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๐Ÿ‘ฝโ˜„๏ธCJ De Barra ๐Ÿ’€๐Ÿ‘ป

@cjdebarra.bsky.social

Author of Neuroqueer: a neurodivergent guide to love, sex and everything in between & the Notts Queer History Archive ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Queer non binary journalist with adhd ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ

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Hope you enjoy!!! ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท

05.02.2026 19:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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LGBTQ+ History month ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธโค๏ธ Iโ€™m starting with this book all about queer history in my home city ๐Ÿ˜ by @cjdebarra.bsky.social

01.02.2026 12:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A non binary person raising an eyebrow. They have red hair tied up, a black dress and dangly skull earrings

A non binary person raising an eyebrow. They have red hair tied up, a black dress and dangly skull earrings

I have to admit Iโ€™m not really using this account!

Please find me at - www.instagram.com/cjdebarra?ig... if you want to reach me.

03.01.2026 19:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ahhh thank you! ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท

03.01.2026 19:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Really enjoyed this panel! Thank you so much for the excellent questions and chat ๐Ÿฉท

01.01.2026 22:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So I chaired a panel at Edinburgh's Radical Book Fair yesterday, about #WeirdPride and unruliness, with two fantastic queer, neurodivergent, nonbinary writers and activists: @acaciathorns.bsky.social and @cjdebarra.bsky.social.

I loved hearing their thoughts on this.
www.youtube.com/live/vTW_j-H...

09.11.2025 20:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I canโ€™t wait! Looking forward to meeting you

06.11.2025 10:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Flyer-style image for the event, 'Divergent: Weird pride, unruliness & outsider wisdom', party of Edinburgh's Radical Book Fair.
Date: Saturday 8th November 

Venue: Assembly Roxy, 2 Roxburgh Place, Edinburgh, EH8 9SU

Time: 4.30-5.30pm.

The flyer shows the covers of of CJ De Barra's 'Neuroqueer: A Neurodivergent Guide to Love, Sex, and Everything In Between' and 'Significant Others, a collection of texts by Frank Jagoe'.

The background shows leaves of gingko, perhaps the weirdest of all trees, and an image of hands cupping a source of ornate smoke.

Flyer-style image for the event, 'Divergent: Weird pride, unruliness & outsider wisdom', party of Edinburgh's Radical Book Fair. Date: Saturday 8th November Venue: Assembly Roxy, 2 Roxburgh Place, Edinburgh, EH8 9SU Time: 4.30-5.30pm. The flyer shows the covers of of CJ De Barra's 'Neuroqueer: A Neurodivergent Guide to Love, Sex, and Everything In Between' and 'Significant Others, a collection of texts by Frank Jagoe'. The background shows leaves of gingko, perhaps the weirdest of all trees, and an image of hands cupping a source of ornate smoke.

This year's Edinburgh Radical Book Fair has started!

On Saturday at 4pm, I'm chairing 'Divergent: Weird pride, unruliness & outsider wisdom' with @cjdebarra.bsky.social and @acaciathorns.bsky.social (frank r. jagoe can't attend in person, unfortunately).

#WeirdPride
@lighthousebks.bsky.social

06.11.2025 09:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Iโ€™m so glad to hear! Thank you so much ๐Ÿฉท

25.10.2025 20:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Looking forward to meeting you!!!

25.10.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'll be chairing this event in a couple of weeks! Very exciting.

I've always loved the Radical Book Fair, and it's great to see a #WeirdPride event I didn't organise myself! ๐Ÿ˜

Just digging into the books now. Not sure why or how I didn't come across @cjdebarra.bsky.social's book sooner!

24.10.2025 10:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@bsky.app - why is there a content warning on these images?? There is nothing rude in them? Iโ€™m wearing a suit, in public and itโ€™s close ups of a book?

19.09.2025 20:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Cj a blue haired non binary person is standing delivering a talk at a microphone

Cj a blue haired non binary person is standing delivering a talk at a microphone

A big crowd of people seated facing the windows of the library. There are speakers in front of the window in the distance

A big crowd of people seated facing the windows of the library. There are speakers in front of the window in the distance

A row of Queer Nottingham books at the Five Leaves pop up stall

A row of Queer Nottingham books at the Five Leaves pop up stall

A close up of some people seated laughing and smiling. They are watching something in the distance

A close up of some people seated laughing and smiling. They are watching something in the distance

The Queer Nottingham 1960-1990 book launch happened last night and it was INCREDIBLE.

I cannot get over seeing so many wonderful LGBTQ+ people in one room celebrating our history. It was gorgeous.

