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Feel free to ask me any questions because Iโ€™ve also had to figure most of this out myself but Iโ€™m fortunate enough to be living in a place where I can just go pick up whatever med I think I should try at the pharmacy.

09.02.2026 19:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

But quercetin is the thing that consistently gets me out of flares.

08.02.2026 19:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And, yes, my allergist knows about the crazy amount of antihistamines.

08.02.2026 19:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Do you find quercetin helpful? It is massively helpful to me. Do you have ketotifen? If so, Iโ€™d take extra of that as well. Those days are the times where I take a couple hydroxyzine, four Zyrtec, a Claritin, a quercetin, stinging nettles, ketotifen, Pepcid, and Benadryl.

08.02.2026 19:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And the more I study, the more convinced I am. Same fleur-de-lis, same shape underneath it

08.02.2026 02:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Really looks like it

08.02.2026 02:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It crashes every single time I try to open it, so Iโ€™m hoping they update it soon

23.01.2026 19:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

5:03 EST is 2:03 PST, which makes me think 23, as in exile ends in 3-2. The times for the doc were all given as PST as well.

I know 1/23 has been a date a lot of people are watching.

15.01.2026 03:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™ve always loved it and appreciated the camp of it, but thereโ€™s an amazing thread about it over on gaylorswift right now. That place has been pretty awful lately, but I really think this poster nailed it with their analysis. Itโ€™s two partsโ€”Taylorโ€™s heroโ€™s journey

07.01.2026 21:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Skin walkers absolutely if you want votes.

04.01.2026 18:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like itโ€™s one of those lines that will become clearer at some point in the future. I hope.

04.01.2026 00:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m pretty sure heโ€™s anti-gaylor, but I blocked him just because heโ€™s insufferably self-righteous.

03.01.2026 02:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So why is it there? Why would you pile all those bales practically blocking your door?

31.12.2025 16:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I know itโ€™s hay (or straw?), but I have zero idea why itโ€™d be blocking someoneโ€™s door like that.

31.12.2025 04:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Is that why we keep seeing tiktoks weโ€™ve already seen (and liked) back in November?

28.12.2025 23:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Honestly, one of the things I appreciated about covid was realizing I didnโ€™t have to get sick after trips.

26.12.2025 01:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

But itโ€™s just so hard. Itโ€™s like perpetual overwhelm, and Iโ€™ve had to make peace with not caring that certain family members think Iโ€™m rude.

25.12.2025 21:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I just spend a lot of time sitting by myself reading or scrolling but only minimally interacting.

25.12.2025 21:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Which reminds me of gay tea dances and their history.

24.12.2025 18:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ditto for people going through crowded airports and onto airplanes. I just donโ€™t understand. How can you hear the people hacking away and think โ€œthis is fineโ€?

24.12.2025 17:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I keep hoping someone will say what they actually posted.

22.12.2025 02:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

How can you know the lyrics to a song and not understand the most surface-level aspects of it? This isnโ€™t like trying to decipher โ€œyour house of stone, my ivy grows.โ€ Itโ€™s very obviously a song about a relationship that ended traumatically for her.

21.12.2025 22:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m not even trying to be mean. But Iโ€™ve seen several saying unironically that Andrea is them because they too didnโ€™t realize Hits Different was a sad song. That one isnโ€™t even subtle. I really donโ€™t understand because most of these people also know the lyrics, so just how???

21.12.2025 22:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Youโ€™re assuming they thought. They just went on vibes.

21.12.2025 20:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You know the stages of reasoning? Many seem to be stuck in a stage of very concrete thinking where if she said โ€œhe,โ€ she had to mean that literally. They canโ€™t conceptualize She could be using a song to talk about different parts of herself or her relationship with fame.

21.12.2025 18:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And she really seems focused on the patriarchy of it all, which is so insidious. The most male-focused Swifties canโ€™t even see how they are centering men in absolutely everything.

21.12.2025 18:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m so curious as to how this unfolds. I suspect she was hoping that theyโ€™d get it, but knew in her heart most of them would not. I think a lot about High Infidelity as being written from the future, after the locks have been broken and she knows many wonโ€™t forgive her for bending the truth.

21.12.2025 18:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I donโ€™t think thereโ€™s any way for her to spoon feed them slowly enough for them to connect the dots. At this point, sheโ€™s led the horses to water and shoved their heads in the water. But they are unable to drink. All they can see is men. Itโ€™s really sad.

21.12.2025 18:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s x. Itโ€™s a cesspool of the absolute worst.

20.12.2025 06:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Omg, I love you. Thank you!

19.12.2025 22:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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