π«Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you donβt have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. π Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Understanding the Impact of Smartphones on Children and Teens: Β A Guide for Parents - Capa First Response
We know that for many children a smartphone is a necessity, so they can communicate with their parents when away from home, use digital travel passes, access
βIt can feel easier to say nothing than risk an argument about screen time.β
This article offers insight into how smartphones shape young peopleβs emotions and behaviour β and what helps when setting boundaries.
π Read here: capafirstresponse.org/understandin...
#ParentingTeens #DigitalBoundaries
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Listen on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/22ulI7h...
or search 'The Capa Podcast' #TheCapaPodcast
These episodes are a helpful listen to ALL parents, not just families experiencing #CAPVA
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π«Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you donβt have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. π Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
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Families - Capa First Response
At Capa First Response CIC, we understand the challenges that come with child-to-parent aggression and harmful behaviours. We know that families often feel
It can be hard to talk about whatβs happening at home β but support is here when youβre ready.
CAPA First Response offers information, drop-ins, and understanding for families living with CAPVA.
π Learn more: capafirstresponse.org/families/
#CAPVA #FamilySupport #ParentingUnderPressure #CAPAFirst
03.11.2025 11:00 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
Why we don't like to use 'Abuse' - Capa First Response
Child and adolescent to parent abuse (CAPA) is a serious issue that affects many families, the world over. However, when discussing CAPA, the language we use
Calling child-to-parent violence βabuseβ can make parents feel ashamed and kids feel labelled β often making it harder to get help.
This article explains why shifting language to describe the behaviour as βfamily conflictβ or βexplosive behaviourβ can help families feel understood and supported.
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3 Hr Accredited Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression (CAPVA) Training
CAPVA Training: Are you a Professional looking to enhance your understanding and awareness of Child Against Parent Violence and Aggression?
Gave me the confidence to work in a complex area. Really useful resources and approach.β
Our accredited 3-hour CAPVA training helps you identify risk factors, understand family impact, and develop effective strategies.
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13th November | Β£50 | Online training
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For Parents & Carers
Events for parents and carers who are experiencing 'CAPVA' - Child against parent violence and abuse/aggression
πͺ Parenting through #CAPVA is hard β but you donβt have to do it alone.
Join our FREE online drop-in every Wednesday at 12:30 AM.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand.
π Register: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren...
#ChildToParentViolence #FreeParentSupport
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3 Strategies for De-Escalating Violence from Your Child - Capa First Response
Violence in the home can be a distressing and frightening experience for any parent or carer. When children direct aggression toward their parents, it not
De-escalation starts with safety and space.
This article shares practical approaches for parents and carers when faced with violence from their child β including how to protect yourself without escalating further.
π Read more: capafirstresponse.org/strategies-d...
#CAPVA #ParentSupport #Deescalat
27.10.2025 11:01 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
Professionals - Capa First Response
As more and more families are impacted by a child who uses harmful or aggressive behaviour in the home (often referred to as child to parent violence or abuse
Enhance your understanding of CAPVA and improve your practice.
Our tailored training and resources are designed for professionals supporting families dealing with aggression and violence at home.
Learn more here: capafirstresponse.org/professionals/
#CAPVA #ProfessionalDevelopment #ChildToParentV
24.10.2025 10:01 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
What to do if your child is being bullied - Capa First Response
What to do if my child is being bullied? A practical guide for parents to help explore the best course of action to take
Worried your child is being bullied? Youβre not alone β and there are steps you can take.
This blog explores how to spot the signs, support your child, and involve school if needed.
π Read now: capafirstresponse.org/what-to-do-i...
#BullyingHelp #ParentalSupport #SafeChildren #CAPAFirstResponse
23.10.2025 10:00 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
For Parents & Carers
Events for parents and carers who are experiencing 'CAPVA' - Child against parent violence and abuse/aggression
πͺ Parenting through #CAPVA is hard β but you donβt have to do it alone.
Join our FREE online drop-in every Wednesday at 12:30 AM.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand.
π Register: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren...
#ChildToParentViolence #FreeParentSupport
20.10.2025 17:31 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
How talking less can actually help.
Here's a snippet of the latest episode of #TheCapaPodcast Please do listen & share
creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/...
