Well, it's beautiful. She also took it after cutting through a group of Zhentarim ๐
10.02.2026 19:10 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@vesperderolo.bsky.social
Lily. Late 20s. Writer & DM. She/they. Likes: fantasy, good books, animals, music. Dislikes: bigots of any kind I run the writing discord Haven.
Well, it's beautiful. She also took it after cutting through a group of Zhentarim ๐
10.02.2026 19:10 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0#tavqotd Does your tav/durge has any item they feel attachment to for seemingly no reason?
Ria has her harp and her emotional support music box. She loves them for their ability to create music/let her create music, because of the fond memories attached to the harp. The music box...
#tavqotd It's not a question: Show me your Sorcerer Tav/Durge
Octavia and Valencia!
Why does your OC have sex (Stress relief? Their way of feeling attractive? Socializing? Etc)? #TavQotD
Ria said yes to Astarion's offer in part to relieve stress. She's also fond of it as a way of being close to her partner, and she's not big on casual sex in general
A thing Ria and I have in common is that if people do not reach back, she will take that as a sign that either the person does not want to be friends, or that they're not a good match. It has to be a two-way street.
Meanwhile, while I'm far more interested in befriending people in general than Ria
#tavqotd Your Tav/Durge is trying go make friends, how do they accomplish this?
Ria is a fan of small talk as Social Noises. She reaches out to people in her space because that's what you *do* to have a community (see: Zevlor, tieflings). Sharing her time and space is a sign she wants to be friends
Different parts of the spawn community get decorated to different extents, and the lights have to stay away from the outer walls
10.02.2026 18:46 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0#TavQOTD How does your Tav/Durge like to decorate for the holidays?
Ria scatters soft lights through her living space. She hasn't been settled in one area where she could celebrate since her university days, so she takes a few goes to figure out what she likesโ well, what she and her community like
Helping a wounded stork
#bg3 #shadowheart #connieheart
skipping part 1 bcs if i could think of another relationship that hit what i was doing with Ria/Astarion, I wouldn't have made her that way.
10.02.2026 02:18 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0#TavQotD What existing literature describes your Tav/Durge and their relationship?
โฅ๏ธB: How does your Tav/Durge feel about literature in setting?
Ria *loves* reading. She's even less of a romance novel reader than I am and has a fondness for tragedies and really anything she can get her teeth into.
Cadi: a blonde, green-eyed elven rogue
the girl ๐๐ก๏ธ
10.02.2026 01:26 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0her name is Cadi and she constantly carries no fewer than twelve (12) knives
10.02.2026 00:53 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0let's find out if i like the bg3 eladrin mod bcs it's time to bring out my precious sparkle princess with a disorder
10.02.2026 00:53 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0man i remember getting to the creche with Octavia and just getting uppercut by feelings as she had to stare her childhood trauma (she was a *terrible* fighter and only survived because she manifested her sorcerous magic by setting a cousin on fire during training) right in the face.
08.02.2026 23:30 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0yessssssssssss
08.02.2026 23:25 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I love her already
08.02.2026 23:21 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0NOTE: she and Gale do eventually get along, and he never dislikes *her*
His first impression was just Not Great.
And then she met Elminster. And Balthazar. And Lorroakan. And even Rolan was a twat for a while.
#tavqotd A question for the magic using tavs/durges, do they have any prejudices against other types of magic users?
When Ria meets a wizard who DOESN'T act like a self-important, elitist, condescending windbag, she will revise her opinion of them as a group.
#TavQOTD What's a good thing that happened to your Tav/Durge during or after their travels?
1. Mirkon wrote Ria a story <3
2. met several lovely companions
3. got strong enough to go home to the Underdark long-term
4. fancy new outfits
5. chatted about strings with another bard
#TavQOTD What did your Tav/Durge think of Cazador?
In the moment, Ria did not have space to realize what a sad picture he made standing around waiting for Astarion to wander in to get him. She saw the danger he presented and a horrible mirror of what Astarion could become.
#tavqotd Route to the Underdark
Ria went through the Selรปnite templeโ first thing she found, but also the most controlled entry point. She was not a fan of going back, and having sturdy walls in the way helped with the first few minutes
Meanwhile, I *thought* Echo was going to be a woman, the character simply would not coalesce, and then I tried agender and they went Click.
Iris wound up Silly Little Guy after a few rotations, which was not up to me, but I love it.
She popped into my head as a woman and stayed one after several rotations
08.02.2026 22:52 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0#TavQOTD What is your (main) Tav/Durgeโs gender? How do they feel about it? Why did you choose this gender?
Ria's a woman, but in the context of a Seldarine drow living on the surface. She is aware that the way people see her does not entirely match up with her internal experience.
...ooooohh... ๐
08.02.2026 18:51 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0oh i read it and LOVED it. she's not as bitey as I mean for this, but that romance was anything but toothless, so I was still delighted.
08.02.2026 18:51 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0He was definitely out of it, but being offered a bite during helped him stay more present, and Ria knows what she's doing.
08.02.2026 14:16 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0#TavQOTD When did your Tav/Durge and their LI first have sex? Who initiated? How was it?
It was the night after Ria dealt with Flind and Abdirakโ a whole mess of mutual manipulation and budding fondness. For her, at least, it was *very* good. And it was better than Astarion expected.
#TavQOTD
How did your Tav/Durge and their LI meet?
How did it go?
Was there an instant attraction?
Ria, internally: "Ugh, gods, the last thing I want added to my troubles is a noble"
She walked away from him, got jumped, talked her way out, and decided to see how useful he'd be