Roll on book launch - Queer Nottingham 1990-2020 in Feb!

So overwhelmed in the best possible way

19.09.2025 20:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you so much for coming to the event - Iโ€™m so glad you won the book too!!! Hope you enjoy it ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ

19.09.2025 06:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Surviving a drug overdose: report Brian Oโ€™Connell, RTร‰ Reporter

Why isn't Naloxone, a life saving tool not more widely available in Ireland

#SpeirGorm
#DrugSky

www.rte.ie/radio/radio1...

03.09.2025 14:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 20    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I am delighted to announce that the Queer Nottingham Book launch will happen at Central Library on Sep 18th

Therer will be author Q&A, slideshows, quiz, displays, stalls from Sparrows Nest and Notts Queer History Project, DJ and a bookshop!

Ticket- fiveleavesbookshop.co.uk/events/queer...

31.08.2025 06:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Two non binary people in wedding outfit are kissing on a beach.

Two non binary people in wedding outfit are kissing on a beach.

Two non binary people in wedding outfits are raising their hands in a congratulatory gesture after getting married in a garden

Two non binary people in wedding outfits are raising their hands in a congratulatory gesture after getting married in a garden

Took a break this month to finally have my wedding reception back home in Corkโ€ฆ.

I cannot wait to get the photos back but it was such an incredible day. To have our friends and family around us was everything. Not to mention, on the 10th anniversary of Marriage Equality in Ireland

13.08.2025 04:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A tall NB person wearing a black tshirt with white writing thatโ€™s says notts queer history archive is standing against a tv in a grey room

A tall NB person wearing a black tshirt with white writing thatโ€™s says notts queer history archive is standing against a tv in a grey room

A tall NB person wearing a black tshirt with white writing thatโ€™s says notts queer history archive  is standing in a beer garden

A tall NB person wearing a black tshirt with white writing thatโ€™s says notts queer history archive is standing in a beer garden

Had a blast talking about historical trans life at Deptford Lounge last night ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

It was a brand new talk which I was so excited to do. It also raised ยฃ150 for trans charities too which is awesome. ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿค

28.06.2025 07:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A blue and white cover of a book. There are six books on the counter along with a sign that announces a local author - Cj DeBarra. The book is Neuroqueer: a neurodivergent guide to love, sex and everything in between

A blue and white cover of a book. There are six books on the counter along with a sign that announces a local author - Cj DeBarra. The book is Neuroqueer: a neurodivergent guide to love, sex and everything in between

Look at this lovely display!

A big thank you to One More Chapter for having me today ๐Ÿฉท I had a blast speaking with everyone and doing a reading! Iโ€™m always nervous reading from a book with a LOT of naughty words but today felt really fun ๐Ÿ“š

14.06.2025 20:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love that film!!

12.06.2025 04:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A person with blue hair holding a book. They are wearing a black tshirt that says Brรณd on it. They are standing outside a bright yellow bookshop in Mayo

A person with blue hair holding a book. They are wearing a black tshirt that says Brรณd on it. They are standing outside a bright yellow bookshop in Mayo

I had a complete blast at Mayo Pride! ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ It was lovely to celebrate love and resistance - while running a really fun writing workshop!

This is seriously one of the best Prides I have been to in years. My soul needed that ๐Ÿฉท

#PrideMonth

03.06.2025 20:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Ten entire years since Marriage equality in Ireland

Good lord how times have flown. I never thought I would get married let alone be legally able.

So ten years later I proposed in Ireland and will have my wedding reception at home in West Cork. ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿธ

22.05.2025 17:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A small tortoise shell cat is sitting in the green garden

A small tortoise shell cat is sitting in the green garden

๐Ÿฅน absolutely fuming

04.05.2025 12:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A small tortoise shell cat is sitting in the grass in the sun

A small tortoise shell cat is sitting in the grass in the sun

A small tortoise shell cat is sitting in the grass in the sun

A small tortoise shell cat is sitting in the grass in the sun

No one is enjoying the garden or bank holiday more than this tiny cat right nowโ€ฆ..

04.05.2025 12:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
 	
A screenshot of an email that says:

Dear Arthur Webber,

Parliament is going to debate the petition you signed โ€“ โ€œAllow transgender people to self-identify their legal gender.โ€.

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/701159

The debate is scheduled for 19 May 2025.

A screenshot of an email that says: Dear Arthur Webber, Parliament is going to debate the petition you signed โ€“ โ€œAllow transgender people to self-identify their legal gender.โ€. https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/701159 The debate is scheduled for 19 May 2025.

