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Dr. Julie Shafer

@drjulieshafer.com.bsky.social

πŸ’‘ Psychologist & Relationship Coach 🌟 Helping people overcome people-pleasing πŸ₯° Love my dog, hiking, and playing games with friends.

101 Followers  |  99 Following  |  17 Posts  |  Joined: 16.11.2024  |  1.7783

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You're Being Played
YouTube video by PoliticsGirl You're Being Played

Well said @politicsgirl.bsky.social
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17.02.2025 21:50 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Withdrawal is hard. I’m currently running ads and FB makes it easy. Other than that I’m not there much at all.

18.01.2025 21:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is going to wind its way through the legal system before it’s recognized as officially part of the Constitution. No need to spend energy talking about whether it’s certified or not. We need to get behind efforts to enforce it as an amendment.

17.01.2025 22:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey! Good to see you here 🩷

17.01.2025 22:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s great to see the potential in someone but don’t love the potential, love the progress. Potential isn’t growth or improvement, it’s never more than the idea that someone could possibly one day grow into something they currently are not.

17.12.2024 06:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is me and my guy, and he’s the clean one 🀣

16.12.2024 05:23 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Be brave πŸ’«

15.12.2024 07:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
7 People-Pleasing Habits Sabotaging Your Happiness
YouTube video by Julie Shafer 7 People-Pleasing Habits Sabotaging Your Happiness

These 7 relationship patterns aren't doing you any favors. youtu.be/PDy2qc5XQcI

13.12.2024 15:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I totally miss reading this way

12.12.2024 06:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How adorable πŸ₯°

10.12.2024 05:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Tia my 12year old Golden Retriever on a damp October morning

Tia my 12year old Golden Retriever on a damp October morning

This my sweetheart Tia. She’s my 12-year-old Golden Retriever. She loves peanut butter, bananas, bacon and anything I’m eating 🀣 Show me a pic of your furbaby.

09.12.2024 05:48 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Haha! I had a similar conversation with a guy who didn't see the point of unloading his dishwasher.

09.12.2024 01:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Are You Selfish? Here's How To Know! | #selfish #selfishness #selfishpeople
YouTube video by Julie Shafer Are You Selfish? Here's How To Know! | #selfish #selfishness #selfishpeople

Being selfish is a pleaser's worst nightmare. Here's how to know if you're selfish and if you're not (chances are you're not πŸ˜‰) youtu.be/suGNZPLou58

08.12.2024 22:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Because they follow those leaders without questioning them (an important aspect of all this nonsense), they don't see a problem with "truth" coming from people who are morally corrupt.

06.12.2024 15:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Find Kyle Benson at kylebenson.net. His podcast is "Roadmap to Secure Love Podcast."

06.12.2024 00:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Stop The Conflicts: Unlocking Relationship Harmony With Kyle Benson
YouTube video by Julie Shafer Stop The Conflicts: Unlocking Relationship Harmony With Kyle Benson

Relationship expert, Kyle Benson, and I did an interview about navigating fights in a healthier way. Here's a video of our discussion: youtu.be/HqSpXesnXus

06.12.2024 00:32 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Looking to connect with fellow people-pleasers. We gotta support each other!

05.12.2024 18:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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