And I matter so little that my name isnโt even spelled properly when people quote me.
02.02.2026 13:43 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0@fodderfigure.bsky.social
Author of I Overcame My Autism And All I Got Was This Lousy Anxiety Disorder and Work It Out: A Mood-Boosting Exercise Guide For People Who Just Want To Lie Down. Wrestling and film nerd. Lapsed music fan finding her way back.
And I matter so little that my name isnโt even spelled properly when people quote me.
02.02.2026 13:43 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I think thereโs a fair amount of survivorship bias that goes into those observations. I know so many autistic writers who are crumbling under the weight of the many things still working against them, myself included. I was able to write two articles for Time last month, but I am really struggling.
02.02.2026 13:43 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Does anyone else spend an inordinate amount of time thinking about what Sabrina Carpenter and Lee Hazlewood could have done together?
02.02.2026 01:49 โ ๐ 20 ๐ 3 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I've seen a few "have you heard her sister's music" posts around social media today and while I don't want to make the loss or celebrate of Catherine O'Hara about anyone other than the incredible Catherine, I do love when Mary Margaret gets her flowers.
01.02.2026 15:35 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0What I'd really like for my birthday is breakfast at the original diner version of the Homeway, buffet lunch at Banjara, a matinee at Canada Square, record shopping at Vortex, book shopping at Contact, dinner at the Mandarin, and drinks at Korean Cowboy and the Unicorn.
01.02.2026 14:39 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0a buffet table full of trays packed with delicious Indian food against a beige wall. A logo pasted on top says "Banjara Indian Cuisine"
To salt the wound, the email still contains a photo of the late, great $10 lunch buffet.
We used to be a proper neighbourhood.
You know you're already welcome to do that at any time, right?
01.02.2026 14:12 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0It's been ages since Banjara closed its Eglinton location and yet I still receive a birthday email from them every year, inviting me to celebrate at their Bloor or Eglinton locations.
Thanks, Banjara. I'll have a less happy birthday now that I'm remembering what we've lost. Again.
Deeply insecure weirdo wrestler? You are speaking my language.
01.02.2026 13:43 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Time to go look that match up.
01.02.2026 13:28 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0The thing that bothers me so much about Carney's joke about greenlighting the Heated Rivalry show is that it furthers the narrative that it's a needle in a haystack. Anyone who reads Canadian books and watches Canadian film knows that we could have dozens more HRs with enough funding.
31.01.2026 13:38 โ ๐ 150 ๐ 37 ๐ฌ 8 ๐ 8And this show couldnโt have happened unless years of arts funding had helped a lot of the artists stay afloat long enough to make it and be the artists who could make it!
31.01.2026 13:41 โ ๐ 22 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Come on, Gregg. You must have seen what we saw!
31.01.2026 01:02 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0We are so close now!!
31.01.2026 01:00 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Bets on RFK thinking this was her fault, too.
30.01.2026 18:18 โ ๐ 28 ๐ 6 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I love Celine and Julie Go Boating so much!
30.01.2026 18:02 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Absolutely no idea what someone with such cool ideas about the intersection of MMA and wrestling is going to get out of American wrestling.
30.01.2026 15:55 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0The anti-trans and anti-autistic reporting Venn diagram is awfully close to being a circle.
30.01.2026 15:14 โ ๐ 14 ๐ 5 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Iโd have a touch more respect (or at least tolerance) for it if it came with some more arts funding, no matter how cynically timed and announced.
30.01.2026 14:38 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Oh, of course I'd immediately gravitate to the anxious retired musician who started watching DDT in elementary school
30.01.2026 13:55 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Text reads: For years, the committee was "led by people on the more high-functioning side of the spectrum," said Jacqueline Kancir, executive director of the National Council on Severe Autism and the parent of a profoundly autistic 22-year-old daughter. "There are a lot of parents out there that are jumping for joy, feeling like they've finally been heard," Ms. Kancir said. "However, it also could be retribution. Time really will tell." Georgia Gee, Apoorva Mandavilli and Christina Jewett contributed reporting. Azeen Ghorayshi is a Times science reporter.
The kicker on the NYT coverage of the new IACC is embarrassingly bad.
โThe chelation vaccine hyperbaric oxygen gluten people represent us more than ASAN or Autism Societyโ is just brain worms. How is that the last word on a panel filled with kooks and quacks?
That's inspiring.
30.01.2026 13:39 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0A black cat sits on the edge of a fuzzy off white blanket and watches the construction of a blanket fort with an intense focus
The heatโs out again, so the cat is waiting patiently for us to build her traditional thermodynamic blanket fort.
30.01.2026 13:23 โ ๐ 12 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0And that's before we get to how much we did to Sarah McLachlan with bonus dance monks!
29.01.2026 21:48 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Into every generation a little man must rain.
Geri Halliwell Makes It Rain Men, ChartAttack, 2001
Another pattern that Iโve noticed while observing other peopleโlike white rock critics assessing hip-hop, men explaining women to themselves, or Torontonians who once visited Thailand debating the ketchup content of Pad Thaiโis that people who arenโt marginalized in some way love appointing themselves the authenticity police of those who are, often with a passion and confidence thatโs inversely proportionate to their actual knowledge.
Real Autism for Hazlitt, April 2018
29.01.2026 20:42 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0"Body showered, tibia wound concealed, naturally greasy face tempered, tits covered in the agreed upon logo, and still quite incredible abs begrudgingly hidden under the attached shirt, it was time to go to the Taekwondo gym."
I Pillow Fought Marcia Brady for Fightland, 2014
"If science fiction truly is about all that humanity is and and all that we are capable of becoming, then you have to leave a little room for perverts and trash connoisseurs."
The Best Sci-Fi TV Shows of All Time for TIME, March 2024
"The stone cold stare he affects in so many shots start to look more wounded than menacing, almost as if thereโs a sadness hidden in that pretty face, a sadness all his own from which no James May-approved luxury vehicle can keep Conor safe."
-Fightland, April 2016