J. Diva

a little girl is dancing with the words i said what i said behind her ALT: a little girl is dancing with the words i said what i said behind her

Anyway, stop making excuses for your trash ass behavior - until you admit your flaws without blaming others and do the work to he better, you will never be considered a good partner.

Good relationships are for whole people, not people who lack maturity and character.

Additionally, specifically for cheaters, if you admit to cheating, but then say you did it because of something your partner did, you are NOT taking accountability for your actions.

Loyalty and character mean that you're not breaking vows or monogamy for some cut. You would leave before cheating.

You cannot have piss poor morals and get mad at people who see through your basura.

Cheating, lying, controlling, manipulative, abusive behaviors are NOT mistakes, but are indicative of your character as a partner.

You lose the right to claim being a good person when you do any of these.

Why did a SERIAL CHEATER post about how women fumble good, hardworking men?

Sir, cheating on your partner is the antithesis of being a good man.

Mind you, this is logic that I've seen MULTIPLE cheaters use. Men and women.

Like nobody fumbled, you're just mad people are unwilling to be cheated on.

NRA v. Vulio (2022), by a unanimous Supreme Court:

"Government officials
cannot attempt to coerce private parties in order to punish
or suppress views that the government disfavors."

Reddit is now banning people for encouraging people to report racists to their employers.

*sigh*

This dictatorship and his racist supporters need to go away.

And no, I'm not encouraging violence. I'm encouraging these people to leave the rest of us alone and to self banish to an uninhabited isle.

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“Leader of the government tries to make it illegal to say anything bad about him or his government” is like the first and most obvious sign of dictatorship

All I'm going to say is that BLACK WOMEN TOLD YOU.

We told y'all this ish would happen. So here we are.

The academic interest in exploring the phenomenon of stochastic terrorism was, it seems, suppressed by conservative elements.

It's our loss.

We don't have an effective theoretical framework for understanding under what conditions statements by influential people lead directly to harming others.

Finally got my cats to start chasing spiders.

Unfortunately, spiders will play dead long enough for my cats to lose interest, meaning I still have to kill them.

We're working on it.

Facts. And don't point that out to them because then they'll cry "reverse racism".

Exactly this.

It's also why we're seeing the harassment of Black people (including threats on HBCUs) over this Charlie Kirk killing, despite it being a white perp, in a white conservative area.

They are trying their damnest.

Charlie Kirk was a hateful racist who enjoyed getting people riled up and perpetuating controversy wherever he went. I didn't agree with his political and social stances, and I detest how he moved through life.

But I wouldn't wish his fate upon him. That's not in my character.

That man's wife and young children witnessed his assassination in person. Anyone who knows me knows how I feel about children experiencing trauma - I empathize greatly.

I wouldn't wish that on the worst person in the world. And I'm not going to start now.

At the end of the day, I wish no harm on anyone. I do not celebrate death. I wouldn't have celebrated the death of Hitler. Why? Because I don't believe in inviting negative karma (an oversimplification) into my life. It is literally against my religious beliefs, and I actively practice Buddhism.

But let's take things a step further-

These same people who are harassing me, are bringing Donald Trump into the discussion. You know, about the man who was accused by DT's cabinet of being a traitor for wanting the Epstein Files released.

Make it make sense.

These people have even gone as far to say that I called for or justified his death because I mentioned that he put negative energy into the universe and it came back to him.

This doesn't make his murder okay. And this doesn't mean I'm happy he's dead. I do not condone violence. Period.

The accusations and harassment from white conservatives because those of us in marginalized communities aren't falling out bawling tears over thr death of Charlie Kirk is wild.

I've blatantly condemned his death and violence in general, yet, I'm still being accused of being hateful and anti-White.

Just reminding everyone that we still don't know who killed Kirk or why so can we all stop talking about how his murder is an assault on democracy or whatever.

We don't know anything so why are folks advancing a narrative that the regime has run with. It's really dumb

So yeah. I want nothing more than to exist peacefully with others who want similar.

This isn't to be confused with low self esteem or self loathing. I'm very secure in myself and happy with the person I have become. But there's just something about knowing someone is cruel for the sake of being cruel that just hurts my heart for humanity.

I'll never understand it.

Personally, it's taking me a lot of effort to continue to put myself out there socially and professionally because I can absolutely be sensitive to rejection from certain people, even if I'm completely unbothered by others lambasting my weirdness.

Additionally, when it comes to dating, so many people have been burned that they've developed avoidant attachment styles to protect themselves. They jump ship out of fear of being hurt. They're afraid to be vulnerable.

It's a terrible way to have to exist.

Like I'm already way more introverted than I seem. So I think some people who haven't spent a lot of time around me think that I have some selfish reasons to talking to them, when in reality I'm just trying to maintain communication when I already struggle to want to be social.

This topic has been pretty relevant over the last week. I was having the conversation with a good friend about how we're givers and reluctant to reach out because people will use us or assume we have ulterior motives for reaching out.

The hardest thing with some people is trying to prove you're sincere. The world is so screwed up that some people just refuse to be trusting because they've been burned too many times.

surely we can come up with something better for 7 billion people than being lorded over by a bunch of plundering elderly murder and torture enthusiasts who whisper to each other about printing spare organs so they can immiserate others in perpetuity

Anybody else wondering how folks are still managing to get married in this dating climate? Maybe I need to find a Voodoo priestess to do a protection spell to keep ashy dudes away from me.

Like I just want to drink my coffee and enjoy the weather.