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@evantesseract.bsky.social

Random middle-aged trans guy (he/they) who writes stuff and fixes democracy. Main ingredient: defiant optimism. Say hi if you want 😁

206 Followers  |  99 Following  |  40 Posts  |  Joined: 21.06.2023  |  1.8156

Latest posts by evantesseract.bsky.social on Bluesky

I'm not sure how what you said is anything *other* than an attempt to misrepresent reality in order to scare people, but I'm glad it's not!

26.02.2025 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay! Then now that you know what you were unintentionally doing, you can communicate differently. You said the exact same things the anti-vax people say in order to convince parents not to vaccinate their children.

If you say the same thing, folks are gonna assume you mean the same thing.

26.02.2025 21:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Trying to get people to panic about combined vaccines is pretty gross, stop

26.02.2025 20:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The cup is warm in my hand. The tea, a white blend with grapefruit from Adagio, is subtle and bright.

I have a lot to do today and the world is challenging. The bright moments stand out more because of it, and I'm grateful for them.

26.02.2025 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A photo of a ceramic tenmoku teacup, with iridescent glaze and a lotus blossom painted in gold at the bottom, filled with a light colored tea. A bright green Japanese enameled iron kettle sits behind it, and the sunlight has brought out a green iridescence the same shade in the cup, visible through the tea.

A photo of a ceramic tenmoku teacup, with iridescent glaze and a lotus blossom painted in gold at the bottom, filled with a light colored tea. A bright green Japanese enameled iron kettle sits behind it, and the sunlight has brought out a green iridescence the same shade in the cup, visible through the tea.

The sunlight agrees that it's good to take a moment and appreciate simple, beautiful things

26.02.2025 16:28 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There are many things going on in the world, but just now what I want to think about is how to celebrate my cat's 15th birthday.

He has everything he needs, a relatively delicate digestion, and is picky about treats.

He does like to tear paper, so maybe I can just give him wrapping paper πŸ˜‚

21.02.2025 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A large brown tabby cat curled up asleep between someone's feet, with his paw and chin resting on their ankle.

A large brown tabby cat curled up asleep between someone's feet, with his paw and chin resting on their ankle.

I have so many pictures of him over the years, of course, but here he is now, just a couple of days ago, snuggling with me. He sleeps with me every night, and likes to have at least one paw on me. Such a sweet, sweet cat.

21.02.2025 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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I'm lucky to have some baby pictures - he came from a feral colony my friend was taking care of. He was the last litter before she managed to spay them all.

21.02.2025 15:59 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A fuzzy brown kitten with white feet creeping under a wooden board.

A fuzzy brown kitten with white feet creeping under a wooden board.

This little guy turns 15 in a few days. It's hard to believe sometimes... He's the best darn cat.

He's having some age-related health problems now, and I'm cherishing every day.

21.02.2025 13:30 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

The weight of this grief is very heavy and I can't seem to put it down.

People who love me are fine with my government trying to erase me, and I can't reconcile those things.

It hurts to give up on them.

17.02.2025 00:45 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I ingested something that did not agree with me even a little bit, earlier, so I was placating the digestive system with the least challenging food possible 🀣

09.12.2024 03:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I was Shin Ramyun when I first saw this, which I like

At this point I'd be Inoffensive Oatmeal 🀣

09.12.2024 03:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Like I said, feel free to block me if this makes you see me as part of the problem. We won't get along anyway.

I'm sad though. I guess I hoped we wouldn't be retreading this ground on this platform.

Ah well.

09.12.2024 03:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you want to block everyone who follows whoever, go for it. I have zero opinion about how you curate your own social media experience.

I'm just not interested in having yet another really, really ridiculous online moral purity war, and I hate seeing people waste their energy on it.

09.12.2024 02:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh goodness half this site seems to be having the same tired argument from Twitter about whether folks should follow bad people...

My stance remains the same: if you think you should be policing who other people pay attention to, please just block me now and save us both the future conflict.

09.12.2024 02:54 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Also I personally got tired of wasting any energy on a random fake-compassionate transphobe and blocked them 🀣

But still, thank you for summing up the situation very well

09.12.2024 02:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is a better response than mine πŸ˜‚ well said.

08.12.2024 21:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Your initial comment was neither complex nor nuanced, so I don't believe you

08.12.2024 21:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We have people like you here too.

Please just stop hurting kids

08.12.2024 17:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Shin Ramyun, reporting for duty 🀣

08.12.2024 16:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How dare we help children

08.12.2024 16:34 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey world: stop asking me to pretend to be sad when terrible people die. I'm not going to do that.

08.12.2024 15:46 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You won't regret it πŸ’™ Caro is brilliant!

08.12.2024 15:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I do think he interpreted it correctly as respect, so that's good 🀣

08.12.2024 15:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been listening to k-pop, eating Korean food, and studying Korean for a couple of years now.

Last night I was introduced to an older man I respect very much, and I shook his hand with both of mine and bowed my head. Without thinking about it at all.

Too bad he wasn't Korean 🀣

08.12.2024 15:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We've reached the time of year when the sun is at an eye-punishing angle pretty much all day

I'm walking west right now and can see nothing 🀣

06.12.2024 19:37 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why is it unfortunate? If someone doesn't want to interact with me I'm fine with that. No one owes me their attention.

09.11.2024 16:32 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am not going to act like my choices don't matter. I'm going to go ahead and act like all of it does matter, a better future is possible and we're going to get there.

-from me, on Flash Forward with Rose Eveleth, years ago. Thank you, Doug, for the reminder.

09.11.2024 16:12 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Someone just reached out via email to tell me that something I said on a podcast several years ago is helpful to them.

It was about hope.

I don't know if a message from a stranger has ever made me happier.

09.11.2024 16:10 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Most things we need to do will not be fun, but this one is: we need to embarrass the rich. A LOT. Hoarding personal wealth needs to be THE uncoolest, most shameful thing to do. Shitting your pants in front of the whole school? Who cares, everyone shits! But being a billionaire? Humiliating!

07.11.2024 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 157    πŸ” 53    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 7

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