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image: a happy looking pilot whale

trying to be nicer

image: it me

i tripped and fell going up the stairs and broke two of my nails and now i look aggressively lesbian ):

woo! this was a gift so i am dutifully plugging away (:

[muted internal screaming]

the only way i will ever visit the peak of mount everest is in a low orbital vehicle that has the ability to hover. i am not paying some sherpa to kill themselves on my behalf. you are not supposed to be up there.

image: a picture of the cover of oscar wilde's "a picture of dorian grey"

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this is what passing to cis women feels like

we havent had many interactions but: well managed mental illness. from what you post about you really seem to have your mind palace organized.

i think we all see it, there's a reason people who have been transitioning for ten years all only have one trans friend

normalizing the idea of a "second puberty" for trans women really gave a lot of people license to drag out immature behavior for much longer than it should've ever been tolerated for.

i think almost literally every time someone says "you're overthinking it" in response to something, everybody else goes, "oh that person isnt safe"

i think i abandoned the idea of non-exploitative trans community a year or two ago. trans women are like clusters of every maladaptive trait and trying to befriend most of us is like an exercise in torture and humiliation. when i meet girls with no trans female friends, i get it.

the further I get from day 1 of my transition, the more understanding I gain of why trans women ghost the trans community. i had no idea at year 1-2. at year 2-3 I saw it and was salty. at year 4+ i started to get it but was like nahhhh couldn't be me. now? tick tock.

i am the type of gay that telling me you are fucking a cis man literally makes my skin crawl, but im trying to get better at not vocalizing this response when my friends show me the 5/10s they are going on dates with.

this is not a real health recommendation and you can safely ignore it

i think doing kink is just like doing drugs. you can do it in a finite amount and be fine, but making it your life and being consumed by urges you misconstrue as needs just reads like a drug addiction to me.

i feel like relating to this tweet means you are a bad person

it would get progressively funnier

They send one of your hamburgers to the hospital, you send three of their helpers to the morgue

they sense our power and grow resentful

it's true chat, she's taller than me

noooooooo

heart full of love, life full of light, i hope nothing ever changes and only ever gets better.

june!!!! holy moly

oh no

yes

my best friend and ex of many years has a tattoo on his ribcage that says "if you're bored, you're boring"

Not every girl that’s nice to you wants to have sex with you, but every dude that’s nice to you definitely does.

good people enter the dating pool all the time. if you are expecting to find someone by waiting for them to find you, get comfortable.

yeah. one day we'll arrest all those people and throw them in prison. but until then i hope you're able to find some measure of reassuring community.