Eileen "MamaMan" Jackson

this special task or say this special thing? The answer is they don't. They want something else. And they should go fuck themselves

"I was just, I was just, I was just. YOU were the one being so impolite when I was JUST being an asshole." Right. So if I'm so terrible why the fuck are you still here pleading your case? Know what I mean? I wish more people would protect themselves and ask that question. Why do they need YOU to do

Do like DARE and "just say no". Cuz, I mean, nothing good ever comes from these dickheads. "I was just curious," says the bitch looking for a reason to meddle. "I was just making a point," says the asshole spoiling for a fight. "I was just joking," says the douchebag wanting to smell fear.

Social hacking is annoying, at best. It's dangerous, at worst. What I call social hacking is someone attempting to get another person to do something or say something they feel uncomfortable with by trying to make them feel like they are being impolite when saying no or not engaging.

boundary is being taken from them. New social norms are conflating convenience with access. I find it annoying, to be sure. I just also think it's sad and weird to not know a world with personal time.

Anyone else notice that the younger folk don't seem to know how to live without CONSTANT contact? This isn't a dig. It's just kinda sad. Their expectation is to have damn near constant access to other people and they just accept damn near constant access to themselves. I feel like an important

Do you see me talking to someone else? Involved in multiple tasks at once? Awesome. How is it rude to say that? Funny how my words have deeper meaning cuz they're mine, but yours don't cuz you're you. Yeah ok.

I believe there really is a translation issue between neuro types. But to say that ALL neurodivergents and ALL neurotypicals respond to each other and auto understand intent amongst their own is fucking insane. That's like brain horoscopes. Gtfoh

a few spare hours when I do, lets discuss. I will wear your mf ear off and listen deeply to everyone's heart's content. Get your water for hydration on that adventure. What I will not do is bow down to shaming tactics. I'm not immune to shame. I just hate your passive aggressive irrational bs more.

get out of jail free cards for being a dick. You're just a dick. And my personal boundary on whether I drop everything at the absolute worst time to ask me to drop things is, no. It's not cuz I never want to explain it am afraid to. It's that I'm not going to right this damn second. If you have

like is being super busy and having someone assume they are the main character in MY life. To be clear, it isn't just neurodivergents that do this. It's just the circles that mislabel shitty behavior as neurodivergent. I don't know who needs to hear this, but neurodivergent or neurotypical are not

the context? I say this as a neurodivergent, ok. If I'm busy, and someone interrupts what I'm doing to ask me about something that is a) not their business b) not an emergency c) irrelevant, my response is going to be annoyed. Why? It's not cuz I don't like questions. I LOVE questions. What I don't

I just gotta say this one thing that I see a lot in memes, and threads, and stuff about neurodivergents: The need to understand. And I TOTALLY get that cuz I also need to understand why I am doing whatever. That only neurotypicals get annoyed by questions. WELL, like anything else, what is

Just cuz YOU will never fit the profile doesn't mean I can't or haven't. How many stories of this experience does it take to get that? And why anger at ME? For what? Saying my feelings built on real experiences?

I recently expressed fear about flying south for a conference, and I was met with anger at ME... My response? Also anger. I've been asked where I'm "FROM from" one too many times in my life to not be concerned. Profiling is real.

In another episode of men say the weirdest shit, a guy said he liked my "sexy" kitty necklace.... It's a gold cat charm. That's it.

I hate when people claim to "understand" polyamory and then conveniently leave out the "amory" part. Please be quiet.

No salon seems to know how to do a fade... Or cut hair generally. So I'm going to my son's barber. I'm tired of having to shave my head cuz they fuck up so bad

Sonyah, the petitest kitty to ever petite, likes to run to the door every time I go to leave and stretches up against the door. She does her little cat chirp, as if to say, "Have a nice day!" I pat her head, she nudges my hand, and then she's good. Sweetest little ninja girl

the way off. My bet is that it will be 4 years from now where this narcissist piece of shit tries again. Then next time 5. Then 6. Basically, maybe I'll reach a full decade w/o hearing from him when I hit 92. Ffs

Stop it. But wait, what if you did it anyway again, and they tell you AGAIN not to contact them. Is it ok to do it again 2 years later? Still no. What are you even doing? BUT, what if you did it anyway AGAIN, and now 3 years have passed. Surely that's ok. My brother in Christ, you need to fuck all

Let's say someone breaks up with you and says,"Don't ever contact me again," and a year passes. Should you contact them? The correct answer is no. No you should not. Ok, but what if you already did it and they told you not to contact them again again. Is it ok to contact them a year after that? No.

more upsetting than the initial thing that triggered the initial anger tbh.

When you go to someone to express something painful and confusing, and then they tell you "not to dwell" on something happening in real time... Invalidating someone's emotional response to things beyond their control is so.... Shitty. I think that might be

The portrayal of love bombing is so so good. And the good ol, "You're to blame for me hurting you," mantra. Anyway, yeah, I'm glad the show is over. The amount of women that genuinely saw this as a romance is sickening.

normal, but exceedingly beyond reproach. Yes, there are openly violent men. But let me tell you, the far more dangerous one is the one who knows the right talking points, cares about image just a little TOO much, and has a history of "psychotic" exes. The mask comes off behind closed doors, though.

no one is immune from being gaslit, abused, and/or murdered. There is no "broken" archetype of women who are chosen to do this to. In fact, part of the game is to change them. Also, on a more personal level, this character reminds me of my ex. What makes them so dangerous is they appear, not just

I enjoyed the ending to the final season of You. Joe Goldberg, in every season, is the total encapsulation of the ironic sentiment that men are needed to protect women from... Men. It pokes fun at societal willingness to forgo it's own stated morality for vengeance, no matter the cost. It shows that

I remember when someone told me that even though RFK was an antivax nutjob, he was still not nearly as dangerous as Trump. Well.... Behold

call dibs on their future babies to punch them. People need to drive like they got some damn sense when it's busy.