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@sayini.bsky.social

Curiosity-driven, laugh advocate, and a professional nap enthusiast โ€” Writing my way through lifeโ€™s journey ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Progress Without Trophies: How Many Times Can You Say โ€˜We Go Againโ€™? Iโ€™ve been an Arsenal fan for almost five years. I got back into football during the pandemicโ€”sports were always a way to bond with my dad growing up, and working from home finally let me watch matcโ€ฆ

Arsenal: the kings of progress FC. No trophies, but heyโ€”we almost did it really well! My latest piece on the eternal cycle of โ€˜next season is oursโ€™. sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/05/10/p...

10.05.2025 19:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Words I Took Years to Say Sharing my coming out story after years of fear and silence. In honor of Lesbian Visibility Week, I reflect on finding the courage to live openly and the power of finally being seen. Growing Up Gayโ€ฆ

Realizing I was gay wasnโ€™t the hard part โ€” telling my family was. In honor of Lesbian Visibility Week, Iโ€™m sharing my coming out story sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/04/26/t...

26.04.2025 14:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From Playground Crushes to First Love Drama A personal journey of discovering my sexuality from childhood to early adulthood, exploring queer identity, love, and the emotional ups and downs of first crushes and first heartbreaksโ€”Childhood anโ€ฆ

I decided to share something deeply personal about figuring out my sexuality, falling (hard), and learning what love really looks like โ€” from my playground crushes to the first messy college love. Hope you enjoy it: sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/04/13/f...

14.04.2025 12:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Paradox of Wanting a Relationship Without Looking for It Struggling to find love? Youโ€™re not alone. Explore why finding meaningful connections seems harder than ever and how stepping out of your comfort zone can shift your dating journey. Now that โ€ฆ

They say love finds you when you least expect itโ€”but does that mean we should just sit around and wait? I explored the fine line between effort and fate when it comes to finding love #SayiHowItIs sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/02/23/t...

24.02.2025 18:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Slow Burned Myself Into Adulthood An only childโ€™s story of breaking free from toxic family dynamics, rediscovering independence, and learning to set boundaries as an adult. Childhood Dreams and Early Struggles for IndependenceEver โ€ฆ

Recently, during an emotional time, I poured my thoughts into writing about shifting family dynamics, my quest for independence, and learning boundaries as an adult. It ended up being pretty raw, reflective, and real. โœ๏ธ #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #Family sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/01/18/s...

20.01.2025 14:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Evolution of Girl Groups: From Spice Girls to K-Pop Powerhouses From Spice Girls to aespa, explore how girl groups have evolved from unity-focused teams to embracing individual projects as a standard for success.A Lifelong Love for Girl GroupsIโ€™ve been a fan ofโ€ฆ

The way girl groups are marketed has changedโ€”individual projects are now almost essential for promoting the group as a whole. Itโ€™s an exciting shift in the music industry and one of my favorite topics to dive into! ๐Ÿ‘ฏโ€โ™€๏ธโ™€๏ธ๐Ÿช„
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15.01.2025 17:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Beyond Fear: Finding Courage Through Action Explore how embracing courage through action can help you overcome fear. Discover why confidence follows bravery and how to face your fears today.What is Fear? One emotion Iโ€™ve been trying to underโ€ฆ

Fear is inevitable, but it doesnโ€™t have to be paralyzing ๐Ÿ˜จ. In my latest piece, I explore what it means to act even when you're scaredโ€”and how confidence is often a result of action ๐Ÿ•น๏ธ
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14.01.2025 20:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Exploring Comfort Shows and Why We Love Them Discover why comfort shows like Gilmore Girls, Mad Men, and The Bear resonate deeply. Dive into the psychology of slow-paced storytelling and why it captivates us.Iโ€™ve been watching TV shows and moโ€ฆ

Why do we love comfort shows like Gilmore Girls, The Bear, and Mad Men? ๐Ÿค” Dive into the psychology behind slow-paced storytelling and how these shows offer emotional depth and introspection ๐Ÿ“บ๐Ÿ›‹๏ธ Letโ€™s celebrate the beauty of storytelling! #TVShows #Storytelling
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13.01.2025 16:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Why I Started Writing and Why You Should Too Discover how writing can bring clarity, reduce anxiety, and unlock creativity. Learn why I started writing, the benefits Iโ€™ve gained, and why you should start your own journey today. Iโ€™ve always loโ€ฆ

Ever thought about starting to write but felt unsure? I share how writing improved my life and helps me overcome anxiety. Here's why I started writingโ€”and why you should too. โœ๏ธ #WritingJourney #MentalHealth #SelfDiscovery #Inspiration sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/01/08/w...

