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<she/her> Nerdy ND artist, writer, and social researcher https://linktr.ee/forwardbookwyrm

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Flirting by sending progressively more NSFW memes to see how they react
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08.05.2025 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The scary part about RFK Jr's anti-autism push is that, if he gets his way, ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต'๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ. Diagnosis rates ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ drop. Not because there are fewer people with autism, but because people will be too afraid to get diagnosed, and those who already are will feel more need to hide it...

26.04.2025 02:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
The Bookwyrm is standing in a sunny plaza, tents and old-fashioned buildings behind her. Horns spiral outward from her knit cap, burgundy hair curling around her smiling face, pale skin adorned with scales that match her hair along with large black-framed glasses.

The Bookwyrm is standing in a sunny plaza, tents and old-fashioned buildings behind her. Horns spiral outward from her knit cap, burgundy hair curling around her smiling face, pale skin adorned with scales that match her hair along with large black-framed glasses.

The Bookwyrm stands alongside the delightful cosplayer Thorns and Flames, both smiling. Thorn is wearing a colorful scarf woven through a series of black straps across their chest, round glasses on a chain perched on top of their head.

The Bookwyrm stands alongside the delightful cosplayer Thorns and Flames, both smiling. Thorn is wearing a colorful scarf woven through a series of black straps across their chest, round glasses on a chain perched on top of their head.

The Bookwyrm stands among the Celtic rock musical troupe The Reelin' Rogues, who are all posing playfully in motley garb. Absolute sweethearts!

The Bookwyrm stands among the Celtic rock musical troupe The Reelin' Rogues, who are all posing playfully in motley garb. Absolute sweethearts!

Here, we see the Bookwyrm in her natural environment โ€” surrounded by books.

Here, we see the Bookwyrm in her natural environment โ€” surrounded by books.

I had an absolutely amazing time at the Arizona Renaissance Festival and got to meet some fantastic folks, both new and familiar. Books, music, mead, and delightful company. What more can a wyrm ask for? ๐Ÿ’–

19.03.2025 04:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It just occurred to me, with the word restrictions being imposed on NSF grant applications, there's actually an opportunity to standardize more inclusive language. For example: can't use the words women or females? Guess we're going with "people who are pregnant" in this study on perinatal care ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿซถ

02.03.2025 23:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Big mood

28.02.2025 07:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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It's super frustrating how difficult it is to get information on medical providers/insurance/scheduling appts without literally just opening a list of phone numbers and calling all of them

There's zero excuse for me not being able to open a website and schedule a standard doctor's appt

And sure, maintaining a lookup directory is a lot of work, and people aren't good about updating their profiles all the time, but not even responding to emails?

Image reads: It's super frustrating how difficult it is to get information on medical providers/insurance/scheduling appts without literally just opening a list of phone numbers and calling all of them There's zero excuse for me not being able to open a website and schedule a standard doctor's appt And sure, maintaining a lookup directory is a lot of work, and people aren't good about updating their profiles all the time, but not even responding to emails?

Hell, I've gone into default on medical debt in the past simply because the only way they tried to contact me was through paper mail and I never got it because service in that area was super shitty

It is 2025, people's grandmas are falling in love with AI chatbots, you can set up some automatic email notifications and an online booking calendar...

Hell, I've gone into default on medical debt in the past simply because the only way they tried to contact me was through paper mail and I never got it because service in that area was super shitty It is 2025, people's grandmas are falling in love with AI chatbots, you can set up some automatic email notifications and an online booking calendar...

These are the kinds of texts you'll get from me at 2 am

28.02.2025 07:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Me: I'm pretty sure I'm neurodivergent. 

ND friends: Yeah, that makes sense.

