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@ephant.bsky.social

BOLDNESS IS ALL #ActuallyAutistic writer of neurodivergent & queer romance & family drama. πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί ✍️ πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ πŸ“š 🧢 🌻 Knits socks when not #writing.

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Whenever a man identified himself as an alpha, I assume he means he hasn't been bug tested or refined through beta testing, so he's not ready for release for end users.

"Alpha males" are raw, poorly optimised humanware. I urge all women not to integrate alphas in their life as it may cause damage

09.08.2025 07:01 β€” πŸ‘ 51    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Ghost of Us Midnight Til Morning Β· Bye Β· Song Β· 2025

Kind of obsessed with this song right now open.spotify.com/track/3Rdevm...

08.08.2025 05:40 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Changed my profile pic for the first time in a long time! My hair has been exclusively green for a long time, so new pic reflects that!

08.08.2025 05:37 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If the computer says something that's obviously dumb, it just means that you're the dumb one. You didn't ask right

08.08.2025 03:54 β€” πŸ‘ 114    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you!!!!!

06.08.2025 21:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Apparently conservatives are mad about the Cynthia Erivo production of Jesus Christ Superstar. Surely it is because it is a heretical text which seats the meaning of the Christ narrative entirely in the Passion and the Arma Christi rather than the Resurrection, and for no other reasons.

05.08.2025 13:32 β€” πŸ‘ 191    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 3

As a society we genuinely managed to shame people out of saying "I like all music except rap and country" (a bizarrely common sentiment when I was in uni) and if that was wokenesses' only achievement it would still have been worth it.

05.08.2025 05:27 β€” πŸ‘ 388    πŸ” 44    πŸ’¬ 26    πŸ“Œ 11

Holy shit’s it’s William DeBehr, the founder of Build-a-Bear.

04.08.2025 22:51 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I liked it because my son said he didn’t want to watch it because Barbie is β€œonly for girls” and then he actually really enjoyed it, and I think things like that where I can show that β€œthings made for/about girls can be enjoyed by everyone, actually!” are Good and Important

03.08.2025 07:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This whole thing is so amazing to hear about and I am so happy for you! Human bodies are amazing!

02.08.2025 22:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

let me throw some fuel on the fire that is the discourse about boys getting laid!!! current-day manopshere content is not good at getting boys laid and that's an effect of the incentives at play. you cannot build an audience of resentful little virgins if you succeed at helping them to have sex

01.08.2025 20:48 β€” πŸ‘ 5356    πŸ” 943    πŸ’¬ 76    πŸ“Œ 99
Title: Gender Census 2025.

Text: If you can't easily put yourself into just one of these two boxes, you are invited to take part.

Illustration: Two boxes, each with photos of relevant dictionary pages.

Title: Gender Census 2025. Text: If you can't easily put yourself into just one of these two boxes, you are invited to take part. Illustration: Two boxes, each with photos of relevant dictionary pages.

The 12th annual international Gender Census 2025 is now open until at least 30th August 2025!

survey.gendercensus.com

It's for anyone whose gender (or lack thereof) isn't described by the M/F binary. It's short and easy, and results are useful in academia, business and self-advocacy.

30.07.2025 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1299    πŸ” 1573    πŸ’¬ 14    πŸ“Œ 83

Never forgive men for treating programming as a meaningless thing your secretary did while women were inventing and developing the field, then, once they realized it was going to be important, shoving women out of it and claiming only Male Logic Brains could perform it.

30.07.2025 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 958    πŸ” 351    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 12

and you could be like "oh well how WOULD you feel about it if trans people WERE dominating in sports" but like. I don't know, what is the policy position of the people who are currently lying to me about observable reality, right now? Because I think I would probably want the opposite

28.07.2025 21:32 β€” πŸ‘ 472    πŸ” 40    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

If you're worried about your daughter losing at sports to a trans kid just wait until you hear about "tall kids" or "rich kids"!!! There's a thousand reasons why one kid might win over another and gender identity is like not even on the list

28.07.2025 22:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1308    πŸ” 265    πŸ’¬ 16    πŸ“Œ 10

We need to teach people the difference between being uncomfortable and being unsafe. Because the discomfort of the safest people is endangering the most vulnerable, all day every day.

29.07.2025 04:09 β€” πŸ‘ 13452    πŸ” 4531    πŸ’¬ 78    πŸ“Œ 124

it's ridiculous how many Star Trek games have been about shooting phasers at stuff considering how rarely Star Trek is about shooting phasers at stuff

28.07.2025 23:52 β€” πŸ‘ 180    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 2

Star Trek game where you manage a shop/business on the Deep Space Nine promenade and try to maintain a customer base in the midst of wars, body swaps, lockdowns, religious festivals, murders, smuggling, gay lunches, explosions, invasions, portals to the mirror universe...

28.07.2025 23:46 β€” πŸ‘ 488    πŸ” 104    πŸ’¬ 24    πŸ“Œ 41

Then go and read a different book! There are, like, dozens of them.

28.07.2025 22:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œThey’re the exact same books I loved before I knew all the bad things. Is it somehow censorship if I tear them up and use them for kitty litter because I can’t forget about the children locked in cages in the basement?”

Good! Good! Let the hate flow through you!

28.07.2025 22:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Exactly!!

28.07.2025 22:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There's SO MUCH good art out there, we can let go of any art that makes us feel icky for any reason up to and including "artist abused their kid(s)", "artist allowed other(s) to abuse their kid(s)", "artist abused other adults", "artist abuses other adults by proxy by being a famous bigot" etc.

28.07.2025 21:57 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There are a LOT of books and movies in the world, and plenty enough of them were made by people who aren’t currently known to be assholes.

(Some of them probably are assholes but we don’t know about it yet.)

28.07.2025 22:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Like… β€œI try so hard to β€˜separate the art from the artist’, but I just feel revolted when I see their name on the spine of the book. Does that make me Bad At Appreciating Art?”

No!! It’s fine and normal to be grossed out by reminders of gross people!!

28.07.2025 21:47 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

A weird and disappointing thing I have seen a bunch of people doing recently is asking if there’s something wrong about not being able to β€œseparate art from the artist” and feeling disgusted by media they used to enjoy.

28.07.2025 21:47 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

A semi-regular reminder:

"Death of the author" = analysis tool that emphasises the importance of the audience's interpretation of art once it is out of the creator's hand;

"Separate the art from the artist" = "I want to keep enjoying my nostalgia even though this author is a bigoted heinous loser"

28.07.2025 21:11 β€” πŸ‘ 352    πŸ” 135    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 3

With Tom Lehrer's passing, I suppose this is a moment to share the story of the prank he played on the National Security Agency, and how it went undiscovered for nearly 60 years.

27.07.2025 21:01 β€” πŸ‘ 8563    πŸ” 3611    πŸ’¬ 143    πŸ“Œ 715

why are they called prompt engineers instead of sloperators

27.07.2025 05:31 β€” πŸ‘ 121    πŸ” 37    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Fiiiine, apparently half my readers enjoy an info dump, so here we go!

Grasslands Sequester Carbon Too or β€œWhy trees are not the be-all and end-all.”

Ahem. *takes a sip of water*

25.07.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2191    πŸ” 586    πŸ’¬ 68    πŸ“Œ 113

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