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Lighthouse Wifie

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An atheist #countingblessings for my #mentalhealth. Likes tea, hot-water bottles, social justice, knitting, nuanced opinions, & sleeping. Look North. That's where I live. Hence the hot-water bottles.

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500 Years of Female Portraits in Western Art
YouTube video by Philip Scott Johnson 500 Years of Female Portraits in Western Art

Currently reading about #gender in Early Modern Europe.

I am SO tired of the male voice.

And the male gaze.

#history #misogyny #structuralsexism #yesallwomen

youtu.be/nUDIoN-_Hxs?...

18.11.2025 11:26 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
E H Shepherd illustration, showing Piglet in a tree, surrounded by flood water

E H Shepherd illustration, showing Piglet in a tree, surrounded by flood water

"IT rained and it rained and it rained. Piglet told himself that never in all his life, and he was goodness knows how oldβ€”three, was it, or four?β€”never had he seen so much rain."

Ugh.

Lighthouses are built in places that are very cold, and very wet. As you'd expect.

#lighthouse #winter #rain

18.11.2025 10:16 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Major Gwynydd Purves Wynne-Aubrey Meredith"

I am sure an imperial soldier's effectiveness is in inverse proportion to how many names he has. A fun piece of research, perhaps!

18.11.2025 09:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A stream running down a sandy beach to the sea

A stream running down a sandy beach to the sea

So I my arm is slowly getting better, but I am feeling worse. Tired and achey. And I have lost my wrist brace.

But yesterday's good thing remains my support network, and how funny the dogs are.

#mentalhealth #dailyblessings

18.11.2025 09:37 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The sculptures of the Kelpies in Falkirk = two giant horses heads

The sculptures of the Kelpies in Falkirk = two giant horses heads

Day 2 of having the soft cast & sling & I am SO over it already!

But VERY glad I didn't land on stone or concrete.

Sunday's good thing was laughter & board games with pals. This week's good thing is my support network.

#mentalhealth #brokenelbow

Today's random pic seems to be the Kelpies

17.11.2025 12:05 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Turns out it is broken! So I guess Sunday's good thing is finding that out!

16.11.2025 13:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Dark sea and sky with sunset light

Dark sea and sky with sunset light

Saturday's good things ware not breaking my elbow, a short wait in A&E, and pain meds!

My arm is sore, and not very useful, but already feeling a bit better.

#mentalhealth #dailyblessings #cuphalffull #supportthenhs #lovethenhs #supporttheresidentdoctors

Random pic. Tho I hate a squint horizon!

16.11.2025 08:13 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
A road leading to a vanishing point with golden fields on either side

A road leading to a vanishing point with golden fields on either side

Friday was a day of good things.

I am calling out the light during the golden hour as I drove home. The light here is remarkable. I think it is something to do with being so far north. It was a treat after a week of cold, dark, very wet rain.

#mentalhealth #dailyblessings #countingblessings

15.11.2025 10:31 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And hooray for using it!

15.11.2025 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A knitted bobble hat with a band of undyed yarn at the bottom.

A knitted bobble hat with a band of undyed yarn at the bottom.

Undyed lumpy handspun yarn.

Undyed lumpy handspun yarn.

Thursday's good thing....

Finishing this hat.

I spun the white yarn myself, in all its lumpy glory.

#mentalhealth #crafts #craftiverse #spinning #yarn

14.11.2025 07:34 β€” πŸ‘ 50    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My neice gave away some of her old books at her wedding. Each one was wrapped and described. Perfect at a wedding where both families and all friends are peak geek!

14.11.2025 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

At least it's actual Lorem Ipsum, and not Cupcake Ipsum, or Pirate Ipsum.

But yes. No. Stop. Now.

13.11.2025 14:15 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not good! 😳

13.11.2025 14:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It really was! I wasn't a knitter at the time, which was a real shame.