08.01.2025 18:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sugar Highs, Low Moods: Living with Insulin Resistance I was first diagnosed with insulin resistance when I was around 19. At the time, I was a picky eater with a notorious sweet tooth. I loved sugary snacks so much that they probably made up more of mโ€ฆ

Iโ€™ve been dealing with insulin resistance for years, and itโ€™s brought some grumpy times, but also some big lessons. I'm sharing how itโ€™s shaped my diet and lifestyle ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฅค sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/01/04/s...

04.01.2025 21:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you so much for reading and sharing it! I wish you the best with all your habit changes this year ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

04.01.2025 18:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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2025: The Year of Tiny Habits and Big Changes Recently, I listened to a podcast about habit change, and one piece of advice stood out: make habits as small as possible so they donโ€™t feel unfamiliar. When habits feel manageable, youโ€™re more incโ€ฆ

I'm learning that big changes start with small tweaks. โœจ Want to stick to new habits this year ? Make them easier, familiar, and part of your routine. Read my latest post on how small adjustments can lead to lasting improvements: sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/01/03/2...

04.01.2025 16:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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Meghan Markle Returns to Public Life with Netflix Lifestyle Series Meghan Markle has finally returned to Instagram after a 7-year hiatus, and itโ€™s safe to say her 30-second beach video announcing her comeback has caused a full-on media frenzy, as expected from anyโ€ฆ

Meghan Markle is back on Instagram and has a new Netflix show coming soon! ๐ŸŽฌ๐ŸŒŸ In my latest post, I dive into what โ€˜With Love, Meghanโ€™ means for her public comeback and how it's shaping up to be the next big lifestyle series. Will you be watching? ๐Ÿ‘€ sayiarly.wordpress.com/2025/01/03/m...

03.01.2025 17:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Fresh Start: How 2025โ€™s Color, Zodiac, and Numerology Align for Personal Growth As the new year begins, I find myself reflecting on the potential it holdsโ€”especially when I consider the symbolic elements that weave together, offering insights into what lies ahead. Perhaps Iโ€™m โ€ฆ

Unveiling 2025: The Year of the Wood Snake ๐Ÿ, the energy of the number 9, and the grounding tone of Mocha Mousse ๐ŸคŽ. Iโ€™m exploring what these symbols reveal about the year ahead ๐Ÿช„
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03.01.2025 00:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Bittersweet that Saka had to get injured for Nwaneri to finally get a start in the Premier League, I'm excited to see him start a match although I'm not sure how he's gonna fair in that position ๐Ÿค”

01.01.2025 16:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A BIG Reminder to Stay Young and Playful I recently watched Tom Hanksโ€™ 80s classic Big, a heartwarming story about a 13-year-old boy who wishes to be โ€œbigโ€ on a mysterious carnival machine called Zoltar. The next morning, he wakes uโ€ฆ

Happy New Year, everyone! ๐ŸŽ‰ If you're looking for a feel-good movie to kickstart 2025, I'd recommend Big. I watched it recently and couldnโ€™t help but write a post about it. Check it out! #BigMovie #FeelGoodMovies #NewYearVibes sayiarly.wordpress.com/2024/12/30/a...

01.01.2025 14:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sayi Goodbye to People-Pleasing: Embracing Myself in 2024 This year didnโ€™t turn out the way I imagined, expected, or dreamed. I spent a long period feeling sorry for myself over it, but I think what I didnโ€™t understand at first was that I needed thiโ€ฆ

2024 taught me some of one of the hardest lessons: stop pleasing others, start setting boundaries, and reconnect with myself. As the year ends, Iโ€™m reflecting on this chapter and looking ahead to 2025 ๐Ÿค“โœจ sayiarly.wordpress.com/2024/12/29/s...

