but it is pretty nerve-wracking to feel like I'm kicking up a fuss and making a big deal out of something when management are acting like it's not a big deal. but it is to me!
01.12.2023 10:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0@simonereadwebb.bsky.social
one-time philosopher, current academic advisor, living by the sea film, wildlife, upcoming baby they/them
but it is pretty nerve-wracking to feel like I'm kicking up a fuss and making a big deal out of something when management are acting like it's not a big deal. but it is to me!
01.12.2023 10:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0UCU is being incredibly helpful, it's my first time engaging with the union for a specific workplace issue I'm facing and the casework officer has been great
01.12.2023 10:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0looks like I'm going to be taking a formal grievance out against my employer because HR have decided that my job isn't an academic one, after two years of being told it is π
01.12.2023 10:43 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0then I went on Vinted and found these wonderful dungarees
05.11.2023 17:20 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0and then this charming snowsuit for Β£3
05.11.2023 17:18 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Joe and I found a secondhand baby clothes sale in the local shopping centre the very day we'd marked to start buying baby stuff and we filled up a shopping bag of 0-3 month clothes for Β£10
05.11.2023 17:17 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0sorting out the logistics of childcare and travelling to London with a four month old baby is a problem for July
03.11.2023 17:34 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Thank you!! We probably won't be in a position to properly start looking until next May/June at the earliest (baby arrives in March), but I'll def reach out then
24.10.2023 10:22 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0This is good to know - the dark is one of my concerns! Not sure if my Lumie alarm clock would he quite enough
24.10.2023 10:10 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0thanks, this is really helpful!! we're finding it pretty deadening down in Eastbourne without much going on and struggling to make friends, but can't face moving back to London - Edinburgh feels like it offers a great mix of culture/events/nature and I've liked it whenever I've been
24.10.2023 09:57 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0maybe what it's like to make a big move (I think you were based in Oxford before, sorry if I'm wrong!) and how easy it is making new friends etc as that's what I'm most worried about
24.10.2023 08:57 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0thank you! we've been looking at flats and houses and found some really gorgeous ones we like that are nicer and more spacious than what we were looking at before down South
24.10.2023 08:56 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0or like anyone who has moved up from England to Scotland ( @heliolithic.bsky.social I have a vague idea you moved to Glasgow??)
24.10.2023 08:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Joe and I are seriously considering a big move to Edinburgh some time after we have the baby, seems like it fits pretty much everything we want out of a living location. Tips from anyone who has done this (@lilt.bsky.social?) much welcome
24.10.2023 08:38 β π 5 π 2 π¬ 7 π 0so apparently my baby has little (and weirdly skeletal) feet??
18.10.2023 06:38 β π 7 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0I am extremely excited to get Undaunted: Stalingrad, the far bigger legacy-style version of the game
15.10.2023 07:31 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0sorry to say that Joe and I bought Undaunted: Normandy yesterday, a two-person tactical WWII board game, and now I am a man in his 60s called Trevor who loves wargaming
15.10.2023 07:30 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0absolutely missed a trick in my thesis
12.10.2023 06:58 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0sometimes I get a sense of absolute vertigo as I consider how having a baby in March doesn't just mean having a baby but also having a child and a teenager and an adult
09.10.2023 13:40 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Thank you!!
09.10.2023 06:58 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0pretty sure I'm beginning to feel the baby move, and that's a thing
like...there really is a separate living being inside me, I guess
I'm guessing 25 years
03.10.2023 13:26 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0going for a bat walk with the local branch of Sussex Wildlife Trust later, taking bets on how much younger than the next youngest people Joe and I will be
03.10.2023 13:26 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0idk whether to start looking into locations for this essay to be published now, or whether to wait until I have something finished and then work it out
03.10.2023 12:23 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I've started looking into motherhood studies and thinking about how some of that work might connect with the Foucault that I really like
03.10.2023 12:23 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I've got a bunch of ideas around it, too, that I might try to turn into something more academically focused
03.10.2023 12:22 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0starting to write something again feels really odd - I'd kind of given up on myself as a writer and now I'm 1500 words into something
03.10.2023 12:22 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I don't need another 5 months of pregnancy! I'm good to go!
02.10.2023 12:20 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0some days I am just SO IMPATIENT to have my baby
02.10.2023 12:19 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0strongly believe I need to get this wooden toy pizza oven for my child to ensure their correct intellectual development
01.10.2023 16:02 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0