Parliament is going to have a debate on self-ID on 19th May.

If your MP is supportive of trans rights, itโ€™s really important that you write to them to ask them to be there.

The transphobes will turn out in force - we need to make sure allies do too.

03.05.2025 07:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 674    ๐Ÿ” 317    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 14    ๐Ÿ“Œ 15
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Beeston Film Festival The biggest international Top 100 Best Reviewed 5-star short film festival in the Midlands! Now entering our 12th year, we pride ourselves on championing...

Filmmaker friends! Beeston Film Festival is open for submissions again! Super Early Bird prices until June 30th!

Submit your shorts here!

filmfreeway.com/BeestonFilmF...

03.05.2025 10:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A panel event in a cozy, industrial-style space. Five speakers sit in a row in front of a seated audience. From left to right on the panel: a person in a power wheelchair wearing a white shirt and green pants; a person with purple hair and glasses in a sleeveless black top; a person with curly black hair in a black dress; a person with short blue hair in a green velvet suit, speaking into a microphone; and a person with curly blonde hair wearing a black top and green trousers. In the audience, people sit closely together on chairs and cushions. One person is kneeling, playing with a dog. The room is warmly lit with fairy lights and a small table with a vase of dried flowers. The background features a blue metal shutter and an emergency exit door.

A panel event in a cozy, industrial-style space. Five speakers sit in a row in front of a seated audience. From left to right on the panel: a person in a power wheelchair wearing a white shirt and green pants; a person with purple hair and glasses in a sleeveless black top; a person with curly black hair in a black dress; a person with short blue hair in a green velvet suit, speaking into a microphone; and a person with curly blonde hair wearing a black top and green trousers. In the audience, people sit closely together on chairs and cushions. One person is kneeling, playing with a dog. The room is warmly lit with fairy lights and a small table with a vase of dried flowers. The background features a blue metal shutter and an emergency exit door.

A group of six people standing together, smiling at the camera against a dark background with a white panel behind them. From left to right: a person with short hair wearing a patterned shirt and jeans; a person using a power wheelchair, wearing a white shirt, green pants, pink shoes, and a pink crossbody bag; a person with purple hair, glasses, and a sleeveless black top; a person with curly black hair wearing a sheer black dress, holding a black cane and handbag; a person with short blue hair wearing a green velvet suit and a white T-shirt; and a person with curly blonde hair, glasses, a black top, and green trousers. The atmosphere feels joyful and proud.

A group of six people standing together, smiling at the camera against a dark background with a white panel behind them. From left to right: a person with short hair wearing a patterned shirt and jeans; a person using a power wheelchair, wearing a white shirt, green pants, pink shoes, and a pink crossbody bag; a person with purple hair, glasses, and a sleeveless black top; a person with curly black hair wearing a sheer black dress, holding a black cane and handbag; a person with short blue hair wearing a green velvet suit and a white T-shirt; and a person with curly blonde hair, glasses, a black top, and green trousers. The atmosphere feels joyful and proud.

I had a blast being on the panel with so many lovely people @vaginamuseum.bsky.social this Sat.

Thank you so much to @lucywebster.bsky.social for having me. It was a joy to talk disabilty, s3x and more! More events like this please!

#QueerJoy

28.04.2025 12:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Reach out. Trans flag heart shaped with you are loved text in the middle.  Call us: 0115 934 8485. Mon to Fri - 7pm to 9pm. Nottslgbt+ Network Since 1975. www.nottslgbt.com

Reach out. Trans flag heart shaped with you are loved text in the middle. Call us: 0115 934 8485. Mon to Fri - 7pm to 9pm. Nottslgbt+ Network Since 1975. www.nottslgbt.com

We are here for you, if you need us. Our phone lines are open every week. Reach out for support.

Tel: 0115 934 8485 (Mon to Fri - 7pm to 9pm) or Text to chat: 07481 344040 or Email us: info@nottslgbt.com or check out our website: www.nottslgbt.com

#Trans ##transgender #transrights ##nonbinary

16.04.2025 19:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 29    ๐Ÿ” 17    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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Trans rights are human rights
Trans women are women
Trans men are men
Non binary people exist
Solidarity with everyone feeling todayโ€™s ruling.

16.04.2025 13:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

if you are a cis person it costs you nothing to just say today that you see & hear your trans sisters & brothers & others over in the UK today -- and around the world, too, knowing that rulings like today's ripple out in ugly ways.

16.04.2025 12:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7559    ๐Ÿ” 3006    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 67    ๐Ÿ“Œ 225

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