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If you haven't heard from me as soon as you'd hoped to (or at all), or if you've felt like I've been quiet or reserved towards you, I'm sorry. This is probably why.

I need a bit of extra help with taking up space, especially right now.

My brain is doing that thing again (/still) where it is refusing to allow me to reach out to people because I would be "bothering them" or "intruding" or "unwelcome" or "not fitting in" or whatever.

I know it is lying to me and I hate that it does this. I wish it would stop.

Seeing this from you, specifically, is making me wonder how size difference works in VRChat… :)

The theory in the paper is that it's not the superhero per se, but that unexpected events in general increase mindfulness and thus pro-social behavior

So act weird and make people behave better.

I think a disconnect between me and other subs is other subs enjoy being insulted, degraded, but when I get insulted I want it to be in like an affectionate/patronizing/loving way

Instead of "You're so fucking stupid" I want the hypnodom to go "Awww, you're so fucking stupid ❤️ *jerks you off* "

Glad to hear it! Better to go and get it checked out and have it be nothing than have it actually be something that you missed.

rehhh, hope it’s nothing serious. ><

Tempted to start a payment processor for furries and any/all marginalized groups. Ideally with e2e encryption for the invoice and comment fields because it’s not anyone’s goddamn business what your money is for.

If Stripe, Visa, PayPal, etc. don’t want our money, then fuck ‘em, let’s build our own.

Tumblr post by user novelconcepts: “Hey, man, c'mere. Listen. Get in real close, this is important. You're gonna make stuff again. You're gonna make stuff you're proud of. You're gonna make stuff you're excited to share. You're going to feel that overwhelming drive to create, not just the frantic I want to want to you're stuck in now. You're going to have awesome ideas, and you're going to make them into reality. You're going to create again. You're still an artist. You're still a writer. You're still home to the same passion you had before. You'll find it again. It's not gone. It's just resting. Let it rest. You're going to make stuff again. I promise.”

God, I hope this is true

What boundaries do you already have established around your work life?

What are you doing to take small breaks during the day when you start to feel tired?

What can you do at night/on the weekends to spark some joy?

Cuuuuuute :3

Feel like this needs to be spread around.

Artwork by @/simple_nicks on twitter.

Sometimes being the happiest sad person, is better than being the saddest happy person.

Life will always be heavy, it'll always put this weight on you that you can never truly let go of...

But you get better at it all.

Handling it, carrying, and seeing those sparks of joy.

The witch made him hot chocolate.

"They say I'm strong," he said. "And I am."

He took a sip.

"They say I can overcome any hardship."

"Mm," said the witch.

"And I can. I do."

The witch said nothing.

"But I shouldn't have to!"

"No."

The witch held the hero as he wept.

"No, you shouldn't."

Every day I work at Big Tech I understand this guy more and more

they call it a hex editor bc you are casting little spells on the computer

do not purchase devices for your house that talk to the internet unless talking to the internet is the primary purpose you are buying it for. do not purchase devices which could work without the internet but don't

This is much better than the many other things they want to get us addicted to.

It happens. >< Only way I’ve found to get through it is to prioritize intentionally as best you can and don’t worry about anything that’s not at the top of your list.

*hugs* It’s okay to be overwhelmed. You’ve got this. <3

Gonna be honest: I’m going thru the motions and doing what I need to do, but I feel dead inside.

I know it’s cliche, roll your eyes if you want, but I’d rather talk about it than not, I guess? Even if it makes me sound like an angsty teen half my age, I’ll own it. ><

Just took a break and played Rimworld all day. idk. I needed to not think or interact or do anything. I needed something to look forward to slash enjoy in the moment for a change. It… was sorta that, I guess. It was nice. But it was only escapism.

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Silicon Valley, 1990s: Free and open access to all the world’s knowledge will usher a new utopian age of information!

Silicon Valley, 2025:

Daaaaaaamn, I love this, you are so hot :3

Computers were a skill. They were taught in classrooms as a skill. Skills give you power over your tools because you work them as an expert and that is leverage to multiply externally.

And then computers became an A/B tested telemetry-based advertising conduit to brains for SaaS recurring revenue.

My phone has full optical character recognition of 47,000 photos. I can search individual words.

I cannot search three words in quotes.

Computers used to be powerful. That power meant something. It was power for making your life better in sovereignty to your own interests.

And now we have this.

I like how full text search of every book and human thought ever was a SOLVED PROBLEM in 2001, and now dicks at search engines and my own phone – a piece of silicon faster to respond than God was ever imagined in scripture – prevent it from working, _as a retroactive infantilizing design choice_.

guh, it does really suck when that happens. >< I hope you find something you're excited about soon. You've got this. <3

It's so humble!
#furryart #feetsky #furrynsfw #nsfw #pankallisti #undead
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nah, don't be sorry. I hear ya. I don't fit in anywhere either. Not transfem but not cis. Too old to fit comfortably in most furry spaces nowadays. (Formerly?) poly but indexed on long-term commitment and security. I could go on.

We don't have to be the same to fit in. We're still worthy of love.