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Natasha Wiebe

@fixyourlife.bsky.social

www.fixyourlife.ca Relationship and Communication Strategist Heart-centered and no-bullshit approach.

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Discernment is key. There are posts that are saying that it is a national hotline for mental health (for everyone), that it is replacing 9-8-8, and that is not true.

29.04.2025 15:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

As in my original post, I did not say it was a national suicide hotline; I specified it is a resource for the lgbtq+ community. I am not going to split hairs on whether someone is trans, NB, 2S, etc.

29.04.2025 15:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ah, so you are concerned that by sharing this number, the call center will be flooded with all members of LGBTQ+, instead of solely Trans-identifying individuals? We are both wanting humans to be safe and have access to resources; I'm not going to split hairs on whether someone is trans, NB, 2S,etc.

29.04.2025 14:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

The phone number in my post and the phone number in the link you are posting are the same.

29.04.2025 14:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn't say anything about Canada opening up an independent organization. My original post is a safe and free telephone number for Trans-individuals in the US to call for support and resources, and it is run in Canada, where there is no risk of it being shut down or limited.

29.04.2025 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm asking genuinely.

29.04.2025 13:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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May I ask how it's misinformation or hurting the trans community, when the number is the same as the one listed on the site you posted, and toll-free numbers are free for all North Americans, regardless if they are in Canada or the US?

29.04.2025 13:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I doubt it's the yelling-most likely the states most impacted by Canadians' refusal to support American products/companies/tourism.

03.04.2025 21:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not an American, so forgive the ignorance - is there not a way for one to be forced? An empty seat means one should be filled; it shouldn't be about picking and choosing when.

03.04.2025 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 45 final day of the #ShareYourJoy Challenge w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social : What I have enjoyed about the past 45days is the authenticity, &getting to share aspects many might not know/see.
I think if we all shared more, in a positive&vulnerable way, it would build more community& understanding.

15.03.2025 06:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 44 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social What I've enjoyed most of this is seeing another person being consistent with creating more joy in their life. With all the other 'stuff' feeds are filled with and legitimate causes for concern, this was a haven of good.

13.03.2025 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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#ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social ! Day 43. What I've enjoyed the most about this challenge is it forced me to focus in on the aspects that make me 'me' & smile, even on days that were hard, exhausting, or painful. There is something good everyday,&some days we get to be really intentional.

13.03.2025 13:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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w/ ALL the toppings, & the freshness of a salad. It's embracing all facets of my self, &releasing any shame towards the 'unhealthy' /indulgences. (Hint: It's not the act or the food that makes something unhealthy; it's the shame or guilt that you've attached to it.)❀️ 2/2
#selflove #balance #coaching

12.03.2025 02:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 42 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Joy to me means balance. It's the comfort in familiarity & the excitement of new-ness; it's those 'energy-efficient' days, doing absolutely nothing, mixed with the ever-productive & creative accomplishing days; it's the luxurious ice cream sundaes 1/2

12.03.2025 02:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 41 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social : Joy, to me, is laughter. It's relaxation and safety and acceptance. Friendship, community, and belonging. Joy is each and all of these things.

11.03.2025 06:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 40 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Joy to me means... purpose. Having a positive impact on my community, and the ripple effect from that.

10.03.2025 01:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 39 of the #ShareYourJoy Challenge with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : Something I've learned (and teach).

#relationships #coaching

09.03.2025 05:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day38 #ShareYourJoy @fixyourlife.bsky.social 1 thing I've loved w/ learning Dutch is how furious reminds me of wounded(woedend)&'Ik maak me zorgen/Ik schaam me'(I'm worried&I'm ashamed)is 'I make me worried/I shame me',taking accountability of what response we're creating within ourselves. #learning

08.03.2025 07:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 37 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Something I've learned: @yungpueblo.bsky.social 's quote says it best, I believe.. "How do you build a good life? Relentlessly follow your intuition. Build with people who also love to grow. Take responsibility for your healing" ❀️

07.03.2025 05:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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together or separated, unless abuse was/is a factor), w/ your children.
Bonus: Partners can be friends w/ exes/people they've hooked up with. (Not trusting a partner or knowing why you're together is a deeper issue).

Be safe, be loving, be empowered, have great s3x/connection. 😘

3/3

06.03.2025 02:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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& regularly as the relationship goes on
3) People should be ridiculously empowered & courageous about what their preferences/curiosities are
4) Consent culture is in ALL areas of life, not just physical/s3xual.
5) The order of relationship priority is: w/ yourself, w/ your coparent (whether

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06.03.2025 02:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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1/ Day 36 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social A goal that means the world to me: To change the way most people think about s3x & relationships.
Hot takes I have:
1) Every relationship is completely customizable to whomever is in it
2) S3x/Intimacy should be talked about on the first few dates

06.03.2025 02:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 35 #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : A goal that means the world to me.. Feeling free, owning land, designing a farm/house layout, in the spacious country. ❀️

05.03.2025 06:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 34 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social A goal that means the world to me.. Creating a world where every child grows up knowing they are safe, loved, wanted, &empowered. ❀️ I heal relationships (within one's self/romantic/coparenting) to minimize future generations being negatively affected.

04.03.2025 06:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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2/2 back to our hotel at 11ish pm, where the incredible @markanthonybates.bsky.social continued teaching and working with a group of us until 2/2:30 in the morning. I love meeting people who are committed to their own personal development and creating a positive impact in the world ❀️

03.03.2025 02:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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1/2 Day 33: #ShareYourJoy Challenge with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : I have the most fun when... I am hosting workshops, doing speaking engagements, or attending business conferences, or working with my own coaches. I remember when a group of us had already had a long, full day of coaching, returning

03.03.2025 02:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 32: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - I have the most fun when I'm exploring new areas, or when a loved one learns something new (whether human or animal) - experiencing progress or seeing/feeling their excitement is so fun for me ❀️ #compersion - joy in your joy.

01.03.2025 18:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 31: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - I have the most fun road-tripping in the Jeep. Whether it's feeling the sun on me, wind in my hair, or playing in the snow or mud, or getting to sleep with dog beside and stars above. She makes me very happy. ❀️

01.03.2025 06:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 30: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - something that pleases your senses:
The feel/coziness of heat - from a fire, or a blanket fresh out of the dryer, holding a mug of tea, or the wave when you open the oven when baking cookies. ❀️

28.02.2025 22:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 29: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - something that pleases your senses:Today's is the smell of a farm - the freshness, especially after a rainfall; a horse's dander as I'm brushing/resting my face against their neck; even the manure,knowing everything is a season. Breathing fully.

28.02.2025 21:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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