Do you have any studies to support this?" "My breakfast?" "DO. YOU. HAVE. ANY. STUDIES? One paper. One book. One peer reviewed presentation." "I was there." "PEER REVIEWED PAPERS?"

Accurate (re: Brennan cross examining defense experts in the Karen Read trial)

10.06.2025 17:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 13    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Same and ditto.

10.06.2025 00:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You get it!

10.06.2025 00:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This whole thing is coconuts!

10.06.2025 00:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Right?!?

10.06.2025 00:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'd *like* to be extremely concerned about the marines being deployed to an American city and the scientific committee that determines vaccine schedules being disbanded, but I'm gonna hold off until the Distraction Knowers give the okay

09.06.2025 22:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5922    ๐Ÿ” 827    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 86    ๐Ÿ“Œ 21

Reinforcing my friend @radiofreetom.bsky.social.

Weโ€™re required to refused to obey illegal orders. The military is trained on that, starting in basic.

Itโ€™s also unfair to National Guard and active Marines to even put them in that circumstance against fellow citizens if not a true emergency.

09.06.2025 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1560    ๐Ÿ” 456    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 72    ๐Ÿ“Œ 8
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UPDATE: David Huerta was just released from custody!

09.06.2025 21:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 59164    ๐Ÿ” 10776    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 622    ๐Ÿ“Œ 617
Crowded rally, holding up signs that say free David Huerta, & Los Angeles United will never be defeated.

Crowded rally, holding up signs that say free David Huerta, & Los Angeles United will never be defeated.

Crowded rally, with one attendee holding up a sign that says ICE out of LA.

Crowded rally, with one attendee holding up a sign that says ICE out of LA.

A crowded rally with attendees holding up signs that say no one is illegal on stolen land, hands off our kids, Ice out of LA.

A crowded rally with attendees holding up signs that say no one is illegal on stolen land, hands off our kids, Ice out of LA.

A crowded valley with an attendee holding up a sign that says stop fascism

A crowded valley with an attendee holding up a sign that says stop fascism

ICE arrested our #SEIU President David Huerta - he was assaulted, injured & detained while advocating for immigrant workers.

While he has been released from the hospital, he remains in federal custody.

#FreeDavidEndRaids

09.06.2025 19:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 95    ๐Ÿ” 34    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

h/t @meghanncuniff.bsky.social who posted the complaint.

09.06.2025 18:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 162    ๐Ÿ” 48    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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'This Is What Fascism Looks Like': Beloved Labor Leader David Huerta Arrested | Common Dreams "This is about something much bigger," said the president of SEIU California, still in detention. "This is about how we

Be warned: attacking unions is a hallmark of fascism.

https://www.commondreams.org/news/david-huerta-arrested

09.06.2025 18:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16137    ๐Ÿ” 5590    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 375    ๐Ÿ“Œ 167
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a man with a surprised look on his face is saying no this must be what going mad feels like Alt: Simon from the series Firefly saying "no this must be what going mad feels like"

Me watching today's proceedings in the Karen Read trial...

09.06.2025 22:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 21    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Two medium size doggos of unknown breeds and a cat chilling in a sunny living room with a gray sectional sofa to the left of the frame. Behind them is a large window and a windowed door to a terrace.

A brown dog is on the floor to the left of the sofa. She's lying on her side, and pressing her belly against the bottom edge of the terrace door. A sleek black dog and an orange tabby cat are curled up on different sections of the sofa. It's a very cute tableau

Two medium size doggos of unknown breeds and a cat chilling in a sunny living room with a gray sectional sofa to the left of the frame. Behind them is a large window and a windowed door to a terrace. A brown dog is on the floor to the left of the sofa. She's lying on her side, and pressing her belly against the bottom edge of the terrace door. A sleek black dog and an orange tabby cat are curled up on different sections of the sofa. It's a very cute tableau

I've got three furry housemates. They don't pay rent, but they make up for it in cuteness...

27.05.2025 22:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

streaming til the end of June hawt diggity dawg

26.05.2025 19:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The averige Next to Normal proshot experience ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿฅน

26.05.2025 17:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think that final twist was not so explicit in the original production.

I was already ugly crying, but yeah, that directorial choice added an extra gut punch for food already familiar with the 2008 version.

26.05.2025 03:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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