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Margaret J

@whatyihavegod.bsky.social

Just a mom. WNBA fan. NY Liberty is my team! πŸ—½ Not performative so it’s hard for me to relate. #fvxkcancer

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Immunotherapy is not the same thing as chemotherapy , so little to no hair loss and minimal side effects .

So far

Exhaustion
Soreness
Exhaustion

can still be active and independent!

18.03.2025 04:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Its literally not even a task for me to be mean to men now because I literally cried away the niceness and care.

Heartbreak did a number on me so bad that I thought the doctors told me i was a goner soon. Turns out I heard everything wrong and have a very high chance of beating this!

18.03.2025 03:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Mind is racing ! Get some rest soon.

18.03.2025 03:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Could you imagine BEGGING the person you're in a relationship with to ask you..not support, but just ask about your business? Only for them to say they asked you 6 weeks ago, but on a STRANGERS podcast every week like a loyal fan.

I'm a sucker y'all?? Tell me the truth! 😭

I should deck him right?

18.03.2025 03:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not because I cheated or lied. Not because I lacked ambition or care for him, but because I got depressed and couldn't receive what he was giving.

My mother died and I took custody of my kid sister along with some major life changes.

But yeah resent for over 6 months.

Yeah, I hate this man.

18.03.2025 03:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m super angry! I feel like whenever my period comes I start ruminating about how my ex literally played in my face for months knowing his ass wasn’t feeling me or the relationship anymore😭

Not long after the Liberty won we literally looked at rings..RINGS and this man RESENTED ME!

18.03.2025 03:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Took him to see his favorite team play against the Knicks at MSG ! For no other reason other than it was his favorite team.

I’m a sucker y’all? Like what? I feel like I would feel better if I punched him in the face.

This is less about material things and more about the time I wasted and lies.

18.03.2025 03:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn’t know much about him when we met, but a year prior to him meeting me he received an accolade within his field of work. I found out he never celebrated it , so I surprised him with tickets to see MJ the musical on broadway. His first Broadway play. GREAT SEATS! But β€œhe don’t matter”.

18.03.2025 03:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyway, could you imagine someone saying they felt like they didn’t matter when you were in a middle of a depressive episode brought on by the death of your mom, becoming a guardian to teen sister and just life stuff??

When all you’ve done since you met them is pour into them and uplift?

I can.

18.03.2025 03:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m about to just skeet to myself? Is that what we call posts on Bluesky? A skeet? 😭.

18.03.2025 03:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I will never ever do this again. I’m aesthetically lowkey, yet an attractive woman. I pop out when I need to , but always keep it casual. Not shallow at all, but he told me I was because I wanted him to compliment me. Bro idk how I keep choosing partners who literally play in my face every time.

18.03.2025 02:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m not a person who is overly into my appearance and I 100% shrank myself in previous relationship. There were a number of reasons why. Initially it was so folks wouldn’t think I was using him when repeated conversations about his outward appearance fell on death ears, so I just downgraded mine.

18.03.2025 02:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

lol did that person block me ? Or are they blocked from blue sky?

17.03.2025 19:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

17.03.2025 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I know, but when I look..it seems those are the ones getting married.

17.03.2025 16:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Its on my list for sure!

17.03.2025 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

😭

I might be alone forever, but at least I'm funny.

17.03.2025 16:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

😭 it’s my fault though ..delusional of me to think simple communication meant I wasn’t supposed to be a wife.

17.03.2025 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ayoooooo

Napheesa is sick !

I am sick I feel like I missed a great night of basketball !

17.03.2025 02:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yooo

I checked the score and thought laces had it in the bag ..after lent I’m going to have to run this back 😭

17.03.2025 01:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

God is love. ❀️

16.03.2025 13:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

actually, hope that you have people around you who are supportive and understanding.

You will heal you will learn to manage even better and you will also obtain another job with equal or greater pay and benefits.

16.03.2025 12:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

lol.

Dad jokes 101 but from moms

The kid: β€œWhy can’t I stay up late? Why are you taking my remote?”

Me: There’s a whole lot of whys and not enough z’s for me”

🀣🀣🀣

16.03.2025 04:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The science of breakups is so interesting and it really helpful in terms of giving myself grace for how I behaved immediately after mine.

I only regret one thing about how it β€œended”. and that’s a mistake I will never make again.

16.03.2025 00:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My actions match my heart…

15.03.2025 22:51 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It is just based off a recent experience I had dating a black man who had issues communicating things about his well being and such. White women don’t have the dna in them that activates our fear and concern for our black men and children , so people like him need to date white women.

15.03.2025 18:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

!!!!!

15.03.2025 18:38 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Some people need to only date white folks πŸ₯΄

And

Some pride themselves for only dating black people , but are abusive so what you priding ourselves on?

I personally don’t have an attraction to them so I don’t think I can.

15.03.2025 18:15 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s the lowkey disrespect you gotta check immediately. The way I’m mean now. 🀣

14.03.2025 12:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

No for real!

14.03.2025 12:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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