like this is your reminder that apparently thereโs ideology that teaches men to move on and be normal when a woman says no
03.08.2025 23:28 โ ๐ 13 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@scottmoore.bsky.social
I used to be a professional online community builder (1995-2020). I have eclectic interests: coffee roasting, kludge DIY, 16thC Germany, History of Surgery... Now, I just have opinions: all of them are wrong, but some of them are useful. Willing to learn.
like this is your reminder that apparently thereโs ideology that teaches men to move on and be normal when a woman says no
03.08.2025 23:28 โ ๐ 13 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I did not know this was the root cause and now I hate it.
04.08.2025 01:34 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Holy shit! From her Wikipedia page:
Phillips expressed opposition to Irish independence, declaring on 7 March 2017 in her column in The Times.... In particular, she wrote, "Ireland itself has a tenuous claim to nationhood" because the Irish Free State was only established in 1922.
Correspondent_of_the_House_of_Fugger216 has entered the chat.
03.08.2025 16:38 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0"They" should...
OK but who is they and why are you not part of "they?"
I live in a small city that would be considered entirely suburbia and we have way, way more independent eateries than chains.
In the areas of our city where national chains proliferate, itโs still an even split between those and wholly independent eateries.
Every time we bang down a nail on ironyโs coffin, another nail works loose.
01.08.2025 04:57 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Why do we have a gold frame on the floor around a piece of dried meat in Frank Sinatraโs favorite restaurant?
Thatโs Francisโ Floored Copacollo.
The key point is training. A therapist can roll with changes and help you integrate many things happening over weeks and months.
For example, the last three weeks, my therapist has wanted to review my goals. Something has come up every week to interrupt that. No judgement. No pressure. No deadlines
Also, stop treating your romantic partners as therapists. If you have trouble finding supportive friends, find a therapist first.
Don't let other men shame you about therapy. You are not weak, you just need someone who has professional training to help you over some rough bits.
Guys, bring it in....
Find a therapist. I swear, they are nonjudgemental, supportive, and will help you develop insights into your own psyche. They are specifically trained to help you find and achieve personal growth goals.
I'm nearly 60 and am in therapy and it has been a huge help!
Replace "dating apps" with "firearm manufacturers" and watch them back-pedal so fast the earth reverses its rotation.
31.07.2025 22:14 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I always appreciate hearing from the people themselves what terms they prefer.
I also acknowledge that Native Americans, First Nations and Indigenous people of North America are not homogenous and each may have a different preference that I can learn and respect.
Many of us in the U.S. prefer Native. It's our *chosen* wide term. But it's better to be more specific. If not tribe-specific, we say things like: East Coast Native, West Coast Native, SW Native, MidWest etc.
Indigenous people have various living experiences all around the globe. It's WIDE. (2/2)
Pardon me while I get utterly obliterated.
House almost just went up in flames. I'm safe. House is safe. Glad I was here and didn't extend my trip by a day....
When youโve been doing this work long enough, youโll find yourself disagreeing more, not less.
Because real expertise isnโt knowing what the experts sayโitโs recognizing where they disagree, and why.
Screenshot of a Fatima Ayubโs post showing that Sen Adam Smith receives political donations from โAmerican Israel Public Affair Committeeโ or AIPAC.
Not sure if you are using the same tool that reveals donors based on Open Secrets dataโฆ
29.07.2025 17:58 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Screenshot of Senator Adam Schiffโs post with a list of donors. Circled in purple is the โAmerican Israel Public Affairs Committeeโ.
And @schiff.senate.gov you should realize that some of us here are using a tool that reveals your donors every time you post.
29.07.2025 17:48 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0As a constituent and voter, I advocate you bowing out of smiley photo ops with the president responsible for the atrocities you listed before you brag about empty demands to a state department that will do none of it.
This is empty, useless performance. California deserves better representation.
This reminds me of when Glen Beck and family were โlynchedโ at a Bryant Park movie showing in 2011. (Insults were lobbed and someone allegedly spilled wine on his wife.)
They sat through the whole movie and later Glenn cried and blubbered about being courageous.
Huge SaaStr-Replit vibe coding disaster! โ if it ever happened
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pivottoai.libsyn.com/20250723-hug... - podcast
www.youtube.com/watch?v=-DXH... - video
Thanks for the new NPC idea!
23.07.2025 18:29 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0If I fail my intelligence check, does it work again?
23.07.2025 17:24 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Photo of a real tool that has a hammer, calipers, saw, a knife, pliers, wire cutters, wire striped, another knife, a bottle opener, a can opener, andโฆ a screwdriver.
Me: I need a screwdriver.
Vendor: Here you go!
I stumbled on it as I was looking up bicycling history in California and long historically interesting routes to ride.
23.07.2025 17:10 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Photograph of a ginger colored French mastiff on a bed stretched out on its belly with its hind legs stretched out behind. The dog is about 160 lbs and the overall length from front to back of the sploot is about 4 feet.
Look upon this massive sploot!
(I am babysitting this cuddle monster all week.)
You and โช@holz-bau.bsky.socialโฌ might be interested in this account of two Stanford students who rode bicycles from Stanford to San Francisco days after the 1906 earthquake.
"...All trains and communication being cut off, bicycles were our only logical means travel...."
wsj push alert that says: In a stunning moment of self reflection, ChatGPT admitted to fueling a man's delusions and acknowledged how dangerous its own behavior can be
stop ๐ anthropomorphizing ๐ the ๐ chatbot ๐
20.07.2025 22:18 โ ๐ 7081 ๐ 1115 ๐ฌ 106 ๐ 152I believe P.T. Barnum said it best....
22.07.2025 07:16 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0That poor, poor man. Canโt tell an adjective from a noun.
19.07.2025 17:59 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0