Neurotypical: I don't think you are.
Me: *explains evidence in detail*
NT: You just need to try harder.
Me: *explains neurological mechanics that make certain tasks more difficult*
NT: Quit making excuses.
Me: *points out that ND coping mechanisms work way better for me than standard self-help advice*
NT: Why do you need to feel special?
Me: (smiling in frustrated bewilderment)

Image reads โ€” Me: I'm pretty sure I'm neurodivergent. ND friends: Yeah, that makes sense. Neurotypical: I don't think you are. Me: *explains evidence in detail* NT: You just need to try harder. Me: *explains neurological mechanics that make certain tasks more difficult* NT: Quit making excuses. Me: *points out that ND coping mechanisms work way better for me than standard self-help advice* NT: Why do you need to feel special? Me: (smiling in frustrated bewilderment)

22.02.2025 21:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The upside to forgetfulness โ€” you can be pleasantly surprised when you forgot there was something you were looking forward to โ˜•

20.01.2025 18:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I don't have any other details, personally, but that would be useful info

08.01.2025 16:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I just got my admission letter for grad school. ๐Ÿฅน

This has been a really rough year, for me. I'm hoping this is the start of getting back to where I want to be.

31.12.2024 04:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Submitted ๐Ÿคž

17.12.2024 19:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Tired of reading annoying recipe blog fluff? Well this is your annual pre-holiday reminder that if you add โ€œcooked.wiki/โ€œ before any recipe URL (type it in before the http:// part) it gives you a condensed no-nonsense version of that recipe including only the ingredients and instructions!

17.12.2024 15:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 549    ๐Ÿ” 115    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 49    ๐Ÿ“Œ 25

Completely rewriting my grad school application essay from scratch, the day before it's due. Let's do this.

16.12.2024 20:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Can we take a minute to talk about the artistic direction in 'Arcane'? Because holy shit, I've been sleeping on this too long ๐Ÿ‘„

15.12.2024 19:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm not generally a fan of the super-chiseled, muscular look. My normal preference includes 1-3, 7/8, and anything in-between, with the same demisexual disclaimer as OP.

14.12.2024 19:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Every now and then it's nice to pick your head up from your book, reacquaint yourself with the world, take a hard pass and immediately go right back to reading. Balance is important.

14.12.2024 15:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1788    ๐Ÿ” 251    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 38    ๐Ÿ“Œ 14

This post brought to you by an extended period of self-reflection, unpacking my feelings about it, and still wanting to give all the sadboys the softest of hugs. Powered by cannabinoids ๐ŸŸข

10.12.2024 08:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(listening to emo rap)
๐Ÿง : Idk, I think he'd be a good partner, he seems sweet
๐Ÿง : I mean, his songs are full of weed and anxiety
๐Ÿง : So are you. And he seems really in touch with his emotions, I just wanna be soft with him
๐Ÿง : ...
๐Ÿง : Oh no, I'm vulnerable to sadboys

10.12.2024 08:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

With a fraction of what we're currently producing.

10.12.2024 03:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I mean... ๐Ÿค”

09.12.2024 18:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
The Bookwyrm is holding a positive COVID-19 test card against her chest. The dragon printed on her shirt looks upset about this.

The Bookwyrm is holding a positive COVID-19 test card against her chest. The dragon printed on her shirt looks upset about this.

Hey. You. Please take this as a gentle reminder to stop procrastinating, actually put it on your calendar/to-do list/post-it-note-stuck-to-your-forehead/whatever, and get the booster shot ๐Ÿค•

09.12.2024 14:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Also, googling the year is how I learned that they made a new Count of Monte Cristo, so now I'm gonna have to go watch that

09.12.2024 06:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ooh, interesting. Let's see...

Introduce yourself with:

One book ๐Ÿ“š โ€” Night Watch by Terry Pratchett
One movie ๐ŸŽฅ โ€” The Count of Monte Cristo (2002)
One album ๐Ÿ’ฟ โ€” Entergalactic (Kid Cudi)
One TV show ๐Ÿ“บ โ€” Avatar: The Last Airbender (animated)

09.12.2024 06:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Seriously, it makes me so happy just to see others be able to embrace and celebrate their authentic selves ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฉต

08.12.2024 21:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I mean, you can try ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

08.12.2024 21:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah...

