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Dr Barbara Sumner

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Adoption Deconstructed | critical analysis | research | reflection | reform | NZ | PhD drbarbarasumner.substack.com #adoptees

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If you read this week’s column on the invisibility of adopted people in data, here's a handy chart drbarbarasumner.substack.com/p/how-to-be-...

21.05.2025 21:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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How to be Invisible The high-stakes social experiment we call adoption.

A new column is up now on Substack. Free to subscribe. Paid subscribers also get all the footnotes and research. All subscribers receive the full article. drbarbarasumner.substack.com/p/how-to-be-... πŸ₯š
#adoption
p.s.I'm also trialling an audio version of the column, which is recorded in my wardrobe.

20.05.2025 03:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

this is why I write, this is why I committed three hard years to gain a PhD in the structures and functions of human adoption.

20.05.2025 03:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Adoption Deconstructed | Dr Barbara Sumner | Substack Empowering adopted people through knowledge. Click to read Adoption Deconstructed, by Dr Barbara Sumner, a Substack publication.

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17.05.2025 16:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Multiple layers of anger and aggression circulate within the adoptive family. πŸ₯š
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#adoptees

27.04.2025 23:14 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Your research and paper were groundbreaking!!!

24.04.2025 03:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I 100% agree with Tony @notalegalrecord.net
#adoptees πŸ₯š

23.04.2025 02:17 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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"Conducting experimental studies on humans and exposing humans to the considered risk factor of maternal separation is not possible as it disagrees with the principles of research ethics.”
Unless you call it adoption.
#adoptees πŸ₯š
Out now: drbarbarasumner.substack.com/p/maternal-

22.04.2025 20:58 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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The Illusion of Kinship No rights. No lineage. No return.

A short, extra essay on inheritance laws, adoption and the blended family. drbarbarasumner.substack.com/p/the-illusi...
πŸ₯š #adoptees

19.04.2025 21:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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A short piece about inheritance law in Aotearoa New Zealand. Available 8 am tomorrow morning (20th April NZ time). #adoptees πŸ₯š

19.04.2025 06:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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An essay coming up on inheritance laws and adoption. Subscribe here to receive an email notification: drbarbarasumner.substack.com
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18.04.2025 06:27 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Now that's a tough question...

17.04.2025 04:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Gill Roberts on Adoption Deconstructed Bethany Grey Lynn - my mother cared for me for 10 days. She knew I had been 'allocated'. What that meant was at some stage she would come from the work room to feed me and I would be gone. Time and...

The Darling Man Syndrome
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16.04.2025 01:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is why I love writing for Substack. πŸ₯š
#adoptees #fertilityjourney #fertilityawareness #family #parenting #adoption
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15.04.2025 01:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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drbarbarasumner.substack.com/p/the-darlin...

πŸ₯š #adoptees

14.04.2025 21:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Kristina on Adoption Deconstructed Really looking forward to digging in to this but also want to say - a different perspective - she did it for him - he wanted a son - she wanted not to adopt / they β€œsettled” on me! And she tried to k...

The Darling Man Syndrome drbarbarasumner.substack.com/p/the-darlin...

#adoptees πŸ₯š

14.04.2025 21:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Kristina on Adoptology This! This is what I keep trying to explain. It is NOT our fault they didn’t love us. In fact based on the psychology of the entire thing, it’s a miracle that more of us aren’t tortured and killed ...

The Unnatural Family

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Why do we still think taking an unrelated child and pretending it is your own is the same as having your own? Why does society continue to act as if the adoptological family is synonymous with the biological?

11.04.2025 21:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love that. So perfectly true

10.04.2025 00:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes please, very much like to be added.

10.04.2025 00:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What readers are saying. #adoptees πŸ₯š
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10.04.2025 00:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I find it emotionally beautiful; we are perfectly formed like an egg.

09.04.2025 07:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

thank you. why the egg?

09.04.2025 05:17 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I feel that so keenly. The public social narrative is so well entrenched, and we are so often siloed from each other by the cones of since the cover every adopted person.

09.04.2025 05:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

it feels like a privilege to be here.

09.04.2025 05:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

i do have rather a lot to say.πŸ₯š

09.04.2025 05:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Unnatural Family Why loving the unrelated child is framed as virtuous - and why that matters.

Our oh so unnatural families. Always up for a chat about the structures, functions and purpose of human adoption. #adoptology #adoptees πŸ₯š

09.04.2025 02:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Hi Tony, I used to follow your fine work over on the other site. Would you be able to add me to the Adoptees of Blue Sky list so I'll see and be seen by BSKY #adoptees - πŸ₯š

09.04.2025 02:03 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

thank you

09.04.2025 01:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Zero data. Zero acknowledgement of any difference between the adoptological and biological family.

09.04.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I'm always keen to talk about adoption politics and policy. drbarbarasumner.substack.com
#adoption #adoptee #adoptiveparent

09.04.2025 01:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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