Currently I would like to either smoke a cigarette or have sex... Guess which one of those is easier to achieve
03.02.2024 16:45 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0@therealjp.bsky.social
Trans Man - Co-Presenter of the In Conversation Show on Trans Radio UK - Motorbiker - NHS Worker in Trans Healthcare - Food Lover - he/him
Currently I would like to either smoke a cigarette or have sex... Guess which one of those is easier to achieve
03.02.2024 16:45 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0You know that feeling when you seem to have a lot of friends but no one ever messages you or invites you to anything and you're just really lonely... I feel like that should be one of those situations where there's a single German word for it or something... Cos yeah, that.
02.02.2024 17:33 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0There is a beauty in having someone to miss โฅ
31.01.2024 13:02 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0So tired of cis male fragility
31.01.2024 13:00 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I've not been online for ages, I'm shocked you're still going! ๐
21.11.2023 11:04 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Don't you just hate it when you get home from the barber and have to fix their bloody mess yourself... Why did I waste my money!
11.11.2023 17:56 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0My favourite shelf so far!
19.10.2023 10:56 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Email from management today....
Anyone who wants to attend the trans rights protest at downing street on Wednesday can go, no deductions from leave or any time will be owed. #GoodAllyship!
That's a lot better than my entering the group changing room for trans swimming and the person in front of me being the trans police with "you don't want to come in here".... Sorry for not looking "trans enough"
09.10.2023 12:00 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Oof! Serious enby powers of confusion!
09.10.2023 11:55 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0The policing of bodies is nothing new, just thought the trans community might actually be a bit better at it
07.10.2023 15:46 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I didn't look trans enough ๐คทโโ๏ธ
07.10.2023 15:44 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I went to a local trans and gender diverse swimming session last night, as I was going into the changing room the person in front of me turned round and said "you don't want this room".
I spent the whole session feeling uncomfortable, unwelcome and not wanting to join in with any of the socialising.
I pictured the same!
29.09.2023 13:58 โ ๐ 6 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0How are you still not out of shelves?!?
29.09.2023 12:11 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I call it the FM handle... Or in long form, the Fuck Me handle!
28.09.2023 22:55 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Photo of an IKEA blahaj shark resting on my belly while I lay on my bed
Finally got me a sharkey. At least it's something to cuddle.
27.09.2023 18:30 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I don't really have any desire to do so, mostly I just want to be home in bed.
27.09.2023 11:46 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Every day I wake up now, I just want the day to be over. I hate it.
27.09.2023 09:56 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 0Thanks Tilly. Absolutely the most confused I've ever been at the end of a relationship. It genuinely makes no sense at all.
25.09.2023 12:51 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0My landlady asked yesterday how my boyfriend was doing & I told her he'd ended things
Her reply - well you don't seem very heartbroken over it
I'm sorry, should I be walking around crying & singing sad songs!
I'm great at pretending nothing is wrong, I've got a lifetime of experience doing that!
Looking back, I should have kept mine much more trimmed than I did. Patchy mess is a terrible look! But honestly, if you already have a patchy mess, then give it another 6-9 months and you should be well on your way
25.09.2023 11:42 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Lol as if I have money for such things! ๐
25.09.2023 11:36 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Going to a Trans Sauna tonight. Should be interesting, hopefully meet some cool people.
25.09.2023 11:31 โ ๐ 6 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Thanks. I wish there was something people could do. Changing reality is pretty hard though!
22.09.2023 21:02 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I know it will, I just hate having to do the process
22.09.2023 20:52 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0It's been nearly a week now and I miss him so much
22.09.2023 20:46 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Really didn't have "being single again" on my bingo card for this year, let alone stamp it off ๐
22.09.2023 18:27 โ ๐ 9 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 5 ๐ 0The past 6 months things have kept going wrong in my life and I'm getting to the point where I'm just done with it all. I'd really love to know what I've done to deserve the river of shit that keeps flowing at me.
20.09.2023 20:57 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0Hi Peter! Wonderful to see you again!
20.09.2023 20:54 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0