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DeAnn

@gardenlobster.bsky.social

I love my favorite person (FP), my family, my dog, trans rights, repro justice, and hazelnut coffee. Oh, and video games! she/her GM bsky! 🌞

178 Followers  |  126 Following  |  1,845 Posts  |  Joined: 04.08.2023  |  1.6987

Latest posts by gardenlobster.bsky.social on Bluesky

halloween is the best holiday because it’s the one that’s the most community focused. also because it’s the horniest

01.11.2025 02:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1230    πŸ” 216    πŸ’¬ 24    πŸ“Œ 9
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A very serious dracula and muppet renfield

01.11.2025 00:58 β€” πŸ‘ 68    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Chihuahua dressed as a big fluffy lion

Chihuahua dressed as a big fluffy lion

@darthbluesky.bsky.social This is Max(imum Snuggles), my grand pup. My favorite lion.

01.11.2025 00:57 β€” πŸ‘ 172    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
Black dog wears orange pumpkin hat

Black dog wears orange pumpkin hat

01.11.2025 00:25 β€” πŸ‘ 140    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A black and white dog wearing a hotdog costume rests his chin on a fuzzy brown arm

A black and white dog wearing a hotdog costume rests his chin on a fuzzy brown arm

glizzy at your service

31.10.2025 16:27 β€” πŸ‘ 310    πŸ” 26    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 1
DeAnn in a black lace and velvet bell sleeve gown with final fantasy job stone detail, a silver necklace, witch hat, and platform heels

DeAnn in a black lace and velvet bell sleeve gown with final fantasy job stone detail, a silver necklace, witch hat, and platform heels

My xiv dress was giving witchy vibes so I found a witch hat in a closet bin and shoes that I won't trip over this dress in and called it a costume

01.11.2025 00:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So that potential interest reached back out. I gather that she really only wants one thing, but I'm not mad at it. Tbh I like the attention and if she moves on after, no hard feelings. It's nice for now.

31.10.2025 20:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A relationship can survive mistakes, but it can't survive patterns. One bad choice can be repaired with accountability and effort, but repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a habit. Apologies lose meaning when the actions never change. 

A healthy relationship doesn't require perfection, but it does require growth.

A relationship can survive mistakes, but it can't survive patterns. One bad choice can be repaired with accountability and effort, but repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a habit. Apologies lose meaning when the actions never change. A healthy relationship doesn't require perfection, but it does require growth.

31.10.2025 20:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A skeleton holding a brain in one hand and heart in the other. Above the brain it says "Why do you break so damn easily?" Above the heart it says "I dunno, maybe you should go overthink it." The skeleton is yelling "MAKE THEM STOP!!!"

A skeleton holding a brain in one hand and heart in the other. Above the brain it says "Why do you break so damn easily?" Above the heart it says "I dunno, maybe you should go overthink it." The skeleton is yelling "MAKE THEM STOP!!!"

GM bsky

31.10.2025 16:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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These dogs were spotted taking a group photo in their Halloween costumes. We're impressed by the dog walker's dedication to getting the shot, but that ghost definitely wishes he could actually disappear. 14/10 for all (TT: franklinbarkzoo)

30.10.2025 22:57 β€” πŸ‘ 10625    πŸ” 1989    πŸ’¬ 244    πŸ“Œ 185

Please don't worry. I speak for all stoners when I say I will not waste my precious and expensive gummies on your child

30.10.2025 19:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1698    πŸ” 357    πŸ’¬ 36    πŸ“Œ 10
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its just how she likes to sit

31.10.2025 01:36 β€” πŸ‘ 683    πŸ” 26    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 3

I did meet a potential someone who invited me out, but she doesn't seem interested in learning more about me as a person and gives vague answers to my questions. So my interest has quickly waned. Still, coulda had a thing to do...

31.10.2025 02:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Evening plans didn't pan out. Let FP go do hard content while I adjusted my Halloween glam that no one will see. Now I'm just kind of... bored.

31.10.2025 02:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
An I Voted sticker stuck to two fingers with a woven purse in the background

An I Voted sticker stuck to two fingers with a woven purse in the background

Civic duty done! Reminder to Texans: the constitutional amendment for "parents as primary decision makers for children" is an anti-trans initiative in disguise

30.10.2025 22:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm so very sorry for your loss πŸ’”πŸΎπŸŒˆ

30.10.2025 15:09 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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a man sitting in a chair with the words is this a what day is this written below him ALT: a man sitting in a chair with the words is this a what day is this written below him

GM bsky

30.10.2025 15:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Home sweet home 🏑

30.10.2025 01:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
I pray you quit overthinking, replaying failed scenarios, feeding self doubt, and seeing the good in everyone but yourself, you deserve more. Says evil skeletor ruthlessly schemes to take control of castle grayskull & all eternia!

I pray you quit overthinking, replaying failed scenarios, feeding self doubt, and seeing the good in everyone but yourself, you deserve more. Says evil skeletor ruthlessly schemes to take control of castle grayskull & all eternia!

29.10.2025 16:10 β€” πŸ‘ 301    πŸ” 102    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 6
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a woman says i 'm actually terrified in front of her ALT: a woman says i 'm actually terrified in front of her

GM bsky I have to get on a plane again

29.10.2025 16:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I love Rebecca DOWN. Known as Dollar Tree Dinners.

Her β€œMeal in a Bag” is meant to provide ppl with a complete meal that is $8 or less, is shelf stable, & can be made without access to a full kitchen. I love this as a direct aid option. Good for neighbors & elders who can’t/wont go to a pantry.

28.10.2025 22:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1108    πŸ” 658    πŸ’¬ 19    πŸ“Œ 40

This vacation has been just what we needed. I had worried when I came out as polyamorous I'd somehow irreparably damaged our connection. This week proved our marriage is stronger and closer than we've ever been.

29.10.2025 05:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s important to remember that community care doesn’t have to come in the form of $100s in donations or dropping off pallets of food.

Sometimes it’s picking up an extra rotisserie chicken for a neighbor, or doing a grocery pick up for an elder, or helping someone with laundry or childcare.

28.10.2025 23:38 β€” πŸ‘ 582    πŸ” 219    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 8

Time to pretend to be a cishet couple for 3 hrs

29.10.2025 00:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I cannot emphasize just how grateful I am that FP is in my life. The love I hold for her brings me to tears at times πŸ₯Ή She is and will always be my absolute Favorite Person πŸ©·πŸ’œβ€οΈ

28.10.2025 22:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We did all sorts of dumb touristy shit today and it was πŸ’― worth it. We had the best time and made memories. These are the moments I live for. If there's really a god, and really a heaven, my only prayer is I get to see these moments one more time.

#joyasanactofresistance
#joyasresilience
#queerjoy

28.10.2025 22:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

When cats are confused by or upset about something, they just smack the shit out of whatever it is that's frustrating them and I think that's beautiful.

28.10.2025 20:50 β€” πŸ‘ 659    πŸ” 134    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 2

Won $50 on slots!

28.10.2025 20:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The aquarium was a blast! I got this great shot of a lion fish

28.10.2025 20:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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