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Chandra N

@cniklew.bsky.social

She/Her - Because my pronouns are MY choice! As is anything to do with MY body! Proud seeker of the real resistance - It's gotta exist, right? Author Mental Health Therapist Lover of sports Former Investigative/Crime/City Reporter Proud Latina wife and mom

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Latest posts by cniklew.bsky.social on Bluesky

The US made a promise: if you dedicate ten years to public service while paying your student loans, the balance will be forgiven. This latest witch hunt from Trump and Musk would be another broken promise to working families to fund the greedy whims of unelected billionaires.

08.03.2025 00:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 374    ๐Ÿ” 85    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 7

Well I started the UNOFFICIAL Hagerstown Flying Boxcars Fan Page on Facebook so maybe I'll start the UNOFFICIAL Boxcars Fan account on here! :) Lord knows I have the ability since I have to keep up with everything anyway.

06.03.2025 21:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Unable to find peace anymore. I'm SCARED. I'm telling my family to convince people we're only White and my LGBTQ son to keep quiet. Western Maryland is RED and, regardless of what state we live in, we're looking to ALL of the non-Trump reps for hope.

05.03.2025 02:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

YES! Wonderfully said.

10.02.2025 11:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Best. Superbowl. Ever. :) #NFL #Eagles #Chiefs #Superbowl

10.02.2025 02:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

SIXTH sack of #Mahomes. I'm loving this game. #Superbowl #Chiefs #Eagles #GoEagles

10.02.2025 01:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So this is what the Chiefs look like when the officials haven't been paid to cut them some slack... #Superbowl #Chiefs #Eagles #NFL

10.02.2025 01:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If anything can get booed more than the American National Anthem at a Canadian hockey game, it's apparently the Chiefs team introduced at the Superbowl. #SuperbowlLIX #Chiefs #Eagles

09.02.2025 23:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

No worries! I agree with you. I think we all have our strengths and I hope that we respect everyone and how they fight so we can work as a team. It'll work as long as we appreciate the people who do things in ways we can't or won't.

09.02.2025 23:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

...begrudge your anger or anyone's. Just make sure you don't lose yourself to it if it gets too big to control.

09.02.2025 23:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I understand that. Although I entered into a heterosexual marriage, I am part of the community. My two older children are part of the community and, as far as my son is concerned, he is no longer comfortable being who he is due to fear. I promise I empathize and I would NEVER invalidate or...

09.02.2025 23:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

No, but unfortunately he probably actually believes it. All we can do is keep speaking the truth.

09.02.2025 23:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hear you. Still, I'm a user on this platform and I won't coddle them, either, because I know how to stand up for myself without becoming one of them. That's just the way I'm dealing with it, but everyone decides for themselves what they want to do moving forward.

09.02.2025 23:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Some people do and who did worse is a matter of perception. They're thinking the same thing about us and since we look to them the way they look to us, nothing will change.

09.02.2025 21:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

IF you're boycotting the Superbowl today, which reason are you using?

1. Trump will be there.
2. The Black National Anthem is being performed.
3. Taylor Swift has ruined football.
4. The refs are incompetent and the game is rigged.
5. The halftime show is discriminating against good White music.

09.02.2025 21:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What's wild is I have heard four reasons for boycotting the Superbowl and two of them are coming from the MAGA folks. This is probably why the ticket prices (if I read it correctly) are the lowest they've been in more than a decade.

09.02.2025 20:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Good point! I think I misread that one completely! For some reason, I thought it meant someone who tries to act more important than they are. Which, ironically, is probably Musk.

09.02.2025 20:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

People played nice before? I missed that. I saw people caught off guard because they believed their friends, family, and neighbors weren't going to put such a toxic person in office. Being respectful and firm is a possibility. We can be unwavering and loud without slinging insults that mean nothing.

09.02.2025 20:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Considering the controversy over the football refs right now, this might be a rough example. That being said, 100 percent agree with you!

09.02.2025 19:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I disagree with DEI being racist in any way and I understand White privilege (thanks to a video shared with me years ago, believe it or not). But I also understand why it's an odd concept. I don't think that it's been explained very well in the past. OR I'm just a very visual learner.

09.02.2025 19:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

LA Sen. Bill Cassidy said, โ€œAbout a third of our population is African American; African Americans have a higher incidence of maternal mortality. So, if you correct our population for race, weโ€™re not as much of an outlier as itโ€™d otherwise appear.โ€

CORRECT FOR RACE?!?!?! Um... WTF?

09.02.2025 19:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Can't say I ever got used to that part, but I think that has to do more with my anxiety! Happy to see someone taking the skill and running with it! :)

09.02.2025 19:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Who we voted for doesn't have anything to do with the type of people we are when interacting with others. Nobody will listen to us if we don't show the difference. It can't just be with our beliefs because that hasn't worked. Hate vs hate doesn't encourage progression toward inclusion.

09.02.2025 19:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We're keeping it simple for the moment! Buffalo chicken dip is the favorite! We have a variety of chips, along with cannoli chips for "dessert!" Pretty sure we're going to break and get pizza at some point. :)

09.02.2025 19:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Absolutely! And the way you just said that is exactly what we need! I love the idea of beating back that ignorance with intelligence and not hate.

09.02.2025 19:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I don't agree that it is. If we don't want hate and bullying here, then we are partially responsible for not DOING it to others. If he does it, report it. But if we do it because we somehow think we're better than them, we're not better than them at all.

09.02.2025 19:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One of the most difficult things I do daily is be the person I want my children to be one day and not the person I warn them against associating with. #DoBetter #StopHate

09.02.2025 18:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I get that and it isn't as if I haven't been on the receiving end of that hate. It takes everything in me sometimes to refuse to become the type of person I can't stand. I refuse to turn into the people I'm fighting against. It's hard and the biggest threat to those of us who want to make changes.

09.02.2025 18:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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