13.11.2025 13:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So yesterday's good thing turned out to be that the pup had not in fact swallowed a needle, and the entire loaf of bread we gave her was unnecessary. The x-ray on the other hand was expensive, but very, very reassuring.

13.11.2025 11:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The best attended talk I ever arranged for science outreach was about the Mathematics of Knitting. The audience was about 60/40 knitters (with knitting) and ultra-nerdy peeps who were presumably mathematicians!

13.11.2025 11:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I hear you, and feel your pain. Here it is cold, dark, windy, and very, very rainy. Horrible weather. With moods to match.

13.11.2025 07:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Really pleased with it! And that the interwebz found photos of the event!

13.11.2025 07:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Update

Older heads than mine think my great grandmother probably died in the early 1950s. So she may have made it after all.

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12.11.2025 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The outside of a hand made needle case with simple flowers embrodered on the cover

The outside of a hand made needle case with simple flowers embrodered on the cover

It probably wasn't made by my great grandmother, so I think it must have been one of my great aunts.

But still. How cool. And what an honour to have to repair it.

The pup, incidentally, is fine. No needles or pins on her xray.

(It's been a day of looking at things inside other things).

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12.11.2025 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Archive photo of men in suits in a formal setting, identified as the event in the invitation in the previous post, and dated 1945.

Archive photo of men in suits in a formal setting, identified as the event in the invitation in the previous post, and dated 1945.

Archive photo of men in suits in a formal setting, identified as the event in the invitation in the previous post, and dated 1945.

Archive photo of men in suits in a formal setting, identified as the event in the invitation in the previous post, and dated 1945.

It seems it was 1945, and the date matches the day of the week.

Which means that....

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12.11.2025 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
An invitation card, torn around the edges and with bits missing, reading:
Request the pleasure of your company at
Claridge's
on Monday, November 19th
to meet
William Dover
of Famous Artists Corporation of Hollywood
New Ball Room at 5-15.
Cocktails.
R.S.V.P. to 28 Brook Street, W.1.

An invitation card, torn around the edges and with bits missing, reading: Request the pleasure of your company at Claridge's on Monday, November 19th to meet William Dover of Famous Artists Corporation of Hollywood New Ball Room at 5-15. Cocktails. R.S.V.P. to 28 Brook Street, W.1.

Whoever made it stiffened it with this invitation to a cocktail party at Claridges. (My mother's aunt was an actress, the invitation would have been for her).

It felt like finding a scrap of papyrus in a mummy!

2)

12.11.2025 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A hand made needke case that opens out like a book. The inside of the right cover has been shredded, and there is a tangle of different yarns in the middle.

A hand made needke case that opens out like a book. The inside of the right cover has been shredded, and there is a tangle of different yarns in the middle.

In other news, the dog disemboweled my needlecase.

I always thought it was made by my great grandmother, but....

1)

#craft #craftiverse #crafting #needlework

12.11.2025 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
An advertisement for a "lace safety vest" -  basically a sleeveless safety vest apparently made of yellow high-viz lace.

An advertisement for a "lace safety vest" - basically a sleeveless safety vest apparently made of yellow high-viz lace.

Um....

12.11.2025 14:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh my god, so young.

12.11.2025 08:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is the content I am here for!
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12.11.2025 08:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is the #history degree I am doing. I am doing it part-time. So part time it will take me 12 years! But history is about the long-haul, so that fits!

I am loving it! Happy to say why, if anyone wants to know.

12.11.2025 08:40 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I hate itvwhen legs don't work. Sending hugs. Can you see a physio?

12.11.2025 08:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Not watching the news is an important part of my mental health. I skim the Guardian and sometimes listen to newsy podcasts.

12.11.2025 08:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Two dogs chewing bones

Two dogs chewing bones

There was a moment yesterday when I thought "I must remember this for my daily blessings".

Can I remember what it was?

Can I, hell!

But the weather was good. I took rubbish to the tip. The dogs loved their bones.

And reminding myself of those joys has made me feel better.

#mentalhealth

12.11.2025 08:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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