30.12.2024 01:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sayiโ€™s frame of mind: Embracing Life in HD At the beginning of 2024, I sensed a shift within myselfโ€”jokingly calling it my โ€œthird eyeโ€ opening. Throughout the year, I kept seeing tarot readings on TikTok telling me I was about to start seeiโ€ฆ

Lately I'm seeing things from a different perspectiveโ€”literally. My latest post is about adjusting to life with glasses ๐Ÿค“ and the little things you never think about until you need them. Check it out: sayiarly.wordpress.com/2024/12/17/s...

18.12.2024 12:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Born to Celebrate Together: A Tale of Two Birthdays Today is a special dayย -itโ€™sย myย birthday. Yes, happy birthday to meโ€”and also to my mom. Or should I say, happy birthday to us? Thatโ€™s right, we share the same birthday. I was born on a Sunday, Deceโ€ฆ

Today's my birthday -but I'm not celebrating alone ๐ŸŽ‰ My mom and I were born on the same day 23 years apart. We've shared a lifetime of cakes, laughs and memories together. Here's the story of our shared special day: sayiarly.wordpress.com/2024/12/11/b... #BirthdayStories #SagittariusSeason

11.12.2024 09:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sayi it in two languages: the joy of being bilingual My native language is Spanish, as you could probably tell if you read my previous post and know where Venezuela is located on a map. So, you might be wondering why Iโ€™m writing this post in English.โ€ฆ

I wrote about growing up loving languages and the joy and struggles that come with it. I think being #bilingual is a superpower and also a hilarious challenge especially when my brain decides to mix languages mid-sentence #writing sayiarly.wordpress.com/2024/12/09/s...

09.12.2024 20:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Arsenal have created an open play expected goal in one of their last eight Premier League matches. Across the season as a whole it's three of 15.

They rank 13th in the Premier League for open play xG.

08.12.2024 16:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 410    ๐Ÿ” 66    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 47    ๐Ÿ“Œ 41
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Just six shots from open play.

With this game state and the need to win here thatโ€™s simply not good enough. You can talk about (and I have) how open play leads to us generating corner opportunities but this team can and should be able to better than this.

09.12.2024 10:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 23    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

14 goals scored since Odegaard returned to the starting XI.

That's in 3.5 games of football...

30.11.2024 18:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 164    ๐Ÿ” 22    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3
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Gisรจle Pelicot graces the cover of vogue germany, on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women

26.11.2024 05:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 987    ๐Ÿ” 266    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 26    ๐Ÿ“Œ 22

Real โ€œand I took that personallyโ€ vibes around Martin Odegaard at the moment.

A man on a mission.

26.11.2024 20:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 671    ๐Ÿ” 33    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 13    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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Arsenal player ratings vs Sporting: Gabriel, Saliba and Odegaard superb in thumping 5-1 win Arsenal claimed a first away win of the season in the Champions League thanks to a superb first half performance in Portugal

That was a real statement win from Arsenal in Europe. Saliba and Gabriel outstanding against Gyokeres, Odegaard superb, especially in the first half.

Player ratings ๐Ÿ‘‡

26.11.2024 21:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 735    ๐Ÿ” 33    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 6
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Martin Odegaard revives Arsenal and their title challenge: How the Gunners' creative force is 'different' The Norwegian returned on Saturday and delivered as the Gunners looked dominant

Martin Odegaard is back. So are Arsenal.

Oh and did you see what he did for the second goal? www.cbssports.com/soccer/news/...

23.11.2024 20:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 151    ๐Ÿ” 9    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

People dressed as Nazis are Nazis this isn't a street performance of Sound of Music

16.11.2024 21:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5762    ๐Ÿ” 1283    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 108    ๐Ÿ“Œ 29

As long as they don't get cute and try to put in a revenue model for users how Twitter/X did it's fine. Free to use vs premier features for those who want it + tip jar/subscription type thing.

13.11.2024 18:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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