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Preparing for civil war or suppression of legitimate protest? Both are chilling.

Intermittent Kindness: How Abusers Alternate Care and Cruelty to Keep You Trapped Uncover the power of intermittent kindness in abusive relationships. Explore the psychological dynamic that keeps victims trapped.

Abuse is a deliberate blend of kindness and cruelty that keeps victims emotionally trapped. Survivors reveal how this confusing cycle of warmth and hostility left them feeling unable to leave.

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Abusers will erode your identity until you don’t recognise yourself anymore.
#CoerciveControl

Understanding Cyberstalking and Online Manipulation in Coercive Control The rise of digital technologies has transformed many aspects of our lives, offering new avenues for communication, learning, and engagement.

Digital coercive control is on the rise. Cyberstalking, online manipulation, and surveillance are modern tools abusers use to trap their victims. Learn more and support my work on Substack. #CoerciveControl

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Victims need understanding ..where there is disclosure.. respect.. trauma informed...understanding barriers in culture/language... No prejudice.... victim blaming.... minimising...and most of all...trauma informed practice with specialists if required.

Isolation, dependence, and total control—this is how coercive control erodes your identity piece by piece.
#domesticabuseawareness #emotionalabuse

a man is screaming and saying run em hard ALT: a man is screaming and saying run em hard

X is now one giant pileup of propagated hate they want to blame on everyone but themselves

I have never, in hundreds & hundreds of sessions, met a trauma survivor who wanted to be "rescued."

I HAVE met hundreds of survivors who wanted to be seen & supported in rescuing themselves-- & caring for the past version of themselves who actually did need rescuing at one time.

lol I totally get it! Especially because we NEED the validation. It helps us heal. It’s actually like such an important part of being able to heal! Especially because the abuse itself, is often predicated on gaslighting you about the whole situation

YouTube video by Modern Law Divorce and Family Law Attorneys Coercive Control: The Hidden Abuse You Need to Know

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#workplacementalhealth

This podcast is about so much more than celebrities. It’s about social engineering & manipulation of the masses

Heyyy checking in. Been a while. How’s everyone here holding up?

It’s perhaps the most dangerous, because it’s “invisible” — coercive control is the abuser’s playbook. It’s your freedom, sense of self & independence they steal right out from underneath you

The Abuse You Can’t See: How Abusers Control Without Ever Saying “No” When people imagine abuse, they often picture a partner shouting orders, laying down rules, or forbidding certain behaviours outright.

Coercive control is invisible abuse, stripping away freedom piece by piece. Survivors describe how silence, subtle punishments & relentless pressure grind them down until saying “yes” feels like the only way to survive. What looks like choice from the outside is, in reality, captivity in disguise.

Who Trolled Amber?

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In The Media: Netflix’s 'Maid' Illuminates the Shadows of Emotional Abuse Netflix's groundbreaking series Maid brought the conversation about domestic abuse into the forefront of media discourse, challenging long-held misconceptions and illuminating the complex realities of emotional abuse and coercive control.

Abuse isn’t always physical. Netflix’s Maid reveals the hidden damage of coercive control and emotional abuse — the invisible prison survivors fight to escape.

Read more on my Substack.

#DomesticAbuseAwareness

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Propaganda I'm not falling for:
- Meghan Markle hate
- Amber Heard hate
- Halle Bailey hate
- Rachel Zegler hate
- Bella Ramsey hate
- Blake Lively hate
- Megan Thee Stallion hate
- Brie Larson hate
- Cassie Ventura hate

One of the basic human rights a narcissist takes away from you is the right to be angry with them. No matter how badly they treated you, your voice shouldn't rise.
The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.

I’m honored to be a part of the Love and Money Summit with 30 other speakers. I will speaking on the Cult in the Home: Children of Coercive Control. Thank you @tracycoenen for creating this opportunity going live on March 25th to March 27th. Sign up here: divorcemoneyguide.com/summit/

Anyway

Are you always the one apologizing? In healthy relationships, both people share accountability, but in abusive dynamics, abusers use blame-shifting to ensure you’re always the one feeling guilty—no matter who’s really at fault. #coercivecontrol

wish he'd get on one of his own rockets some time

They will also up their game of sabotage while pointing to your failure

The UK Judgement...
The "Who Trolled Amber ?" podcast..
The Nathan strategy repeated in the Baldoni matter..
Do you believe her now ?