08.12.2024 17:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(2/2) But you'll have to send it back as a new transaction from your account, they'll get your money, then cancel the original transaction before you receive the money they sent.

I thought about actually giving them my info, just to screw with them more, but I got bored. Stay safe out there, kids.

04.12.2024 20:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Scammer: Good afternoon there 
sorry this may seem random and out of the blue but I really like your profile,and if you let me, I would make such an amazing mural out of any of your pictures ! If you donโ€™t mind one of your post could be my inspiring muse for an art project iโ€™m working on for a client. You will totally get paid for it as well as a bonus also get credits.

TFB: Which pictures did you have in mind?

Scammer: I have a particular one in mind from your page but unfortunately this app doesnโ€™t support image sharing

So basically Iโ€™m painting your pic for an art project my client is working on, my client is an art enthusiast and heโ€™s doing like a compilation of different murals from different artists so you are simply getting paid for using your picture as painting as part of the art project

Scammer: Good afternoon there sorry this may seem random and out of the blue but I really like your profile,and if you let me, I would make such an amazing mural out of any of your pictures ! If you donโ€™t mind one of your post could be my inspiring muse for an art project iโ€™m working on for a client. You will totally get paid for it as well as a bonus also get credits. TFB: Which pictures did you have in mind? Scammer: I have a particular one in mind from your page but unfortunately this app doesnโ€™t support image sharing So basically Iโ€™m painting your pic for an art project my client is working on, my client is an art enthusiast and heโ€™s doing like a compilation of different murals from different artists so you are simply getting paid for using your picture as painting as part of the art project

TFB: I'm open to this. Do you have a licensing contract you use?

Scammer: No

For the painting, I would be doing an oil on canvas, 50cmx 50cm portrait painting, my client intends to make payments as soon as possible. So the piece can be completed very soon and i will also send you a copy of it when its done but my client needs to pay you before I get started

TFB: And what would that involve?

Scammer: My client is ready to make payment rn and is through mobile check deposit 
You familiar with that ?

TFB: And the information you would need from me?

Scammer: My client will be paying through check and it will be written in your name and sent to you since we're in collaboration which bank do you have to make the deposit since my client will be sending you a check and no other info is needed so no reason to freak out lol

TFB: I'm open to this. Do you have a licensing contract you use? Scammer: No For the painting, I would be doing an oil on canvas, 50cmx 50cm portrait painting, my client intends to make payments as soon as possible. So the piece can be completed very soon and i will also send you a copy of it when its done but my client needs to pay you before I get started TFB: And what would that involve? Scammer: My client is ready to make payment rn and is through mobile check deposit You familiar with that ? TFB: And the information you would need from me? Scammer: My client will be paying through check and it will be written in your name and sent to you since we're in collaboration which bank do you have to make the deposit since my client will be sending you a check and no other info is needed so no reason to freak out lol

TFB: I use Navy Federal, but I'm pretty sure you would need more info than that to make a deposit ๐Ÿค”

Scammer: No

No other info is needed to make a mobile check deposit 
All they need is your full name that should be on the check and the email address that you want the check to be sent to.

Iโ€™ve been waiting for a reply since yesterday as I have a deadline to deliver the painting

I will appreciate if we can get over this today

TFB: I understand, I've been very busy with my own work and projects

Scammer: Oh okay 
I gotcha

TFB: I use Navy Federal, but I'm pretty sure you would need more info than that to make a deposit ๐Ÿค” Scammer: No No other info is needed to make a mobile check deposit All they need is your full name that should be on the check and the email address that you want the check to be sent to. Iโ€™ve been waiting for a reply since yesterday as I have a deadline to deliver the painting I will appreciate if we can get over this today TFB: I understand, I've been very busy with my own work and projects Scammer: Oh okay I gotcha

TFB: What service will your client be using? So I can make sure to give them the right info

Scammer: Can I have your text number if you donโ€™t mind ? So I can send it to the accountant and they can let you know when the send the check

My client will be paying through check

TFB: I was trying to play along to figure out what the scam was, but honestly, I don't have the energy. Your original message was already suspicious, you couldn't give me any concrete details, a legitimate business would want a written licensing agreement before paying someone money, and "mobile check deposit" refers to a completely different financial process than what you're describing.

