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@lobotomisedllama.bsky.social

πŸͺ· Buddhist πŸ’š Nurse πŸ—ΊοΈ EDI person πŸ“š Bibliophile 😺 Cat parent (also a dog person 🐢) 🧢 Occasionally get the Crochet Mojo (CroJoℒ️)

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I wonder if there will come a day that the unvaccinated children who get long term issues sue their parents for neglect or something...

13.07.2025 09:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe I wrote it into existence, but I had a #relapse yesterday. It's complicated, but it's also ok. Today is a new day, and I hope yours is blessed.

07.07.2025 19:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I relapsed yesterday. There isn't anything profound or clever in what I'm posting, it's for accountability. Today is a new day and I will try again.

07.07.2025 05:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A laptop sits on the corner of a table on the left. A big fluffy white dog lays down on the right. A teddy is in the top right.

A laptop sits on the corner of a table on the left. A big fluffy white dog lays down on the right. A teddy is in the top right.

I don't often get the luxury of a #Samoyed coworker, but when I do, it's the best day πŸ’š

03.07.2025 11:04 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Good morning Blue Sky friends!
Happy Monday to you. A new week begins! Have a wonderful day β€οΈπŸ€—πŸ΅πŸŒž
#bekind

30.06.2025 04:22 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Hi my name is Chey and I'm recovering from an eating disorder.
I'm proud to say that I've been clean eating for 28 days today. It isn't a massive number but it's been a personal mountain to climb and I'm grateful I'm here to tell the tale πŸͺ·

28.06.2025 16:01 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
⚠️No copyright infringement intended β€” shared purely for appreciation and commentary. 
 
πŸ“·: Β©Ashraful Arefin - It's A Light Thing, Series - Bangladesh  2024

⚠️No copyright infringement intended β€” shared purely for appreciation and commentary. πŸ“·: Β©Ashraful Arefin - It's A Light Thing, Series - Bangladesh 2024

Somewhere along the way, I disappeared. Today, I start looking for the pieces.

#Art #Photography #FrameTheMoment #GoldenHourMagic #BeachLife #Bangladesh #Monday #Thoughts

23.06.2025 13:37 β€” πŸ‘ 22    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Very tangled mass of rainbow coloured wool

Very tangled mass of rainbow coloured wool

Our brains are complex and beautiful, like this ✨hella tangled✨ wool. I've been pulled in different directions lately, tightening the knots. So my #Friday #commitment is take time to loosen. See the tangles & gently work them through. I hope you'll get time for this too 😊 Happy untangling everyone!

02.05.2025 07:06 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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For those marching/protesting today.

I made a checklist for Pride events last year which also works as a good checklist for today.

Stay safe. Stay together.

Can't make a protest today? Amplify trans+ voices online. Add to funds for trans+ orgs and mutual aid

autisticltd.co.uk/2024/06/01/c...

19.04.2025 07:32 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
You are the greatest project you'll ever work on. Restart, reset and refocus as many times as you need to-just don't ever give up on yourself.
There is a picture of an orange butterfly sitting on a lilac flower.

You are the greatest project you'll ever work on. Restart, reset and refocus as many times as you need to-just don't ever give up on yourself. There is a picture of an orange butterfly sitting on a lilac flower.

Incase you need this reminder ..
The world is better because you are in it.
Don't forget that.
Don't allow anyone to cast a shadow on your beautiful self.
Keep on blooming.
Someone elses inability to see your worth is not your business.
You are indeed very, very precious.
πŸ’•
#MentalHealthMatters

21.03.2025 10:20 β€” πŸ‘ 176    πŸ” 37    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 4

Physical Fitness & Exercise Performance of Trans Women

There were no significant differences in anaerobic power between cis females & trans women.

There was β€œNO” differences in any of the physical fitness measures between trans women with & without orchiectomy.

journals.lww.com/acsm-msse/ab...

15.03.2025 21:05 β€” πŸ‘ 87    πŸ” 34    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6
INSTEAD OF DEPRESSION
try calling it hibernation.
Imagine the darkness is a cave in which you will be nurtured by doing absolutely nothing.
Hibernating animals don't even dream.
It's okay if you can't imagine spring. Sleep through the alarm of the world. Name your hopelessness a quiet hollow, a place you go to heal, a den you dug, Sweetheart, instead of a grave.
Andrea Gibson

INSTEAD OF DEPRESSION try calling it hibernation. Imagine the darkness is a cave in which you will be nurtured by doing absolutely nothing. Hibernating animals don't even dream. It's okay if you can't imagine spring. Sleep through the alarm of the world. Name your hopelessness a quiet hollow, a place you go to heal, a den you dug, Sweetheart, instead of a grave. Andrea Gibson

Feeling this very much today. Via poetryisnotaluxury on Instagram.

