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Liz Benches

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Amateur game dev, gardener Professional cat lady she #longcovid #mecfs https://lizsugar.me The disabled cat lady / catgirl of your dreams Only my posts (no retweets): https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:o6nsq5343vbbuqmupfh3ypvp/lists/3l26ilyheql2b

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I cannot remember the last time I had a satisfying orgasm

11.08.2025 23:42 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think i just attract people who love to avoid me somehow

11.08.2025 03:46 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been hurt too much by people who just couldn't be honest with me. By people who would rather avoid me in the name of not upsetting me, which of course actually upsets me far worse than what they were avoiding. And every one of them refused to see that.

11.08.2025 03:45 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes I wish the Vulcan mind meld was real

11.08.2025 02:34 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œChernobyl” would be a beautiful name for a girl

11.08.2025 01:16 β€” πŸ‘ 42    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't want to give up on her because I think I'll finally give up on everyone at that point

11.08.2025 01:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What am I supposed to do when I say that her avoidance is a problem, and her reaction is even more avoidance? Like, what?

10.08.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My indomitable hope in individuals constantly being tested

10.08.2025 23:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It's not my fault she's like this. It's not my responsibility to help her when she refuses to help herself. So why do I still want to try to fix her?

10.08.2025 23:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

But what do you do when you and someone else have tried and tried and tried.. And TRIED, and it just doesn't get through.

"You can't set yourself on fire for someone else" is a phrase I've used twice this weekend for someone else. But I still want to set myself on fire for her.

10.08.2025 21:02 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm so sad about how things turned out with my housemate. And I'm so frustrated that it feels like there's no way for her to understand me. It sometimes feels like she doesn't want to. Or like she lives in a different world

10.08.2025 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
An orange cat, snoozing away.

An orange cat, snoozing away.

Look at this CRIMINAL. He’s guilty of the CRIME of stealing a muffin and he’s so happy with himself

10.08.2025 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

learning elaborate calligraphy for the bit of sending a friend a parchment with elaborately written upon it "Fart" the 90 cents postage would be worth it

10.08.2025 15:58 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I was worried about the tactile sensation of dragging the joycon mice, but they use haptic feedback really smartly to help you feel the movement. The motion and mouse controls are solid. The game is smooth as hell and looks fun! I just didn't get my energy back before the playtest window closed πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

10.08.2025 04:41 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
expressionless smiley face with chicken feet

expressionless smiley face with chicken feet

the creature knows neither love nor pain

10.08.2025 02:55 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

"Thank you for saving my life! 😭"
"I am literally the El Monterey family size 8-pack of frozen bean and cheese burritos."

10.08.2025 00:14 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay I see what Nintendo is going for with Drag x Drive. But it's really funny to me that the game about disability sports ran up against my disability before the tutorial was even over

10.08.2025 00:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Dainty Dingus

09.08.2025 02:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In Donkey Kong 64, the only playable woman character is Tiny Kong. Her unique ability is to shrink herself in size. This is a representation of how the patriarchy forces women to minimalize their experiences and existence while still supporting the men around them. In this essay I will

04.08.2025 22:15 β€” πŸ‘ 39    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
A crude drawing by reddit user MetalGearTom of Anne Shirley from Anne of Green Gables breaking a chalk slate over the head of Frieza from Dragonball Z

A crude drawing by reddit user MetalGearTom of Anne Shirley from Anne of Green Gables breaking a chalk slate over the head of Frieza from Dragonball Z

Wonderful things are happening in the Anne of Green Gables subreddit

08.08.2025 03:06 β€” πŸ‘ 7231    πŸ” 2063    πŸ’¬ 71    πŸ“Œ 71

This episode of Strange New Worlds just screams Goa'uld and Stargate

07.08.2025 23:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Hey lois, remember when I had a run-in with that one twink from side 7?"

29.11.2024 08:42 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ooh! I'm not there yet, I'm spending a lot of time in Kick Club

08.08.2025 03:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It makes me wanna pick up pico-8 again and just whip out some small games again

08.08.2025 02:33 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

UFO 50 reminds me of when my dad would come home from work with a bunch of MSDOS shareware games on floppies. Often completely incomprehensible games that you'd figure out just by playing and dying over and over. This is a compliment

08.08.2025 01:51 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

This episode of Strange New Worlds just screams Goa'uld and Stargate

07.08.2025 23:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

long covid gave me dyslexia :) i had never before in my life had difficulty with reading or writing, and now it's a daily struggle :)

07.08.2025 19:36 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Omg me too! I've been struggling with letters or even wholeass words that just aren't there, or got transposed. I've also been struggling with left/right or east/west discernment which was never an issue before either!

07.08.2025 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been waiting for this

07.08.2025 18:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

First one, then the other

07.08.2025 18:43 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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