Better luck next time โœŒ๏ธ

[The scammer immediately blocked me]

TFB: What service will your client be using? So I can make sure to give them the right info Scammer: Can I have your text number if you donโ€™t mind ? So I can send it to the accountant and they can let you know when the send the check My client will be paying through check TFB: I was trying to play along to figure out what the scam was, but honestly, I don't have the energy. Your original message was already suspicious, you couldn't give me any concrete details, a legitimate business would want a written licensing agreement before paying someone money, and "mobile check deposit" refers to a completely different financial process than what you're describing. Better luck next time โœŒ๏ธ [The scammer immediately blocked me]

๐Ÿšจ Scam Alert ๐Ÿšจ

Always be suspicious when someone offers to pay you money out of the blue. I'm guessing this is the same kind of scam where they actually will make it look like they're sending you the money โ€” But wait! Oh no, they made a mistake and need you to send (all or some) of it back! (1/2)

04.12.2024 20:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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Not telling your kid they have a learning disability, chronic illness, mental illness etc. so they can "feel normal" actually does the opposite. They will not feel normal if they do not have the context to understand that their normal will be different from that of their peers.

The amount of times I've heard a parent say something like "I'm just not going to tell my son he has ADHD, I want him to feel normal." HE DOES NOT. HE DOES NOT FEEL NORMAL. HE IS WONDERING WHY HE IS STRUGGLING AND COMING TO THE CONCLUSION HE IS AN IRREDEEMABLE FAILURE.

Image shows a post from Tumblr user froody: Not telling your kid they have a learning disability, chronic illness, mental illness etc. so they can "feel normal" actually does the opposite. They will not feel normal if they do not have the context to understand that their normal will be different from that of their peers. The amount of times I've heard a parent say something like "I'm just not going to tell my son he has ADHD, I want him to feel normal." HE DOES NOT. HE DOES NOT FEEL NORMAL. HE IS WONDERING WHY HE IS STRUGGLING AND COMING TO THE CONCLUSION HE IS AN IRREDEEMABLE FAILURE.

Image shows a series of messages sent by The Forward Bookwyrm: 

I was always the "weird" kid 

Most of the time I didn't really consider that a bad thing, so I'm definitely not as traumatized as I could've been, but

Understanding the ways that I'm "different" from average does make the world make a lot more sense

When we assume that our brains work the same way as everyone else's, then we don't have any foundation to understand why we struggle more in certain areas

Must just be Lazinessโ„ข, selfishness, stupidity, etc

It's the same problem as not understanding social inequality/injustice. When you genuinely believe that everyone has the same opportunities in life, then the people who can't succeed have to be Doing Something Wrong

Image shows a series of messages sent by The Forward Bookwyrm: I was always the "weird" kid Most of the time I didn't really consider that a bad thing, so I'm definitely not as traumatized as I could've been, but Understanding the ways that I'm "different" from average does make the world make a lot more sense When we assume that our brains work the same way as everyone else's, then we don't have any foundation to understand why we struggle more in certain areas Must just be Lazinessโ„ข, selfishness, stupidity, etc It's the same problem as not understanding social inequality/injustice. When you genuinely believe that everyone has the same opportunities in life, then the people who can't succeed have to be Doing Something Wrong

From a discussion with a friend about hiding or dismissing diagnoses for the sake of helping someone feel "normal."

04.12.2024 19:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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