Unidash 🦄

I'm pretty tired.

Like it's so common for parents to be shit and just not connect emotionally with their children but sometimes I'm deadass like is there something deeply wrong with you or is it me. Am I simply unloveable. Am I not worth the effort. I don't know.

Sometimes I think about how my parents have so little regard for my feelings and have to laugh, and then I'm also like wow incredible how they simply do not love me. I should kill myself. (Not really but. You know.)

What Arlie Hoschild found was that when women entered the workforce en masse in the 20th century, men functionally went on strike from domestic labor—forcing women to take on a double day of wages and caretaking work.

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he sucks so much I hate him I hate hi I hate him

meg can I comm you to draw my current otp.

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The answer is bc it involves shapewear not worth wearing to sit at a desk or at a shop. But like. It would feel right lol.

shallow af but can you BELIEVE my rack looks like this sometimes. There’s practically a 90 degree angle under there. Deranged. I love it. Why don’t I dress like that every day. (Not Tifa literally but like. The tailoring lol.)

Put on “50 First Dates” as background noise and it struck me that some group of artists was paid to do like a hundred paintings of Adam Sandler in different styles and paint mediums, and today they’d probably just AI generate them.

New Superman movie is on Crave… I think I do want to watch it but also the concept of it makes me want to gommage.

Oh yeah, I just don’t want to chafe against a saddle for hours lol.

I will need to acquire acceptable riding clothes either way.

There are review pics of ppl standing in the water with their horses… I could live out my own personal black stallion moment…

Beach pro: you get to run, water
Beach con: kinda repetitive visually, no shade

Mountain pro: more beautiful, prob get to see more buildings, roads and local history w/ tour guide
Mountain cons: prob one speed

They have a shuttle from the hotel… but do I do mountains or beach… pls vote with your phones

Mmmm there’s a horseback riding place near my vacation resort… might book for one of the first few days and if I like it I’ll go a few times.

Like that’s someone’s irl pain, why the fuck are you using it to joke about a video game character.

Once more sensitive but linking to people’s Reddit posts about their personal trauma from dealing with abusive parents like “teehee verso would post this” isn’t cute

Be like holy shit this is a real person who made these choices. What the fuck!

Also that opening anecdote about nearly dying from a shark attack as a child was insane because I lowkey was like “lol my parents would react the same way.”

Okay I finished Sarah Wynn-William’s “Careless People.” I thought it was very good but I also thought it was a lil fucking insane that she kept up the delusion for YEARS that she could do more good inside Facebook than outside it… holy shit. Memoirs are nuts because sometimes you have to pause and

The podcast was also like “we shouldn’t think of Taylor Swift as trad just because she’s married now! We have to include space for women like her on the left” and also “influencers use trad imagery of marriage and childbirth because it’s profitable”

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I listened to a podcast today about how the right has claimed pregnancy, marriage and motherhood as “conservative” things and how we should push back against that but like… how does anyone think the VSFS is a vanguard for diversity rn lol

I’m reading Sarah Wynn-Williams’ book on Facebook and the amount of fucking cringe is infuriating considering how much power Facebook has now.

I’m sure it’s just stress/exhaustion but I’m in my “chest pains and thudding heartbeat” era.

fuck you dude I'm not living with the omelas

sensitive but whatever: can't fucking stand it when renoir fans make his treatment of his children a fucking meme. like verso is some whiny unreasonable bitch who "had it so good" and shouldn't have walked away and is actually the asshole in this situation

Even then, as soon as I look at it, I’m like wow this is a wasteland and full of neonazi bots. Bye!!!!

Kicking Twitter after like a decade of heavy use took like two weeks. All I did was delete the app and change my password to something not in the keychain so i have to manually log in on the browser. I now have to remind myself to check every 2 weeks to see what 3 friends post.