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How Neurodiversity affects Child-to-Parent Aggression - Capa First Response
When we think about child against parent aggression (CAPA), itβs easy to focus only on the behaviour we can see: the shouting, the physical aggression, the
Understanding neurodiversity can help reframe what looks like aggression.
This article breaks down how unmet needs, stress, and miscommunication can fuel Child to Parent Aggression in neurodivergent young people.
π capafirstresponse.org/how-neurodiv...
#CAPVA #NeurodivergentSupport #ParentingNeur
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3 Hr Accredited Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression (CAPVA) Training
CAPVA Training: Are you a Professional looking to enhance your understanding and awareness of Child Against Parent Violence and Aggression?
βFantastic, great training β really insightful and helpful to my work.β
Join our accredited 3-hour CAPVA training and get practical tools to confidently support families experiencing Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression.
π Accredited | Interactive | Β£50
π 13th November | Online
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Families - Capa First Response
At Capa First Response CIC, we understand the challenges that come with child-to-parent aggression and harmful behaviours. We know that families often feel
Looking for help navigating aggression or violence from your child?
CAPA First Response provides a safe, non-judgemental space for parents and carers to learn, connect, and be supported.
Explore the options: capafirstresponse.org/families/
#CAPVA #SupportForFamilies #ParentingHelp #CAPAFirstRespo
14.10.2025 10:00 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
Strategies for de-escalating aggressive behaviour from your child - Capa First Response
Violence in the home can be a distressing and frightening experience for any parent or carer. When children direct aggression toward their parents, it not
If your childβs behaviour feels intense and unpredictable, this blog may help.
It explores simple de-escalation strategies to reduce harm, lower stress, and support calmer responses when things get heated.
π Read here: capafirstresponse.org/strategies-f...
#CAPVA #ParentingTools #Deescalation #Sa
10.10.2025 10:00 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
Episode 3 of #TheCapaPodcast is out to listen or watch now! This episode covers validation & empathy and some strategies to try. Full episodeπ open.spotify.com/episode/1paK...
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Safety planning could look talking to the police before you need them... take a listen! This is episode 2 of our latest podcast season (with episode 3 out tomorrow!)
Listen and watch: bit.ly/CapaPodcasts2e2
We're grateful for funding from East Sussex County Council for this season.
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3 Hr Accredited Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression (CAPVA) Training
CAPVA Training: Are you a Professional looking to enhance your understanding and awareness of Child Against Parent Violence and Aggression?
Build your expertise with our accredited 3-hour CAPVA training for professionals working with families.
What youβll learn:
βοΈ Risk factors & family dynamics
βοΈ Communication strategies & practical tools
βοΈ Confidence to intervene compassionately
π Accreditation included | Β£50 | Online & accessible
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Episode 2 of our podcast deals with safety planning & communicating with the police when your child's anger escalates. Here's a snippet... Full episode out now: bit.ly/CapaPodcasts2e2
#TheCapaPodcast
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Episode 1 of #TheCapaPodcast looks at how children show distress through aggression, withdrawal or other behaviours and how parents can respond with understanding. This series offers free support for families experiencing Child Against Parent Aggression (CAPA). π Listen here: bit.ly/CapaPods2e1
04.10.2025 07:11 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
After-School Restraint Collapse: How to cope with after school meltdowns - Capa First Response
If your child comes home from school and suddenly seems to fall apart; angry outbursts, tears, or complete withdrawal then you're not alone. Many parents and
The after-school meltdowns? You're not imagining it.
Our latest post explores why this happens and what might help. A must-read if school pick-up feels like walking into a storm.
π Read it here: capafirstresponse.org/after-school...
#CAPVA #ParentalSupport #Meltdowns #AfterSchoolStruggles #YouAre
03.10.2025 13:01 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Here's a snippet of our latest podcast, Matt talks about masking (we all do it, even if we don't think we do!) in an episode around dysregulation. Listen & Watch the first episode: creators.spotify.com/pod/show/capafirstresponse
New episodes weekly! Please do share with families who may need this fr
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3 Hr Accredited Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression (CAPVA) Training
CAPVA Training: Are you a Professional looking to enhance your understanding and awareness of Child Against Parent Violence and Aggression?
Professionals: Build your skills with our accredited 3-hour CAPVA training!
Gain confidence supporting families affected by Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression with practical tools, risk factor awareness, and communication strategies.
π Date: 13th November | π· Price: Β£50 | π Accredited cour
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