Toby

Not by becoming an extremist person full of hatred and bitterness. It's toxic and damages your mind. I've been through it myself and I see the same patterns of behaviour repeating over and over. Everyone is harmed by transphobia. Access to medical gender care is often life saving. It saved my life.

Detransitioning isn't the issue, just like transitioning isn't... It's the twisting and vilifying of these experiences that is. When you medically transition,you make a choice, if you are in the small % of regret then that should be dealt with in a healthy manner....

Anti trans detrans ppl make me angry. They aren't mentally ok (I wasn't).They cause harm to themselves and everyone around them. Its radicalisation and extremist views personified. It's dangerous rhetoric + absolutely no one benefits from it. Leave trans ppl alone and remove yourself from toxicity.

It's still mad thinking back over the last 5 cause so much has happened. I'm so far away from where I was. I was sucked into the TERF cult and deeply depressed... I lost myself. Here I am over 2 years into my medical transition, a uni student (never saw that coming!) and overall pretty damn happy. 😌

Long time no post on here...

Anyways I'll be deleting the other app account soon and move here instead.

Hi! I'm here 👋🏳️‍⚧️