16.02.2025 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 4187    πŸ” 738    πŸ’¬ 74    πŸ“Œ 44
A square canvas. Only the top corner is filled with Harings distinctive figures, rendered in Lavender, the rest is blank.

A square canvas. Only the top corner is filled with Harings distinctive figures, rendered in Lavender, the rest is blank.

Keith Haring died of AIDS aged 31 on 16 Feb 1990.
One of his last works, Unfinished Painting, was deliberately incomplete, reflecting the devastating, unquantifiable loss to the arts due to AIDS.
#LGBTplusHistoryMonth

16.02.2025 09:00 β€” πŸ‘ 25027    πŸ” 6867    πŸ’¬ 147    πŸ“Œ 179
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I’ll be real with you and say I felt kinda crazy writing this

bad-faith-times.ghost.io/the-worst-pe...

16.02.2025 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 43    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0
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Knowledge is power…

16.02.2025 14:55 β€” πŸ‘ 34915    πŸ” 13182    πŸ’¬ 1006    πŸ“Œ 702
It's okay to make mistakes, to have bad days, be less than perfect, to do what's best for you, to be yourself.

A pic of Charlie Brown and Snoopy.

It's okay to make mistakes, to have bad days, be less than perfect, to do what's best for you, to be yourself. A pic of Charlie Brown and Snoopy.

A reminder to all.
Give yourself some grace and then extend it to others. πŸ’™

#MentalHealthMatters
#Kindness #BeKind #Selfcare

13.02.2025 09:25 β€” πŸ‘ 512    πŸ” 140    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 6

Word of the day is β€˜arsle’ (19th century): to have a distinct sense of going backwards.

12.02.2025 08:48 β€” πŸ‘ 4481    πŸ” 1146    πŸ’¬ 130    πŸ“Œ 96
Embrace what makes you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable. I didn't have to become perfect because I've learned throughout my journey that perfection is the enemy of greatness. ~Janelle MonΓ‘e

Embrace what makes you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable. I didn't have to become perfect because I've learned throughout my journey that perfection is the enemy of greatness. ~Janelle MonΓ‘e

Embrace what makes you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable. I didn't have to become perfect because I've learned throughout my journey that perfection is the enemy of greatness. ~Janelle MonΓ‘e

#strongwomen #Inspire
#MentalHealthMatters #Courage

Mindset is everything πŸ’ž

08.02.2025 13:27 β€” πŸ‘ 84    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
Text says: Free workshop for UK based trans people: name changes. How to change your name, how to handle common problems, who to inform and how to tell them. Online workshop on Monday 3rd March. Read caption for signup info

Text says: Free workshop for UK based trans people: name changes. How to change your name, how to handle common problems, who to inform and how to tell them. Online workshop on Monday 3rd March. Read caption for signup info

We’re running a free Name Change workshop on 3rd March at 6:30pm, via Zoom, for trans over 18s in the UK. Come along to find out how to change your name, how to handle common problems with name changes, and more.

Sign up at: https://form.typeform.com/to/n47vyAzR

#Trans #Transgender #Nonbinary #L…

04.02.2025 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Came here to ask this too - love a discovery by suggestion!

03.02.2025 18:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Some people's feeds may look glum lately - so hoping this little video can break that for you :)

02.02.2025 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

1️⃣ Black experiences are constantly redirected. Every time we try to discuss how Black autistic people experience misdiagnosis, masking, or medical neglect, someone jumps in with β€œWell, all girls struggle with this.”

But we aren’t all struggling in the same way. Let’s talk about it. πŸ§΅πŸ‘‡πŸΎ

02.02.2025 19:51 β€” πŸ‘ 203    πŸ” 60    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 4

I hope yall are taking care of yourselves. I hope you’re making space for joy and fun in the midst of the chaos you’re living through. Mourning without laughing will destroy you. Working without self-care will drain you. Action without sleeping will kill you. Make sure your oxygen mask is on first.

31.01.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 58    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

We had this version of the song at the end of my Granddad's funeral - must have been something brilliant to see someone sing it!!

02.02.2025 19:39 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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#BlackHistoryMonth

01.02.2025 20:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1775    πŸ” 493    πŸ’¬ 20    πŸ“Œ 35

You gotta love yourself…

Like not the parts that are easy

But the parts that don’t really make sense

01.02.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 618    πŸ” 106    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 8

There is still time!! Funded creative opportunities for trans history week ~

01.02.2025 09:46 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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